see dali48 and "I think - therefore I am" etc. (Descartes)
Each day is our whole life - from sunrise to sunset etc… (dali48)
see dali48 and "Zen finds religion in the daily activities." (I-tuan)
Let go of something you like, and realize how fleeting it is by living without it... (Ayya Khema)
Buddha realized that all living beings suffer because they desire and cling ... - Peace is an inner attitude to life that consists of letting go and renunciation (see e.g. nuns & monks etc. - d.48) ... (Buddha)
„Das Leben im Daseinskreislauf ist leidvoll: Geburt ist Leiden, Altern ist Leiden, Krankheit ist Leiden, Tod ist Leiden; Kummer, Lamentieren, Schmerz und Verzweiflung sind Leiden." (Buddha)
see dali48 and own experiences and reading & writing about Kübler-Ross, Moody, NDE, LAL etc.
Hands that help are holier than lips that pray! (Robert Green Ingersoll)
see dali48 and Climate Change since Copenhagen 2009 etc. - "Uncontrolled capitalism is producing evil - as bees are producing honey" etc.
see dali48 and reading & writing about peace etc. - see e.g. Zen and Buddhism & Peace & Dalai Lama, Thich Nhat Hanh, Ayya Khema etc, and St Nicholas, St Hildegard, St Francis etc. (dali48)
see dali48 and eating less meat, and more fruits & veggies since the 80s etc.
Homeopathy of S. Hahnemann (ca. 200 years old) should be updated, - i.e. for me more Mother tincture & less medicine shaking, and why is there no homeopathic vaccination? - see "similibus" principle etc. (dali48)
see dali48 and "I hope that Biontech (formerly in Mainz, now in London) & #mRNA #vaccines etc. - will develop a vaccination against cancer etc."
see dali48 and Vollgeld-Initiative & Basic Income in Europe etc. - instead of Banking Crisis 2008 etc.
I also like weeping willow trees - e.g. when I was on camping vacation in the 80s in France & Spain, I had my lunch (fish soup) under such a tree (that was like a tent) in the park of Bordeaux etc. (dali48)
see dali48 and "flora & fauna" since ca. 2000, and deforestation instead of planting trees etc
see dali48 and trees and "flora & fauna" and healthy air etc..
see dali48 and Bread - instead of fire-works harming animals, pets etc.
see dali48 and Democracy & human rights & gender justice etc.
"Respect for life - should be the only religion in the world!" - "Religion is a journey inside - and meditation is the way there." ... (Osho)
see dali48 and health and suitable shoes & foot hygiene etc.
see dali48 and “If the Trees disappeared off the face of the earth - mankind would only have little left to live healthy,” see e.g. Amazonas forest, Indonesia etc, see e.g. @CGShanghaiAir Shanghai - 2023-03-06 4PM - PM2.5 - 103 AQI - Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups ... etc.
see dali48 and trees & photo synthesis and fresh air and health and cooling and biodiversity etc.
see dali48 and "flora & fauna" and reforesting etc.
siehe „Eine Gesellschaft ohne Gott, ist wie eine gut organisierte Räuberbande“, hat Papst Benedikt den Bundestagsabgeordneten ins Stammbuch geschrieben (see e.g. Cum-Ex etc. - d.48)
see dali48 and demand for the repayment of 300 euros of self-approved inflation compensation for politicians at the taxpayer's expense etc.
see dali48 and demand for the repayment of 300 euros of self-approved inflation compensation for politicians at the taxpayer's expense etc.
see dali48 and health and herbs (see e.g. M. Mességué), and e.g. kidney-tea, gastrointestinal tea, tea for colds etc.
see dali48 and "Words have no direct reference to life, are only a pale echo or image of something that itself is no longer there" ... (D. T. Suzuki)
see dali48's mother Gabriele and playing piano in Steinbach in the 50s, see dali48 and playing piano for 1 year with Mrs Kirsch in SHA in the 50s, and Christmas songs with Mrs Takahashi in Erkrath in the 80s
see dali48 and writing Tagebuch 2008 + 2009, diary3 (2010) in Erkrath, ediary4+5 (2011+2012), Collection of ediary6-12 (2013-2019) in Wickrath etc.
11.04.2000 – Interpretation of dali48
We must consider the rhythm of life of others! - We need harmony, a certain sense of togetherness! - Without this, no human coexistence is possible! ...
