Immature parents and Family therapists and disorder symptoms etc. by dali48
dali48 and studying and teaching and photographing near market place in Tübingen in the 70s etc.
Interpretation of dali48
Immature parent:
Generally without energy and motivation - a tendency of going all the problems out of the way, projecting one’s own frustration on the partner (physical abuse is a sign of low self-esteem and immaturity)...
Compulsive obsession with work and hobbies, from fear to be alone with your family or yourself - i.e. you are acting out your shortcomings, and estrangement from the partner - Affected are also the children… (J. Covitz)
Family therapists have discovered that children often sacrifice themselves - and develop disorder symptoms, so that parents focus on the symptoms and suppress their own problems...
The unspoken refusing, to let the child mature into an autonomous individual - who is different from the parents, can have dire consequences if the child is still small: separation anxiety, e.g. it does not want to go to preschool (see kinder garden in Steinbach, 1951 – 1954, etc. - d.48)...
Even with seemingly casual remarks, parents can be sinful - if they do not realize how seriously they are taken from their children... A married couple with children - must sacrifice ambitious goals:
Optimal career development, geographical mobility, and the possibility of divorce at any time...
The needs of each family member are equally important - The child should be a bit more important...
A single child is (hazards):
Neurotic, overprotected overwhelmed, oversized expectations, tightening by the loss of a parent - i.e. single-children should look for other role models and develop a healthy independence from their parents...
The failure to thrive means:
Retardation in growth - although no physical neglect is visible, emotional deprivation, unsatisfied hunger for spiritual nourishment, mental and physical degeneration...
In her dream, she (daughter) saw, him (father) as “a scrap heap in the front garden”...
The emotionally abused child shows by its symptoms (illness, summons to the police, etc.), only the status of the parents’ marriage (of distress)...
It knows that its growth is hampered by the pain of the parents, and seeks to remove them this pain. - An intuitive right strategy, the child is afraid, if my parents' marriage breaks up, I'm standing in the cold. - In an imbalanced marriage, the children cannot trust - that a fixed link exists between the parents...
Parents have the responsibility to prepare children for life - and the children, to ease their own parents’ pain of aging and death...
A parent can form a coalition with the child - against the other parent (see e.g. K & M, etc. - d.48)...
In the democratic family system - all have certain basic rights (in theory yes - but practically less, etc. - d.48)...
No man is like the other - his individuality must be respected...
Each member has the right - to express itself in word and deed, and to develop, to ask what it needs, critical to speak, and to say what it has on its mind, etc... (J. Covitz)
Beneficial foods and Medicinal herbs and Gastrointestinal disorders etc. by dali48
dali48 and private tuition and writing books and cycling and photographing in Erkrath, 8/1983 - 5/2010
Interpretation of dali48
Beneficial foods: cabbage, potato, artichoke, radish, beetroot, carrot, flax… (U. Böhmig)
Medicinal herbs: caraway, fennel, anise, chamomile, peppermint, lemon balm, gentian, centaury, bitter clover, buck bean, sweet flag, angelica, blessed thistle, Iceland moss, milk thistle (for liver and gall bladder, etc. - d.48), wormwood, mugwort...
Good product at a price. That may all agree, just not in the warehouse of food. - Due to poor diets (see e.g. white flour & manganese deficiency, see sugar industry, etc. - d.48), the body comes into the “red figures”...
It starts saving measures. - Stress which have hitherto been regarded as a pleasure, but which is seen by the body and its metabolism as luxury - such as power play, intellectual epartee or memory for names will be limited. It follows: fatigue, listlessness, loss of initiative, lack of vitality and “rotten” bones, etc.
Alcohol, lots of meat (cooked is better than fried, etc. - d.48) contain purines, which form uric acid and body tissues become too acidic - which causes gout etc. (see deacidification e.g. with “Basica”, healing clay etc. - d.48)...
No eating of sweetbreads (825 - 1270 mg purines) and no meat extract (160 - 5000 mg)...
Gout: take autumn crocus (Colchicum)...
Totally fat-free diet leads to skin ulcers, hair loss, reduced fertility, infections, and metabolic failure... Causes: Vitamin E deficiency and deficiency of essential fatty acids (see e.g. linseed oil, omega-3, fish or seaweed oil, seeds, nuts, etc. - d.48)...
Metabolic disease: fatigue, listlessness, stress sensitivity (linoleic acid helps, etc. - d.48)...
