dali48 and playing chess and stopping smoking sa a sports student in Tübingen in the 70s
etc.
see dali48 and reading & writing about the True self and false self and "alter ego" etc.
26.04.2001 - Interpretation of dali48
People who lose themselves in relationships are ultimately
afraid to even enter - and that's understandable. They have
had the experience that when they love to lose so much -
that they feel quite exhausted by this loss. These people
need to understand that their primary obligation has to
apply to the own person. You need to make yourself No.1
in your life. You have to fight to the knife for every fiber of
your mind. No matter what it costs, what other people
think, say or do, no matter how hard the struggle is, which
is the only path that is worth to pursue it. And most confusing: people with a weakly defined sense of
self - tend to have a well-developed "false self." This false
self is an "inner confidence man" who tells us who we are
and how we live. And still remains deep within a feeling of
emptiness, an emptiness that begins to show itself - when
we are alone for too long ... (Carter / Sokol)
dali48 and writing and feeding birds in winter in the park of Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
Interpretation of dali48
True self and false self are terms introduced into
psychoanalysis by D. W. Winnicott in 1960. Winnicott used
the term "True Self" to describe a sense of self based on
spontaneous authentic experience. The "False Self" was, for Winnicott, a defense designed to
protect the True Self by hiding it. He thought that in health,
a False Self was what allowed a person to present a "polite
and mannered attitude" in public. Helene Deutsch had described the "as if" personalities who
have 'succeeded in substituting "pseudo contacts" of
manifold kinds for a real feeling of contact with other
people. Freud himself, with his late theory of 'the ego as
constituted in its nucleus by a series of alienating
identifications', had produced a theory of 'the Ego, which
does bear some comparison with the False Self'. Erich Fromm, in his ''The Fear of Freedom'' distinguished
between original self and pseudo self, the latter being a
way to escape the loneliness of freedom, at the cost of
losing the original self. Carl Rogers had independently highlighted Kierkegaard's
much earlier claim that 'the deepest form of despair is to
choose "to be another than himself". It has been suggested that 'in pathology, Winnicott's
distinction between "true and false selves" corresponds to
Balint's "basic fault" and to Fairbairn's "compromised
ego"'. Alexander Lowen identified narcissists as having a true and
a false, or superficial, self. The false self rests on the
surface, as the self presented to the world. It stands in
contrast to the true self, which resides behind the facade
or image. James F. Masterson argued that all the personality
disorders crucially involve the conflict between a person’s
two “selves”: the false self, which the very young child
constructs to please the mother. It has been suggested of Wuthering Heights that 'the
relations of the true and false self, and particularly the
struggle of the true self to break forth, create the
underlying psychic drama of Brontë 's novel' ... (Wikipedia)
see dali48 and Psychology & Psychiatry and e.g. Freud, Adler, Jung, and Groddeck, Frankl, Fromm, Reich, and Laing, Cooper, and M. Rufer, A. Wolf-Schuler, T. Wollf, I. D. Yalom, J. Bradshaw, V. Kast, A. Lowen, E. Reich, P. Lauster, P. Schellenbaum, J. Murphy, S. Steinbrecher, E. Kübler-Ross, R. A. Moody, K. Ring, I. D. Suttie, E. Jacobson, S. Forward, H. Gastager, C. M. Steiner, W. G. Niederland, R. Funk, N. Schwartz-Salant, A. Janov etc.
dali48 and writing and cycling and photographing in Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
dali48 and menaced private teaching (since 1989) and writing books & cycling & photographing in Erkrath till 5/2010.
dali48 and playing chess and stopping smoking as a sports student in Tübingen in the 70s etc.
I'm neither right nor left, see Salvador Dali in this context - I'm only dali48
"Non-sexual intimacy is therapeutic. Deep conversations, healthy silence, a unique joke from an old memory, similar interests; beautiful stuff." (@ML_Philosophy
)
“If the Trees disappeared off the face of the earth - mankind would only have little left to live healthy,” see e.g. Amazonas forest etc. (dali48)
"Getting older is realizing putting yourself first isn’t selfish, it’s necessary" (@meauhlback
)
"Some people go through our lives to teach us not to be like them." ( Lev Tolstoy)
"is it ethical to hoard bread when families are starving?" (@existentialcoms
)"The goal isn’t money, the goal is to spend your days as you wish." (@ML_Philosophy
)“Give a child a good birth (if at all possible, no drugs to the mother)=1 and a good first three years, especially a good first three months, and a major part of the job of child rearing is done.” ― Arthur Janov, The Biology of Love"Be teachable. You’re not always right." (@ML_Philosophy)
"The tombstone of capitalism will later say: too much was not enough." (Volker Pispers)
"Smiling mobilizes 15 muscles, but sulking requires 40. Rest: smile!" (Christophe André)
"Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. And today? Today is a gift that"s why they call it the present." - (@TheWordicle)
"When you realize how precious and fragile life is, it changes your whole perspective." (Ryan O’Donnell)
"A kind word can warm up to three months of winter" - Japanese proverb
"It’s better to walk alone than with a crowd going in the wrong direction." (@wise_chimp)
"The truth is not always beautiful, nor beautiful words the truth." - Lao Tzu
"... We get old too soon, and wise too late." (@_AhmadHijazi)
"Nothing in the world is worth turning away from what we love" - Albert Camus
I am allowed to say NO to others and YES to myself." (@Lenka49044040)
"You can only live forwards, understand life only backwards." (Søren Kierkegaard)
"Write your life - Or they'll wait till you're dead to write the lie" ... (@spectraspeaks)
see "Remove the idea that anybody else is responsible for your misery and suffering; that somebody can give meaning to your life. Accept that you are alone, born alone (premature birth, 7 months etc. - d.48), and you will die alone" ... (Osho)
see
see dali48 and dreaming & visions, see e.g. The 2004 Indian Ocean earthquake & tsunami etc, see Golden G. Snow "I journey I know it's true. I've seen the future too. In my "journey", things are not good. So much of the earth will be ... soon. I have no more to say."), and NDE and reincarnation and reading & writing ...
