dali48 and teaching and writing books and cycling in Erkrath, 8/1983 – 5/2010.
see dali48 and reading & writing about Abrahms / Spring & couples & children & adult & injured partner etc.
30.04.2001 - Interpretation of dali48
If you expect to be loved only for your own sake you will
have unrealistic expectations of holding together as
couples - and you will feel exposed and shabby, if this is not
so ...
Children of divorce have more problems than children from
intact families in the first 2 years after the separation - This
applies to school performance, conduct, psychological
adjustment, self-esteem and social skills.
If your marriage turns you too much in yourself and in
being depressed - your children will also suffer from your
emotional withdrawal.
People who may injure and even hate themselves at a
time, can learn to love each other again. - People can
separate and come back together again. - Human conflicts
can be successfully resolved. - An intimacy crisis can lead to
significant changes - and to a stronger bond. Violent conquest always wins over the course of
tenderness, and if only for a short time. - So lose those who
are worshiped, compared to those who are loved. - Later,
when the passion fades and conflicts occur, you will see the
lover and the critical partner in a more favorable light. - But
then there is probably no one to which you can return. - I
advise you to a cognitive rather than emotional decision. If you wait to feel positive about before it becomes a
positive act - your partnership does not go very far.
A healthy, confident, competent adult:
1 Sense of safety and security.
2 Independence in daily life.
3 Solid emotional connections with others.
4 Being estimated.
5 Unrestrained self-expression.
6 Be imperfect and may have some fun.
7 To live with physical limitations.
The injured partner:
Her or his silence is not the cause of unfaithfulness of her
or his partner, but it puts them in a position to endure
what is unbearable. Through an affair, you can direct your hatred to yourself
instead of to your unfaithful partner. - So you turn the
anger that you have on the person who destroyed your
family against yourself - then you needn’t mourn the loss
of the partner who was not there for you. Speak openly with me about your feelings. Do not shut, do
not draw back and grab at me. Without conflict, no nearness. - Stand by your desire, or
nothing more than the illusion of peace (see better than
war, etc. - d.48) will remain to you ...
(Abrahms / Spring)
We do not see things as they are - but as we are ... (Anais Nin)
Golden Snow
"There are so many feeling that go unheard. We hold so
much inside ... I believe that there would be less divorce if
couples would take the time to talk to each other, if only
we could learn to set our feeling free ... Keeping feels
buried inside become hateful and words come with real
meaning and most times in hateful screaming at each
other ... hurting each other until there seems no turning
back ... either ending in divorce or in a silence of hurt and
sometimes destruction of self ... Children suffer untold fear
and their lives are destroyed" …
dali48 and menaced private teaching (since 1989) and writing books & cycling & photographing in Erkrath till 5/2010 and in Tübingen in the 70s etc.
I'm neither right nor left, see Salvador Dali in this context - I'm only dali48
"Some people go through our lives to teach us not to be like them." ( Lev Tolstoy)
"is it ethical to hoard bread when families are starving?" (@existentialcoms
)"The goal isn’t money, the goal is to spend your days as you wish." (@ML_Philosophy
)“Give a child a good birth (if at all possible, no drugs to the mother)=1 and a good first three years, especially a good first three months, and a major part of the job of child rearing is done.” ― Arthur Janov, The Biology of Love"Be teachable. You’re not always right." (@ML_Philosophy)
"The tombstone of capitalism will later say: too much was not enough." (Volker Pispers)
"Smiling mobilizes 15 muscles, but sulking requires 40. Rest: smile!" (Christophe André)
"Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. And today? Today is a gift that"s why they call it the present." - (@TheWordicle)
"When you realize how precious and fragile life is, it changes your whole perspective." (Ryan O’Donnell)
"A kind word can warm up to three months of winter" - Japanese proverb
"It’s better to walk alone than with a crowd going in the wrong direction." (@wise_chimp)
"The truth is not always beautiful, nor beautiful words the truth." - Lao Tzu
"... We get old too soon, and wise too late." (@_AhmadHijazi)
"Nothing in the world is worth turning away from what we love" - Albert Camus
I am allowed to say NO to others and YES to myself." (@Lenka49044040)
"You can only live forwards, understand life only backwards." (Søren Kierkegaard)
"Write your life - Or they'll wait till you're dead to write the lie" ... (@spectraspeaks)
see "Remove the idea that anybody else is responsible for your misery and suffering; that somebody can give meaning to your life. Accept that you are alone, born alone (premature birth, 7 months etc. - d.48), and you will die alone" ... (Osho)
see
see dali48 and dreaming & visions, see e.g. The 2004 Indian Ocean earthquake & tsunami etc, see Golden G. Snow "I journey I know it's true. I've seen the future too. In my "journey", things are not good. So much of the earth will be ... soon. I have no more to say."), and NDE and reincarnation and reading & writing ...
