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18.06.2020 - Bradshaw and disorders and behavior and intimacy and shame etc...

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29.05.1998 - Interpretation of dali48

You feel lonely and always feel - that you do not belong properly to it ...

Disorders:
You go so much into detail that people get bored with you. Or you are generalizing and get angry about things that you can not change, such as the authorities. - You are excited about little things, you are pondering and worrying too much. It's all in your head, you're intellectualizing, explaining, analyzing a lot and discussing your problems rather than doing something about it. You are constantly reading about your problems to find out why you are as you are ...

Forced and addictive behavior:
You take chemical substances (see food, sweets, pills etc. - d.48), to change your feelings - You distract yourself from your emotions by activities (see sports etc. - d.48) ...

Highly uncertainty:
You are not always aware of what you are afraid of, but you suspect the worst. You are always afraid (see repressed fear, ambivalent feelings, mistrust, etc. - d.48). - You are painting everything in black (see real experiences etc. - d.48) ...

Intimacy problems:
When you start to feel someone close, you sabotage the relationship. You feel attracted to emotionally inaccessible people. - You are not interested in people you can be close to. - If you have a relationship, you cling to it ...

Affect and energy loss:
People experience you as cold and mechanical (see robots etc. - d.48). - You are incongruent (see "alter ego" etc. - d.48). - You say you are happy, excited, angry (see pretending as if etc. - d.48), but you do not look like that and do not sound happy, excited, angry, etc. - You are dulled ...

Shame-filled desires and needs:
You are ashamed when you have sexual pleasure or are hungry, long for a touch or need something ...

Resentment-guilt circulation:
You are annoyed to have responsibilities for your parents or own family, but you have feelings of guilt if you neglect these duties. - You are angry because you can not pursue your own interests. - And you always have guilt feelings when you pursue your own interests ...

Emotional shambles:
With every emotion you have, you also feel shame (implies poisoning of the emotions etc. - d.48) ...

Emotions are not expressed:
You grew up in a family where no one could express what he was feeling. - They were expecting you to read thoughts. - You were supposed to know that your parents loved you. In your family, it was frowned upon to talk about feelings or to express them elsewhere ...

Excessive control:
You control your emotions, and be ashamed - if you do not succeed ... (J. Bradshaw)

Fantasy bond - Wikipedia


The fantasy bond is a type of relationship where the basic tie is based on routines and roles, ... Please help improve it or discuss these issues on the talk page. (Learn how ... Many people have a fear of intimacy and at the same time are terrified of being alone. ... John Bradshaw, Healing The Shame That Binds You (2005) p.

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