27.04.2019 - Men and Women and Gender mean problems etc...

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May 11, 2012 - Men and Women mean problems... by dali48 on HP


08.04.2001 - Interpretation by dali48

If you do not give up sex consistently and cultivate other "joys of couples" - that can compensate for the deficiency - then the relationship will... - because of great dissatisfaction... (D. Stiemerling)

The most frequently selected psychological and psychosomatic disorders include:
Anxiety & phobias, depression, nervous exhaustion, gastrointestinal diseases, cardiac neurosis, headaches, back problems, insomnia, sexual disorders, addictions... - and suicidal...
So it's true that "bringing together men and women does not always match - that love is an illusion... - marriage is a legalized prostitution - that men are selfish and only have... - in the head - that women only see the... - in their husband and are just looking for their children - otherwise they don't need him"...
Depression, phobias, psychosomatic disorders... - are only a failed attempt to stabilize again the tipping emotional balance...

Don't believe a single word I have... - I am not a scientist and not a guru - Check for yourself - what is said now and in the future... (A. Howley)

Gender - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender

Gender is the range of characteristics pertaining to, and differentiating between, masculinity ... This change in the meaning of gender can be traced to the 1980s. .... Categorizing males and females into social roles creates a problem, because ...

‎Sex and gender distinction · ‎Gender identity · ‎Gender queer · ‎Grammatical gender

• Golden Snow Golden Snow wow ! interesting way of seeing sex , marriage , love it is an illusion , I think we expect too much from each other and expect the " high " we receive from new love to continue ... if both put more into relationship to continue with love it could survive ... usually hurt and failure separate the two ... I found staying in the relationship hurting ... for both ... unhappiness brings feelings of anxiety and deep depression ... unworthiness ...

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 dali48 and writing books and cycling and photographing etc...

see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 and Climate Change since ca. 2000 and "Banking Crisis" 2008 and poor people and social diseases and speculation and homelessness and robots etc. - instead of UBI & Ecology - Uncontrolled capitalism produces evil as bees produce...

see dali48 and Climate Change and heat waves and dryness and burning and also floods and Hurricanes etc. - since ca. 2000 and despite Copenhagen 2009 etc. - instead of #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & UBI etc...

Don't see swallows here in Wickrath (2018) as before at Lake Unterbach where they were deeply flying before the rain, and were nearly touching my head till 2010... (dali48)

see E. Kuebler-Ross and R. Moody and Near Death Experiences - and my own experiences in the 80s and 12/2011 etc... (dali48)

see our planet and environment and deforestation and climate change and pollution and destructive traffic everywhere - instead of #ZeroHunger, UBI and surviving etc... (dali48)

see dali48 and world view 1968 etc. - compared with 1989 and 2008 etc...

Deposit on plastic & better recycling & cleaning, see e.g. www.rhinecleanup.org & biodegradable "plastic" bags - instead of polluting rivers & lakes & sea with waste etc... (dali48)
Concerning overfishing & polluting & damaging the oceans with garbage patches & ‘dead zones’ etc. - instead of e.g. www.rhinecleanup.org, see Golding & "Man produces evil - as Bees produce honey" etc... (dali48)

see @UNrightswire, see Human Rights & Clean Air & Drinking Water & Food & UBI - instead of destructive traffic, e.g. @BeijingAir & privatisation of drinking water & other violations etc... (dali48)

see dali48 and reading and writing and walking and cycling and photographing - and without car since 2004 etc... 

Why bees etc. - are dying by the billions see pesticides and #Neonics http://bit.ly/1vJ6vI6 = 5000 times more toxic to bees than DDT etc... (dali48)

see dali48 and Human Rights (1948), warning of neo-fascism since 1989, and of Climate Change, and for Net Neutrality & Ecology & Biodiversity since ca. 2000, and for UBI instead of HartzIV and ground rent, and against lobby donations and wealth concentration since 2008 and against
80 000 Millions for arms etc...
see Ban of Basic Rights & Net Neutrality & Privacy - instead of democratic control of #Polizeigesetz and introducing a UBI etc... (dali48)

see National Socialist tyranny and History produced evil - as Bees produced honey etc... (dali48)

see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989, of Climate Change, and for Ecology & Biodiversity since ca. 2000, and for UBI since 2008... Why is there no Basic Income in Europe etc. - instead of Hartz IV and "Banking Crisis" 2008 and neo-fascism etc.? (dali48)

 Steven David Horwich ‏@homeschoolcurr Want to ban homeschool? So did the Nazis. Read about it at bit.ly/lZkLNv... Retweeted by dali48

siehe dali48 und "Petition unterschreiben Bundesrat: AFD nach Artikel 21 GG verbieten lassen... change.org"

see dali48 and deforestation and Climate and species extinction by pesticides, leaf blowers etc. - and Human Rights violations instead of Biodiversity and UBI etc...