Cholesterol: 1 fat - 2 fat meat and calf brain (3050 mg per 100 g) - 3 sausages - 4 offal, etc... Dyslipidaemia: garlic, onion, artichoke, sugar beet, red beet, dandelion, birch, golden rod...
Raw cabbage juice: gastrointestinal disorders, coleslaw, sauerkraut, rice, maize, millet, buckwheat, etc.
Incompatible foods for digestive weakness:
1 legume (lentils, peas, beans, etc. - d.48)... 2 white cabbages - 3 green cabbages - 4 paprika – 5 red cabbages - 6 onions - 7 Savoy cabbages…
1 cucumber salad, 2 fried foods, 3 fatty foods, 5 pickled cabbage, 6 sweet and fatty baked goods, 6 French fries, 7 hard-boiled eggs, 8 fresh bread, 9 coleslaw, 10 mayonnaise, 11 potato salad, 12 smoked...
1 CO2-containing beverage (see e.g. lemonade, etc. - d.48)... 2 coffee beans...
Healthy food conversion: grain meal, flakes, whole grain bread, raw vegetables, fruit…
No sugar, better is honey - No white flour, better is whole wheat flour (type 1700), and diet margarine... Intestinal inflammation: eat white or red beet... (U. Böhmig)
Impaired immune response and Remedies and Bitter drops etc. by dali48
dali48 and writing diaries and planting & photographing herbs in Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
Interpretation of dali48
Savory: upset stomach (and diarrhea etc. - d.48)
Buckbean (bitter clover): stomach, intestine, bile, and likewise gentian, centaury… (U. Böhmig)
Angelica: see Buckbean, also helps with flatulence and the bile, and likewise St. Benedict's thistle...
Liver and bile: dandelion, peppermint, common fumitory, artichoke, radish, red beet, stinging nettle, milk thistle, wormwood, mugwort, celandine, butterbur (Extractum petasitis): bile, turmeric (curry mix)…
All liver diseases are accompanied by fatigue, as well as feeling of pressure in the right upper abdomen, bloating, diarrhea, severe stomach…
Therapy: milk thistle, and no alcohol, no overeating and poor nutrition. - Milk thistle also tones circulation and nervous system...
“Tinctura cardini mariae Rademacher”: liver, gall bladder, gall stones, colic, pleurisy, hemorrhoids, chronic eczema...
Ointment of worm wood or tea: bile, dyspepsia, chronic stomach, liver, flatulence, morose, nervous...
Chronic constipation: flaxseed, fruit, seaweed, rhubarb, buckthorn, senna, aloe, blackthorn, common fumitory, ash tree, manna ash, etc...
Fluid loss from diarrhea causes potassium deficiency. This leads to constant tiredness, muscle weakness, even of the rectum, dizziness, abnormal thirst, impotence…
Other hand helps: fruit and vegetables, and their juice…
Diarrhea and colicky pain: tincture rhubarb (Rheum)...
Senna during pregnancy is dangerous - here can already single doses cause a premature birth...
Diarrhea: tormentill, blueberries, black currants mice clover, agrimony, etc.
Black currants: tannins, dye, antibacterial, essential oil, Vitamin C, Vitamin J (protective substance against lung inflammation)…
Impaired immune response: severe fatigue or exhaustion, insomnia, excessive sleepiness, frequent infections (respiratory, stomach, intestine, urinary tract), impaired concentration, poor memory, recurrent headaches, muscle weakness, joint pain, twitching of individual muscles, slightly elevated temperature for a longer period, sore throat, digestive problems, blurred vision, palpitations, panic and anxiety attacks, personality changes, mood swings, skin changes or rashes, weight loss, etc.
It helps: blood purification (stinging nettle, green tea, etc. - d.48), enzymes (see e.g. “Wobenzym”, pineapple, papaya, etc. - d.48)... (U. Böhmig)
dali48 and writing and cycling and photographing in Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
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dali48 and menaced private teaching (since 1989) and writing books & cycling & photographing in Erkrath till 5/2010.
dali48 and playing chess and stopping smoking as a sports student in Tübingen in the 70s etc.