see scott_hurst retweeted by dali48 "If all the atheists left the USA, it would lose 93% of the National Academy of Sciences but less than 1% of the prison population" …
see https://www.meinwegausderangst.de/depressionen/, see https://emergencyroomnearme.org/, see https://socalmentalhealth.com/disorders-treated/adult-adhd-add/ , see https://grantsforseniors.org/., see https://pelorustms.com/alternative-depression-treatment options/, see 60+ Benefits of Exercise - The Ultimate List, see Natalia Wilson our site, see resource page, see https://fitnessvolt.com/lower-back-pain-athletes/, see William Eggleston Wikipedia Seite, @dali48
I found this dairy of great interest and enjoyed the journey ... it is filled with well written information that covers all age groups , from history to health both in body and mind ... the why's and where's are answered in complete ... thanks dali48 for sharing ...
Thank you for sharing. Your braveness to fight illness has inspired me to face life in a different way dali48. I love the concept of living in the moment and breathing into it. This has improved my health both in body and mind.
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dali48 and writing books and cycling and photographing etc...
see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 in Erkrath etc. - instead of Ecology & Health etc. - Uncontrolled capitalism (without UBI & wealth tax) produces evil as bees produce honey, see Instead of €100 billion for armaments - €50 billion for #ClimateEmergency 2022 & UBI etc.
see @nur_Dagmar / ntv: "Global #militaryspending exceeds for the first time 2 TRILLION dollars" (2022) - instead of 1 trillion for #ClimateEmergency 2022 and basic income etc. (dali48)
see dali48 & #ClimateEmergency 2022 instead of clean air & drinking water, enough trees & fish, #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & Basic Income (see https://eusignday.eu) & biodiversity & health & cures instead of war etc.
see dali48 & #ClimateEmergency 2022 (https://insideclimatenews.org/.../cold-weather-polar.../ via , cold spells, #heatwave #Pakistan & #India 62°C/143°F, #Copernicus #Sentinel3 LST, dryness, 'gigafires' & air pollution (Australia, Amazonas (#amazon #brasilien #luigicani #bäume #natur #pflanzen #säen), California, South Europe, South America, etc), floods, hurricanes, cyclones etc. since ca. 2000, loss of home in Africa, Southeast Asia & Pacific etc. - despite Club of Rome in the 70s, Copenhagen 2009, Paris 2015, Coronavirus 2020, #EarthOvershootDay 2021, #COP26, mass extinction, ecocide (https://www.stopecocide.earth/.../ecocide-due-to-biomass...), "ethnic cleansing", factory farming & zoonoses, racing in the wrong direction, see Instead of €100 billion for armaments - €50 billion for #ClimateEmergency 2022 and basic income etc. (dali48), see https://www.boell.de/.../20/wettrennen-die-falsche-richtung, see #SaveTibetSaveThePlanet, see Indigenous Climate Action etc. - instead of clean air & drinking water, enough trees & fish, #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & Basic Income (see https://eusignday.eu) & biodiversity & health & cures instead of war and inflation etc. see History & Genocide of Minorities & Scapegoats - instead of @UNHumanRights and Protection of #environmentdefenders & reparation for natives etc... (dali48)
Don't see swallows here in Wickrath (2018) as before at Lake Unterbach where they were deeply flying before the rain, and were nearly touching my head till 2010... (dali48)
see dali48 and Concerning Chernobyl 1986, see sohub.io/uo63, see sohub.io/st6t, and Fukushima 2011 - see http://www.mdr.de/.../video-2362_zc-b45e8c8c_zs-6da2f47c... - see Comparison of the Chernobyl and Fukushima nuclear accidentshttps://en.wikipedia.org › wiki › Comparison_of_the_C... The following table compares the nuclear accidents at the Chernobyl (1986) and Fukushima Daiichi (2011) nuclear power plants, the only INES level 7 nuclear ... Survivors of nuclear testing should get reparation by the UN etc. (dali48)
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