see beautiful wildflower havens and UBI - instead of tax havens and violations of Human Rights etc... (dali48)ied account

see @BeijingAir04-11-2019 17:00; PM2.5; 46.0; 127; Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups (at 24-hour exposure at this level)... (dali48) 

03-07-2019 23:00; PM2.5; 41.0; 115; Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups (at 24-hour exposure at this level).... (dali48)

21 hours ago

10-15-2018 02:00; PM2.5; 164.0; 214; Very Unhealthy (at 24-hour exposure at this level)  Con Gen ShanghaiAir ‏@CGShanghaiAir 10-09-2018 22:00; PM2.5; 47.0; 130; Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups (at 24-hour exposure at this...

see Con Gen ShanghaiAir ‏@CGShanghaiAir  04-11-2019 17:00; PM2.5; 48.0; 132; Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups (at 24-hour exposure at this level)...

GuangzhouAir‏Verified account @Guangzhou_Air 01-15-2019 18:00; PM2.5; 37.0; 105; Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups (at 24-hour exposure at this level)26 minutes ago

More01-15-2019 18:00; PM2.5; 37.0; 105; Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups (at 24-hour exposure at this level)

see dali48 and "Those who will exclude any of God's creatures from the shelter of compassion and pity (see e.g. chick shredding etc.) - will deal likewise with their fellow man." (Francis of Assisi)

see bumble bees and bees again on lavender during my daily walk in the park since June 2018 etc... (dali48)

see Climate Change & alternative energy as eg wind power & solar energy & ecars & solar cooker & solar lamp since the 70s etc... (dali48)

I'm against the waste of Food as long as there is no UBI and ca.1 Billion people are hungry - and there are not enough soup kitchens - and hungry animals come into town etc... (dali48)

No foodwaste as long as there are ca.1 Billion hungry people - instead of foodsecurity & enough bees & biodiversity etc. - and why isn't there a UBI etc.? (dali48)

see dali48 and psychology and Freud, Adler, Jung, and Frankl, Fromm, Reich, and Laing, Cooper etc...

see dali48 and bird's visit at his skylight in Wickrath and fresh water etc. - see seagulls from the coast of the Netherlands coming for fodder in winter - see "Flora and Fauna" since ca.2000 etc... 

see Climate Change & alternative energy as eg wind power & solar energy & ecars & solar cooker & solar lamp since the 70s etc... (dali48)

see dali48 and "The majority of diseases that plague humanity are all rooted in a polluted environment"... (Change.org)  

We are all a part of 'UN' see @UNrightswire - UN should ban politicians & Nations who make immoral laws & violate Human Rights etc... (dali48)
see dali48 and "Bread instead of fireworks" and "flora & fauna" etc ...
"Where they ban private tuition and books - they also ban teachers and authors at the end" ... (dali48, 2019)
see dali48 and why don't these millionaires unite - and pay a smallest UBI to many of the poorest of people?

 henk tennekes ‏@tennekes_tox

Das grosse Neonics Desaster. Seit 1995 sind bis zu 80 Prozent der Biomasse aller Fluginsekten in NRW verschwunden http://www.farmlandbirds.net/de/content/innerhalb-der-vergangenen-20-jahre-sind-bis-zu-80-prozent-der-biomasse-aller-fluginsekten-no …
Concerning road traffic: Urban areas must be safer for pedestrians and cyclists etc... (dali48)
see History & Genocides of Natives & Minorities & Scapegoats instead of @UNHumanRights and Protection of #environmentdefenders etc... (dali48)
see Ban of Basic Rights and Net Neutrality & Privacy - instead of saving the Internet and introducing UBI etc. (dali48, 2019)

Greta Thunberg‏Verified account @GretaThunberg Apr 14

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On the train to the EU Parliament, the Italian Senate, the Vatican and House of Parliament during the Easter holiday. And on Friday I’ll participate in the school strike in Rome. I know it’s a holiday but since the climate crisis doesn’t go on vacation nor will we. #Climatestrike
see dali48 and Deforestation and Climate Change and #ExtinctionRebelion and Human Rights violations instead of UBI etc...

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27.04.2019 - Psychologically sacrificed children and coping strategies etc...