see scott_hurst retweeted by dali48 "If all the atheists left the USA, it would lose 93% of the National Academy of Sciences but less than 1% of the prison population" …
see https://www.meinwegausderangst.de/depressionen/, see https://emergencyroomnearme.org/, see https://socalmentalhealth.com/disorders-treated/adult-adhd-add/ , see https://grantsforseniors.org/., see https://pelorustms.com/alternative-depression-treatment options/, see 60+ Benefits of Exercise - The Ultimate List, see Natalia Wilson our site, see resource page, see https://fitnessvolt.com/lower-back-pain-athletes/, see William Eggleston Wikipedia Seite, @dali48
I found this dairy of great interest and enjoyed the journey ... it is filled with well written information that covers all age groups , from history to health both in body and mind ... the why's and where's are answered in complete ... thanks dali48 for sharing ...
Thank you for sharing. Your braveness to fight illness has inspired me to face life in a different way dali48. I love the concept of living in the moment and breathing into it. This has improved my health both in body and mind.
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dali48 and writing books and cycling and photographing etc...
see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 in Erkrath etc. - instead of Ecology & Health etc. - Uncontrolled capitalism (without UBI & wealth tax) produces evil as bees produce honey, see Instead of €100 billion for armaments - €50 billion for #ClimateEmergency 2022 & UBI etc.
see @nur_Dagmar / ntv: "Global #militaryspending exceeds for the first time 2 TRILLION dollars" (2022) - instead of 1 trillion for #ClimateEmergency 2022 and basic income etc. (dali48)
see dali48 & #ClimateEmergency 2022 instead of clean air & drinking water, enough trees & fish, #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & Basic Income (see https://eusignday.eu) & biodiversity & health & cures instead of war etc.
see dali48 & #ClimateEmergency 2022 (https://insideclimatenews.org/.../cold-weather-polar.../ via , cold spells, #heatwave #Pakistan & #India 62°C/143°F, #Copernicus #Sentinel3 LST, dryness, 'gigafires' & air pollution (Australia, Amazonas (#amazon #brasilien #luigicani #bäume #natur #pflanzen #säen), California, South Europe, South America, etc), floods, hurricanes, cyclones etc. since ca. 2000, loss of home in Africa, Southeast Asia & Pacific etc. - despite Club of Rome in the 70s, Copenhagen 2009, Paris 2015, Coronavirus 2020, #EarthOvershootDay 2021, #COP26, mass extinction, ecocide (https://www.stopecocide.earth/.../ecocide-due-to-biomass...), "ethnic cleansing", factory farming & zoonoses, racing in the wrong direction, see Instead of €100 billion for armaments - €50 billion for #ClimateEmergency 2022 and basic income etc. (dali48), see https://www.boell.de/.../20/wettrennen-die-falsche-richtung, see #SaveTibetSaveThePlanet, see Indigenous Climate Action etc. - instead of clean air & drinking water, enough trees & fish, #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & Basic Income (see https://eusignday.eu) & biodiversity & health & cures instead of war and inflation etc. see History & Genocide of Minorities & Scapegoats - instead of @UNHumanRights and Protection of #environmentdefenders & reparation for natives etc... (dali48)
Don't see swallows here in Wickrath (2018) as before at Lake Unterbach where they were deeply flying before the rain, and were nearly touching my head till 2010... (dali48)
see dali48 and Concerning Chernobyl 1986, see sohub.io/uo63, see sohub.io/st6t, and Fukushima 2011 - see http://www.mdr.de/.../video-2362_zc-b45e8c8c_zs-6da2f47c... - see Comparison of the Chernobyl and Fukushima nuclear accidentshttps://en.wikipedia.org › wiki › Comparison_of_the_C... The following table compares the nuclear accidents at the Chernobyl (1986) and Fukushima Daiichi (2011) nuclear power plants, the only INES level 7 nuclear ... Survivors of nuclear testing should get reparation by the UN etc. (dali48)
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