Each day is our whole life - from sunrise to sunset etc… (dali48)
21.06.2023 - I didn't see a butterfly yet in Wickrath this year ... (dali48)
I'm neither right nor left, see Salvador Dali in this context - I'm only dali48
Psychology says, Trust your intuition. It never lies.
see dali48 & FGYO / SIT, language teacher, 1975/76 in Tübingen and Lenzkirch (Black Forest), and wandering in the morning, and in Erkrath (8/1983-5/2010) cooking houseman and teaching in the afternoon, on Saturdays & compact courses during holidays etc.
see dali48 and walking and cycling etc. - and without own car in Erkrath since 2004 - and without driving in Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
"It takes few words to express the essential" - Paul Éluard
"One’s destination is never a place, but a new way of seeing things." ... (H. Miller)
"The past is pain, the future uncertainty. The present is all we have" ... (Tao Wong)
„Wer immer die Wahrheit sagt, kann sich ein schlechtes Gedächtnis leisten.“ (F. Sulzer
)
"Everything you love will probably be lost, but in the end, love will return in another way." (F. Kafka)
see dali48 and bees and CCD and neonics since ca. 2000 etc.
In "love" are the beginning and the climax - the most beautiful periods etc... (dali48)
"Time spent with cats is never wasted." (S. Freud)
Why not use bio-methane, hydrogen, bio heating oil, e-heating oil - instead of banning oil and gas heating etc. (dali48)
"Only the present moment counts, even when the subject is the past." (R. D. Brinkmann)
"Non-sexual intimacy is therapeutic. Deep conversations, healthy silence, a unique joke from an old memory, similar interests; beautiful stuff." (@ML_Philosophy
)
see dali48 and “If the Trees disappeared off the face of the earth - mankind would only have little left to live healthy,” see e.g. Amazonas forest, Indonesia etc, see e.g. @CGShanghaiAir Shanghai - 2023-03-06 4PM - PM2.5 - 103 AQI - Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups ... etc.
see dali48 and trees & photo synthesis and fresh air and health and cooling and biodiversity etc.
Why not recreate lost Wetlands by desalinated sea water? ... (dali48)
"Half of the money for arms should go as reparation to "flora & fauna" & UBI ,,, (dali48)e money for arms
"Getting older is realizing putting yourself first isn’t selfish, it’s necessary" (@meauhlback
)
"Some people go through our lives to teach us not to be like them." ( Lev Tolstoy)
"is it ethical to hoard bread when families are starving?" (@existentialcoms
)"The goal isn’t money, the goal is to spend your days as you wish." (@ML_Philosophy
)“Give a child a good birth (if at all possible, no drugs to the mother)=1 and a good first three years, especially a good first three months, and a major part of the job of child rearing is done.” ― Arthur Janov, The Biology of Love"Be teachable. You’re not always right." (@ML_Philosophy)
"The tombstone of capitalism will later say: too much was not enough." (Volker Pispers)
see dali48 and environmental disasters & @sara_s_2020 & #Tiredearth & Manila Slum (Philippines) & Creek etc.
»Auf dem Grabstein (der Erde; d. Red.) könnte stehen: Jeder wollte das Beste – für sich.« (Siegfried Lenz)
"Smiling mobilizes 15 muscles, but sulking requires 40. Rest: smile!" (Christophe André)
"Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. And today? Today is a gift that"s why they call it the present." - (@TheWordicle)
"When you realize how precious and fragile life is, it changes your whole perspective." (Ryan O’Donnell)
"A kind word can warm up to three months of winter" - Japanese proverb
"It’s better to walk alone than with a crowd going in the wrong direction." (@wise_chimp)
"It is far better to be alone, than to be in bad company." (@PsychologyDose_)
"The truth is not always beautiful, nor beautiful words the truth." - Lao Tzu
"... We get old too soon, and wise too late." (@_AhmadHijazi)
"Nothing in the world is worth turning away from what we love" - Albert Camus
I am allowed to say NO to others and YES to myself." (@Lenka49044040)
"You can only live forwards, understand life only backwards." (Søren Kierkegaard)
"Write your life - Or they'll wait till you're dead to write the lie" ... (@spectraspeaks)
see "Remove the idea that anybody else is responsible for your misery and suffering; that somebody can give meaning to your life. Accept that you are alone, born alone (premature birth, 7 months etc. - d.48), and you will die alone" ... (Osho)
"Respect for life - should be the only religion in the world!" ... (Osho)
"Religion is a journey inside - and meditation is the way there" ... (Osho)
"Zen finds religion in the daily activities." (I-tuan)
see
see dali48 and nervous breakdown & psychotherapy (1 year) in Tübingen in 1974 and the ontogenetic & phyloggenetic unconscious etc.