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April 28, 2010 - 1Sacrificed children and spiritual Sources... by dali48 on HP


26.05.2001 - Interpretation of dali48 

Part1
Our lack of mutual respect is specific not only for family... - We carry the lessons learned from our home into a modern social... - which often has the same lack of respect for individuals, communities and nature - as the dysfunctional family for its... (C. Grof) 

How do we survive in a world - that does not recognize and respect our sacred uniqueness? - We are producing clever survival... - that remove, stun or deal our... - in order to defend ourselves against external sources of our difficulties...  
Many of abused children develop a well-attuned... - an intuitive or psychic "scanner" - which helps them to anticipate, see through and outmaneuver...- The intuition comes from our deeper "self" (see phylogenetic and ontogenetic unconsciousness etc. - d.48), from the spiritual resources - that are beyond our ordinary faculties...  
We escape the pain around us by having our retreat to a safe... - of the imagination, illusions, or in the transpersonal realms... 
Injured children defend, maintain and strengthen... - by the temporary withdrawal from daily life - They give off guard by the fact that they separate their consciousness from the... - so that they do not have to take note of their actual circumstances, or deal with... - This inner sanctuary... - offers the child... - safety and comfort... 
It reflects its unconscious attempt to provide for... - In this inner realm, it... - can feel a kind of "divine" help, a mystical care supply... - the unconditional solace and connection - that they can not get in their outer... - This may even be its first mystical experience... 
Researchers have found that there is a... - by which the consciousness of the victim triggers itself from its terrible condition... - when the pain reaches a certain point - The victim suddenly changes into a state of consciousness that exists beyond the... - It transcends the pain and often experiences an ecstatic state in the middle of chaos... (W. James)

Coping (psychology) - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coping_(psychology)

In psychology, coping means to invest own conscious effort, to solve personal and interpersonal problems, in order to try to master, minimize or tolerate stress and conflict. The psychological coping mechanisms are commonly termed coping strategies ..... Children might react to parental in-differences by displaying anger or hostility ...

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 amazon.com/author/dali48 Share  
this URL:  diary3 by dali48 on twitter   

 dali48 and writing books and cycling and photographing etc...

see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 and Climate Change since ca. 2000 and "Banking Crisis" 2008 and poor people and social diseases and speculation and homelessness and robots etc. - instead of UBI & Ecology - Uncontrolled capitalism produces evil as bees produce...

see dali48 and Climate Change and heat waves and dryness and burning and also floods and Hurricanes etc. - since ca. 2000 and despite Copenhagen 2009 etc. - instead of #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & UBI etc...

Don't see swallows here in Wickrath (2018) as before at Lake Unterbach where they were deeply flying before the rain, and were nearly touching my head till 2010... (dali48)

see E. Kuebler-Ross and R. Moody and Near Death Experiences - and my own experiences in the 80s and 12/2011 etc... (dali48)

see our planet and environment and deforestation and climate change and pollution and destructive traffic everywhere - instead of #ZeroHunger, UBI and surviving etc... (dali48)

see dali48 and world view 1968 etc. - compared with 1989 and 2008 etc...

Deposit on plastic & better recycling & cleaning, see e.g. www.rhinecleanup.org & biodegradable "plastic" bags - instead of polluting rivers & lakes & sea with waste etc... (dali48)
Concerning overfishing & polluting & damaging the oceans with garbage patches & ‘dead zones’ etc. - instead of e.g. www.rhinecleanup.org, see Golding & "Man produces evil - as Bees produce honey" etc... (dali48)

see @UNrightswire, see Human Rights & Clean Air & Drinking Water & Food & UBI - instead of destructive traffic, e.g. @BeijingAir & privatisation of drinking water & other violations etc... (dali48)

see dali48 and reading and writing and walking and cycling and photographing - and without car since 2004 etc... 

Why bees etc. - are dying by the billions see pesticides and #Neonics http://bit.ly/1vJ6vI6 = 5000 times more toxic to bees than DDT etc... (dali48)

see dali48 and Human Rights (1948), warning of neo-fascism since 1989, and of Climate Change, and for Net Neutrality & Ecology & Biodiversity since ca. 2000, and for UBI instead of HartzIV and ground rent, and against lobby donations and wealth concentration since 2008 and against
80 000 Millions for arms etc...
see Ban of Basic Rights & Net Neutrality & Privacy - instead of democratic control of #Polizeigesetz and introducing a UBI etc... (dali48)

see National Socialist tyranny and History produced evil - as Bees produced honey etc... (dali48)

see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989, of Climate Change, and for Ecology & Biodiversity since ca. 2000, and for UBI since 2008... Why is there no Basic Income in Europe etc. - instead of Hartz IV and "Banking Crisis" 2008 and neo-fascism etc.? (dali48)