But this feeling of togetherness often breaks down in the first moment in itself because the individual does not live in accordance with himself, and his own rhythm of life! - The world and we (see the outside & the inside, etc.? - d.48) are one and the same. - There is absolutely no difference. - There is no other task than to create inner harmony, - so create love after all, emotional independence, satisfaction with ourselves, with the person who we are! ...
The harmony is not based on longing for love and recognition. - On the contrary, we give recognition and love. - This is so simple and it works! ...
Wrong strategies to cope with suffering:
1 Run away - because the trouble is in the heart and thus is everywhere! ...
2 make others responsible for it (see scapegoat syndrome, etc. – d.48)! …
3 be depressed. - The only two causes of suffering is the craving to want to have something, - or to want to get rid of something which we do not want. - Desires and sufferings are interdependent! …
The result is: you must let go desires, - in order to have not to suffer!... (A. Khema)
So my belief applies as well to the psychiatric diagnostic methodology that the feeling can be much more sensitive - than the mind sharp! ... (V. Frankl)
Unemployment rose, the environmental damage from the construction times have been overlooked, - environmental disasters and wars contradicted the "feel good" as a lifestyle! - Many psychiatrists see this incompatibility of individual needs and objectives on the one hand, - and the real conditions of life on the other hand as the reason for more and more depressive disorders! ... (Glaeske / Günther / Keller)
The question is not: "Why do I suffer? - But what for?" ... Just today, where fears about the future and identity crisis among young people, - and not only among them, - are as sharp as may never before! ... (Image of Science)
Wrong strategies to cope with suffering etc.
Why do we suffer?
Experiment in a canton in Switzerland (1981):
1 year, no report on suicides in the media (see TV, newspaper, radio, etc. - d.48), - the suicide rate fell by 90% (i.e. for me: the television, etc. is tempting especially children and young people, - to be imitated, - it follows to show as little as possible destructive news, – and showing instead constructive literature, biographies, diaries, films, etc. - d.48)! ...
Thoughts, feelings and fantasies are judged and condemned as if they are acts! - This Pauline equation - that thinking is as bad as the action that the boundary between inside and outside is lifted in ethical judgments, - has the most devastating psychological consequences! - Exactly this is also one of the premises of totalitarianism ( see e.g. 1933 till 1945 etc. - d.48)! ...
When I look at Augustin (see the harpist, Wilhelm Meister's Apprenticeship), who has plunged into debt as a clumsy child, - it is the same with me, - as if this debt has rubbed off - that it has transferred from the father. - He parried it by charging his children with it! ...
The inevitability of becoming guilty under the terror pressure of ruthless, cruel parents - reminds me of the perfidy of totalitarian dictators! - The tormentor uses fancy tricks to let become the victims of abuse themselves guilty (see Perpetrator-victim- reversal etc. - d.48) to give them only the choice between two evils, - you save your life, - and your family or friends are condemned to death! - No one who survived the dictatorship is without blame! ...
So it was with all the injuries! - Each accident was punishable as a crime, - and no one gave solace in pain! - Of this it comes the suppression of all feelings, all the weaknesses! ... (L. Wurmser)
If you cannot be who you are, - and no one is really there for you, - then feelings, needs or desires are not o.k.! ...
Pain is a vehicle for growth and a wise teacher. - Without pain, the heart is hollow. - The deeper the sorrow cuts into your being, the more joy you can feel! ...
Checklist of adult children in emotionally violent families:
Fears of abandonment, repression and deception, undifferentiated emotions, loneliness and isolation, disorder of thought, forced behavior and addiction, a high degree of uncertainty, intimacy problems, loss of emotion and energy! ...
Undifferentiated emotions:
You never know exactly what you feel, - you do not know how to bring your emotions to express! ... (J. Bradshaw)
All our businesses in the area of friendship and love, marriage and partnership make a real effort to remove this feeling of inadequacy and incompleteness. - But we will never completely succeed, and if so, then only a short duration! ...
Man is bound by a set of desires and longings of the earth. - If he wants to embark on the search, then he sees that all the sweet desires, will be ending in sour captivity (see e.g. "a short heaven & a long hell" etc. - d.48), and that he must break away from them, if he wants to escape the misery of a divided self! ... (P. Brunton)
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