see dali48 and dreaming & visions, see e.g. The 2004 Indian Ocean earthquake & tsunami etc, see Golden G. Snow "I journey I know it's true. I've seen the future too. In my "journey", things are not good. So much of the earth will be ... soon. I have no more to say."), and NDE and reincarnation and reading & writing ...
see scott_hurst retweeted by dali48 "If all the atheists left the USA, it would lose 93% of the National Academy of Sciences but less than 1% of the prison population" …
Spelt helps: fatigue, loss of energy, heart problems etc. (St Hilda)
@dali48
I found this dairy of great interest and enjoyed the journey ... it is filled with well written information that covers all age groups, from history to health both in body and mind ... the why's and where's are answered in complete ... thanks dali48 for sharing ...
Thank you for sharing. Your braveness to fight illness has inspired me to face life in a different way dali48. I love the concept of living in the moment and breathing into it. This has improved my health both in body and mind.
Deutsch Ausgabe | von 48 Dali | 28. Dezember 2009
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see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 in Erkrath etc. - instead of Ecology & Health etc. - Uncontrolled capitalism (without UBI & wealth tax) produces evil as bees produce honey, see Instead of €100 billion for armaments - €50 billion for #ClimateEmergency 2022 & UBI etc.
see @nur_Dagmar / ntv: "Global #militaryspending exceeds for the first time 2 TRILLION dollars" (2022) - instead of 1 trillion for #ClimateEmergency 2022 and basic income etc. (dali48)
see dali48 & "The already uninhabitable Earth. Today (3.7.23), Zabol in Iran recorded the highest temperature on Earth at 49.6C" (@PGDynes), see e.g. https://aljazeera.com/news/2023/6/30/out-of-time-temperature-records-topple-around-the-world, & #ClimateEmergency 2022 instead of enough clean air (see e.g. Shanghai Air etc.) & drinking water (see desalination of sea water since ca. 2000), enough trees & fish, #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy since the 70s & UBI since 2008 & biodiversity & health & no inflation, heat waves, wars etc. see dali48 & Heatwaves in #Europe, see #IPCC #ClimateReport, see #ClimateEmergency 2022 (https://insideclimatenews.org/.../cold-weather-polar.../ via , cold spells, #heatwave #Pakistan & #India 62°C/143°F, #Copernicus #Sentinel3 LST, dryness, #Wildfires in US & Canada, 'gigafires' & air pollution (Australia, Amazonas (#amazon #brasilien #luigicani #bäume #natur #pflanzen #säen), California, South Europe, South America, etc), floods, hurricanes, cyclones etc. since ca. 2000, loss of home in Africa, Southeast Asia & Pacific etc. - despite Club of Rome in the 70s, Copenhagen 2009, Paris 2015, Coronavirus 2020, #EarthOvershootDay 2021, #COP26, mass extinction, ecocide (https://www.stopecocide.earth/.../ecocide-due-to-biomass...), "ethnic cleansing", factory farming & zoonoses, racing in the wrong direction, see Instead of €100 billion for armaments - €50 billion for #ClimateEmergency and basic income etc. (dali48), see https://www.boell.de/.../20/wettrennen-die-falsche-richtung, see #SaveTibetSaveThePlanet, see Indigenous Climate Action etc. - instead of clean air & drinking water, enough trees & fish, #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & Basic Income (see https://eusignday.eu) & biodiversity & health & cures instead of inflation and war etc. War crimes, see e.g. Ukraine etc. - and environmental crimes, see e.g. Kuwait, 50 million tires burn etc. - should be documented & punished by the UNO etc... (dali48)
see History & Genocide of Minorities & Scapegoats - instead of @UNHumanRights and Protection of #environmentdefenders & reparation for natives etc... (dali48)
Don't see swallows here in Wickrath (2018) as before at Lake Unterbach where they were deeply flying before the rain, and were nearly touching my head till 2010... (dali48)
see dali48 and Concerning Chernobyl 1986, see sohub.io/uo63, see sohub.io/st6t, and Fukushima 2011 - see http://www.mdr.de/.../video-2362_zc-b45e8c8c_zs-6da2f47c... - see Comparison of the Chernobyl and Fukushima nuclear accidentshttps://en.wikipedia.org › wiki › Comparison_of_the_C... The following table compares the nuclear accidents at the Chernobyl (1986) and Fukushima Daiichi (2011) nuclear power plants, the only INES level 7 nuclear ... Survivors of nuclear testing should get reparation by the UN etc. (dali48)
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