 Steven David Horwich ‏@homeschoolcurr Want to ban homeschool? So did the Nazis. Read about it at bit.ly/lZkLNv... Retweeted by dali48

siehe dali48 und "Petition unterschreiben Bundesrat: AFD nach Artikel 21 GG verbieten lassen... change.org"

see dali48 and deforestation and Climate and species extinction by pesticides, leaf blowers etc. - and Human Rights violations instead of Biodiversity and UBI etc...

see beautiful wildflower havens and UBI - instead of tax havens and violations of Human Rights etc... (dali48)ied account

see @BeijingAir04-11-2019 17:00; PM2.5; 46.0; 127; Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups (at 24-hour exposure at this level)... (dali48) 

03-07-2019 23:00; PM2.5; 41.0; 115; Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups (at 24-hour exposure at this level).... (dali48)

21 hours ago

10-15-2018 02:00; PM2.5; 164.0; 214; Very Unhealthy (at 24-hour exposure at this level)  Con Gen ShanghaiAir ‏@CGShanghaiAir 10-09-2018 22:00; PM2.5; 47.0; 130; Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups (at 24-hour exposure at this...

see Con Gen ShanghaiAir ‏@CGShanghaiAir  04-11-2019 17:00; PM2.5; 48.0; 132; Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups (at 24-hour exposure at this level)...

GuangzhouAir‏Verified account @Guangzhou_Air 01-15-2019 18:00; PM2.5; 37.0; 105; Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups (at 24-hour exposure at this level)26 minutes ago

More01-15-2019 18:00; PM2.5; 37.0; 105; Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups (at 24-hour exposure at this level)

see dali48 and "Those who will exclude any of God's creatures from the shelter of compassion and pity (see e.g. chick shredding etc.) - will deal likewise with their fellow man." (Francis of Assisi)

see bumble bees and bees again on lavender during my daily walk in the park since June 2018 etc... (dali48)

see Climate Change & alternative energy as eg wind power & solar energy & ecars & solar cooker & solar lamp since the 70s etc... (dali48)

I'm against the waste of Food as long as there is no UBI and ca.1 Billion people are hungry - and there are not enough soup kitchens - and hungry animals come into town etc... (dali48)

No foodwaste as long as there are ca.1 Billion hungry people - instead of foodsecurity & enough bees & biodiversity etc. - and why isn't there a UBI etc.? (dali48)

see dali48 and psychology and Freud, Adler, Jung, and Frankl, Fromm, Reich, and Laing, Cooper etc...

see dali48 and bird's visit at his skylight in Wickrath and fresh water etc. - see seagulls from the coast of the Netherlands coming for fodder in winter - see "Flora and Fauna" since ca.2000 etc... 

see Climate Change & alternative energy as eg wind power & solar energy & ecars & solar cooker & solar lamp since the 70s etc... (dali48)

see dali48 and "The majority of diseases that plague humanity are all rooted in a polluted environment"... (Change.org)  

We are all a part of 'UN' see @UNrightswire - UN should ban politicians & Nations who make immoral laws & violate Human Rights etc... (dali48)
see dali48 and "Bread instead of fireworks" and "flora & fauna" etc ...
"Where they ban private tuition and books - they also ban teachers and authors at the end" ... (dali48, 2019)
see dali48 and why don't these millionaires unite - and pay a smallest UBI to many of the poorest of people?

 henk tennekes ‏@tennekes_tox

Das grosse Neonics Desaster. Seit 1995 sind bis zu 80 Prozent der Biomasse aller Fluginsekten in NRW verschwunden http://www.farmlandbirds.net/de/content/innerhalb-der-vergangenen-20-jahre-sind-bis-zu-80-prozent-der-biomasse-aller-fluginsekten-no …
Concerning road traffic: Urban areas must be safer for pedestrians and cyclists etc... (dali48)
see History & Genocides of Natives & Minorities & Scapegoats instead of @UNHumanRights and Protection of #environmentdefenders etc... (dali48)
see Ban of Basic Rights and Net Neutrality & Privacy - instead of saving the Internet and introducing UBI etc. (dali48, 2019)

Greta Thunberg‏Verified account @GretaThunberg Apr 14

More

On the train to the EU Parliament, the Italian Senate, the Vatican and House of Parliament during the Easter holiday. And on Friday I’ll participate in the school strike in Rome. I know it’s a holiday but since the climate crisis doesn’t go on vacation nor will we. #Climatestrike
see dali48 and Deforestation and Climate Change and #ExtinctionRebelion and Human Rights violations instead of UBI etc...

Copyright Note

The text and all images on this page, unless otherwise indicated, are by Wolfgang G. Greiner (dali48)

who hereby asserts his copyright on the material. Should you wish to use any of the text or images feel free to do so with proper attribution and, if possible, a link back to this page. Thank you.

© Wolfgang G. Greiner (dali48) 8/2013 - 2019 etc...