27.02.2025 - Victims of trauma & loss and relationships & fear etc. / Valerian and insomnia etc.

dali48 and photographing during his childhood in SHA-Steinbach in the 50s etc.

Wolfgang G. Greiner 

dali48 was born in SHA in 1948... Studies in Tübingen in 1970 etc. Teacher & Author in Erkrath, 8/1983 till 5/2010 ... retired in Wickrath since 6/2013 etc.

see dali48 and "I think - therefore I am" etc. (Descartes)

Each day is our whole life - from sunrise to sunset etc… (dali48) 

see dali48 and "Zen finds religion in the daily activities." (I-tuan) 

Let go of something you like, and realize how fleeting it is by living without it... (Ayya Khema) 

Buddha realized that all living beings suffer because they desire and cling ... - Peace is an inner attitude to life that consists of letting go and renunciation (see e.g. nuns & monks etc. - d.48) ... (Buddha) 

„Das Leben im Daseinskreislauf ist leidvoll: Geburt ist Leiden, Altern ist Leiden, Krankheit ist Leiden, Tod ist Leiden; Kummer, Lamentieren, Schmerz und Verzweiflung sind Leiden." (Buddha)

see dali48 and own experiences and reading & writing about Kübler-Ross, Moody, NDE, LAL etc. 

Hands that help are holier than lips that pray! (Robert Green Ingersoll) 

see dali48 and Climate Change since Copenhagen 2009 etc. - "Uncontrolled capitalism is producing evil - as bees are producing honey" etc.

see dali48 and reading & writing about peace etc. - see e.g. Zen and Buddhism & Peace & Dalai Lama, Thich Nhat Hanh, Ayya Khema etc, and St Nicholas, St Hildegard, St Francis etc. (dali48)

see dali48 and eating less meat, and more fruits & veggies since the 80s etc.

Homeopathy of S. Hahnemann (ca. 200 years old) should be updated, - i.e. for me more Mother tincture & less medicine shaking, and why is there no homeopathic vaccination? - see "similibus" principle etc. (dali48)

see dali48 and "I hope that Biontech (formerly in Mainz, now in London) & #mRNA #vaccines etc. - will develop a vaccination against cancer etc."

see dali48 and Vollgeld-Initiative & Basic Income in Europe etc. - instead of Banking Crisis 2008 etc.

I also like weeping willow trees - e.g. when I was on camping vacation in the 80s in France & Spain, I had my lunch (fish soup) under such a tree (that was like a tent) in the park of Bordeaux etc. (dali48)

see dali48 and "flora & fauna" since ca. 2000, and deforestation instead of planting trees etc

see dali48 and trees and "flora & fauna" and healthy air etc..

see dali48 and Bread - instead of fire-works harming animals, pets etc.

see dali48 and Democracy & human rights & gender justice etc.

"Respect for life - should be the only religion in the world!" - "Religion is a journey inside - and meditation is the way there." ... (Osho)

see dali48 and health and suitable shoes & foot hygiene etc.

see dali48 and “If the Trees disappeared off the face of the earth - mankind would only have little left to live healthy,” see e.g. Amazonas forest, Indonesia etc, see e.g. @CGShanghaiAir Shanghai - 2023-03-06 4PM - PM2.5 - 103 AQI - Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups ... etc. 

see dali48 and trees & photo synthesis and fresh air and health and cooling and biodiversity etc.

see dali48 and "flora & fauna" and reforesting etc.

siehe „Eine Gesellschaft ohne Gott, ist wie eine gut organisierte Räuberbande“, hat Papst Benedikt den Bundestagsabgeordneten ins Stammbuch geschrieben (see e.g. Cum-Ex etc. - d.48)
see dali48 and demand for the repayment of 300 euros of self-approved inflation compensation for politicians at the taxpayer's expense etc.

see dali48 and health and herbs (see e.g. M. Mességué), and e.g. kidney-tea, gastrointestinal tea, tea for colds etc.

see dali48 and "Words have no direct reference to life, are only a pale echo or image of something that itself is no longer there" ... (D. T. Suzuki)

see dali48's mother Gabriele and playing piano in Steinbach in the 50s, see dali48 and playing piano for 1 year with Mrs Kirsch in SHA in the 50s, and Christmas songs with Mrs Takahashi in Erkrath in the 80s

see dali48 and writing Tagebuch 2008 + 2009, diary3 (2010) in Erkrath, ediary4+5 (2011+2012), Collection of ediary6-12 (2013-2019) in Wickrath etc.

05/01/2000 – Interpretation of dali48

The majority of "toxical maniacs or addicts for poison" were victims of serious emotional and physical child abuse! - The archaic defense by reversal of emotion and instinct (instead of fear: anger and contempt, instead of suffering: the active deception, and attack) is used repeatedly to deal with this trauma! - In respect of claustrophobia he is in fear of falling into the trap of an intimate relationship or restriction. - Sexual intercourse is only acceptable as long as he is not bound by the woman through friendship or marriage. - Immediately after the act he has to leave the partner, and he feels cramped and uncomfortable! - All limits have to be broken all the rules are violated, regardless of this existing danger to life or social humiliation! - In particular, any close nearness, - physically or mentally, - is to change which is experienced as a restriction or detention and must be resisted therefore! - Narcotics and sedatives (hypnotics) are directed primarily against rage, shame, jealousy and fear which warn of these feelings! ... (L. Wurmser)

How does unhealed trauma show up in relationships? - How does unhealed trauma show up in relationships? Unhealed trauma can manifest as emotional shutdown, excessive need for reassurance, control issues, and avoidance of conflict. These hidden dynamics often cause misunderstandings, tension, and emotional distance between partners.29.10.2024

How does trauma impact victim behavior? - Common Reactions to Trauma - 

Fear and Anxiety: Persistent feelings of dread or heightened alertness. Anger and Irritability: Feelings of rage directed at oneself or the perpetrator. Sadness and Grief: Deep feelings of loss related to the trauma or changes in life circumstances.

Traumatic experiences can leave victims with a multitude of symptoms, including, but not limited to, a loss of hope, excessive fear, strained relationships with family, friends, employers, and others, depression, anxiety, sleep disturbances, and feelings of excessive guilt or self-blame.

Interpretation of dali48

Valerian (see dali48 and Valerian, passionflower, melatonin, vitamin B1+B2 etc. - d.48) is used for insomnia and other disorders as an alternative to benzodiazepine drugs, and as a sedative for nervous tension, hysteria, excitability, stress and intestinal colic or cramps! ... Valerian is used for sleeping disorders, restlessness and anxiety, and as a muscle relaxant! - Certain data suggests that Valerian has an effect that is calming but doesn't cause sleepiness the following day! - When used as a sleeping aid, valerian appears to be most effective on users who have difficulty falling asleep. - Also noteworthy is that valerian has been shown to have positive results on users who wake up during the night! ... (Wikipedia)

see dali48 and reading & writing about Psychology & Psychiatry and e.g. Freud, Adler, Jung, and Groddeck, Frankl, Fromm, Reich, and Laing, Cooper, and M. Rufer, A. Wolf-Schuler, T. Wollf, I. D. Yalom, J. Bradshaw, V. Kast, A. Lowen, W. Reich, P. Lauster, P. Schellenbaum, J. Murphy, S. Steinbrecher, E. Kübler-Ross, R. A. Moody, K. Ring, I. D. Suttie, E. Jacobson, S. Forward, H. Gastager, C. M. Steiner, W. G. Niederland, R. Funk, N. Schwartz-Salant, A. Janov, A. & M. Mitscherlich, H. König, W. Hollstein etc. 

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