see dali48 and reading & writing about the Updated part of ediary6-12, Doc. p.1410-1426, Celan &, Loneliness &, Relationships etc.
16.04.2014 - Celan and Cioran and S. Wiesenthal etc. by dali48
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Quote: There is nothing in the world, for which a poet will give up his writing - not even if he is a Jew, and the language of his poems is German… (P. Celan, little blue light)
"The Trouble with Being Born" (1973). An aphoristic work, which explores how our problems began - with the immutable act of birth and the fear, which pure consciousness and clarity inflicts on us… (E. Cioran, 1911 - 1995, little blue light)
Duty ends - where injustice begins, and forgetting - opens the door for the repetition of history! (See “make a clean break" etc. - instead of “stumbling blocks,” concentration camp museums, document centers, etc. - d.48)... (S. Wiesenthal)
Zen: "Like a leaf falling from a flower - with Quechua music gently swaying in the wind"... (dali48)
Golden Snow
“yes when the spirit of writing is in your heart , nothing can stop one , even without pen and paper poems are written in the heart” ...
Golden Snow
“Wow, "The Trouble with Being Born " never thought of birth in that way ... when one thinks of the trauma both mother and child go through at birth ... Mother and child in stress mode ... baby coming into a cold and strange world ... first thing is to cry ...this would remain there ... d.48 , you have my mind seeking more and more knowledge ... Interpretation of dali48 is a great Diary” ...
Golden Snow
“Your quote ... Duty ends - where injustice begins, and forgetting - opens the door for the repetition of history ... I have often thought this way ~~~ years pass , repetition of everything , mistake after mistake ... as if no one can see or hear ... this will be an interesting read” ...
Golden Snow
Zen: "Like a leaf falling from a flower - with Quechua music gently swaying in the wind"... (dali48) so beautiful ~~~
16.04.2014 - Loneliness and Life and space for yourself etc. by dali48
dali48 and writing ediary4+5 and walking and cycling and photographing in the Schlosspark of Wickrath etc.
dali48 and photographing "Flora and Fauna", 1/2014
Interpretation of dali48
Loneliness is basic to life - and being alone is also a fundamental dimension of human life. This (resulting) aggression of separation is often dressed in a complaint to the partner. You want too much from the other. We must now finally be alone and do something alone. That makes sense. The idea is to have feelings for you - a secure, accepting space for yourself...
On one side a beautiful appearance is cultivated (the lovers are young, beautiful, full of desire and full of promise), and on the other hand, sex is propagated as a competitive gymnastic and sport. A culture of pleasure is hardly represented, and no dialogues of love. Moreover, the sexual needs of women and men are not the same. Women, who are economically dependent, are more willing to adjust sexually, denying themselves. Women want to achieve nearness by adapting to the sexuality of their husbands, a good self-esteem, security and a home. If yearning for love and sacrifice fantasies are disappointed - inappetence is created. 70% of women (after 5 years of marriage) are untrue (men 75%). The reason is alienation from the husband/wife, i.e. insufficient or unsatisfactory sex...
Power struggles are not conducive to intense feelings of love...
Sexual fantasies go sometimes very private ways in the meanwhile, ways you don’t want to let know and share with your partner any more - This is part of this phase...
It's to consider a fear of relationship that can play a role in all the described forms of anxiety: the fear of the fate. If we are afraid of fate collapses, then the new fantasies are prohibited. But they are the basis for the feelings of love, passion and of being alive. The concept of loyalty can be very disastrous. The question is where we want to be faithful. Do we want a life to be true, or do we want to be faithful to a partner even at the price that we are completely lifeless, then?
In situations which trigger fear because we do not meet a claim, we feel ashamed and are afraid to lose face - to be no longer respected... (V. Kast)
Golden Snow
“Your Quote ," Loneliness is basic to life " Yes one can be lonely even in large groups , with me dali48 this is true , I much more prefer the quite of natures or one on one ... I know when we are young and married that the strain of making your spouse happy as time passes can be a problem ... so many separation ...maybe married to young ... As this is my face book page I will not disuse my own sex life ... but agree with you in all aspects of your Interpretation of dali48 , we start out so much in love and as life catches up and reality sets in we look at each other in different ways ... gone is the newness and unless we can find happiness with each other we become lonely . yes and often spend a life time of loneliness just to please a spouse or religion ... I believe also let one has to let our spouse know our true feeling , which is rear in the young or even in older persons , so that loneliness starts ... dali48 I could never come near to your understanding and respect your Interpretation of dali48 , just a few of my feeling ... I know your Diary will be much enjoyed, it covers so much of life struggles . thank you”…
16.04.2014 - Indifference and Relationships and Mistrust etc. by dali48
Interpretation of dali48
In my view, is the difference to sadomasochistic couples that indifferent people - are more desperate, have an even larger loss of self-esteem, and have experienced more injuries…
Indifference is the absolute strongest revenge in a relationship which was originally based on confirmation of self-esteem...
Other people can contribute much to our happiness and unhappiness - but they are not responsible for our happiness or unhappiness...
Because by mistrust we close ourselves to each other, - and then can just confirmations that could be done quite yet, not be anymore. It lurks in the background, the fear of separation; and the fear of injury, love, loss. - Loss of self is rooting in a fear of being alone and of loneliness. The fear of loneliness is often associated with feelings of being rejected, of being misunderstood, and left alone…
These feelings are contrary to our desires, to be loved by others and accepted as we are - with our physicality and sexuality… (V. Kast)
Many commercially available bedside table lamps cannot replace the free gift of sunlight - and much venal sex cannot replace a love that is given… (dali48)
We know of young children who are abandoned by their parents or relationships, that their vitality declines immediately, exploration and gaming activity will be less, the atmosphere falls, and these children are screaming and crying, and be passive...
We will just take our interest from the world - if we have the feeling of being abandoned (see also in adult life, etc. - d.48)...
The feeling of emptiness is the defense against loneliness. If we learn what is in us - then it develops the sense of being not depending on other people, not just be delivered to their benevolence or disapproval. We clearly feel ourselves to be somebody, too… (V. Kast)
Golden Snow
“I cannot add to that dali48 , I can see the truth of each phrase , great advice ... Your Diary will be a great success ... so many different subjects , all explained fully and carefully searched out ... I can place myself in these above statements ...the next step is to put them in action ... anyone in my position will ask , where and how do I start , feeling of abandoned , loneliness , are hard ones to cope with ... myself at this point , I run , looking for things to do , places to go , and with my illness leads me in sick paths , I know standing up to the hurts in our lives can be hard and each have our own to deal with ... each are left like an island , because we smile for the world to see and cry in our dark places ... each day hurting and stumbling and getting back up each day to face the monster inside of us ~~~ we each have our own ... we each are reaching for safe ground ... hoping for and brightness of hope” ...
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