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01.06.2020 - Cultural shame and ill-treatment / Bradshaw and intimacy and risk etc...

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As you are, you are not alright, - you must be as we want you to be (cultural shame). - Mistreatment (psychic) ​​in the Church:
I am struggling to leave this life full of suffering. - I am dying because I do not die (see living etc. - d.48) ... (St. Catherine)

Mistreatment at school:
Judgments, classifications, competition, humiliation at the blackboard, or in front of the whole class, grading, annoyance, mockery, bullying, ethnic background (see blacks, Jews, gays, etc. - d.48), and socioeconomic status, mother tongue (dialect), by foot or by car to school ...
Psychological ill-treatment:
Scream to children, abuse, stubbornness, perfectionism, excessive control (sense of inferiority) ...
Physical abuse:
Hurt the soul, tear the emotional bond between the child and the parents. Imagine if your best friend suddenly came to you and would hit you in the face. - There is no conclusive proof that beating and other corporal chastisements do not cause lasting damage (see e.g. violence on TV etc. - d.48) ...

Sexual abuse:
When the intimacy of the marriage is disturbed (daughter as a little princess of the father, son as a small man of the mother, or even emotionally the wife of the father etc). Sexual abuse inflicts psychological injuries to the child worse than all others. - Exibitionism and voyeurism within the family, giving an enema; Lack of distance in sexual matters on the part of the parents (verbal or tactile); (see e.g. condom, pill, etc. - d.48). - When we are sexually abused, we later completely reject sexuality or become hypersexual to have the feeling of being worth something. - Every child needs the certainty that his parents are healthy and able to care for it, and that it means something to them. - The injured child must first learn to trust the protection of the adult. - If it feels safe and secure, the agility will reappear. - Humor is one of the oldest and strongest natural sources of force we have at our disposal. - Humor has a value for survival. - Life becomes more bearable when one takes it with humor. - Children who are prevented from laughing and being happy learn to be serious and stoic. As a rule, they become cramped parents, teachers, or preachers who can not bear the loud laughter and the joyous excitement of a child. Animals can neither laugh nor cry (do I therefore understand so well with animals? - d.48). - Laughter and tears bring people closer together. If a child has been injured by neglecting his developmental needs, he either isolates himself and retreats (see inner emigration, d.48), or clings to other people. - The doctrine of original sin (see the Catholic Church, etc. - d.48) is one of the main causes of many repressive and cruel practices in child rearing. There is no clinical proof that children are by nature evil (i.e. for me, society and rulers are it. - If a child is abused or humiliated, he loses his openness and his confidence and his life affirmation. - Optimism (faith) and trust are the soul of intimacy. - If we seek intimacy, we have to risk - to be injured ... (J. Bradshaw)

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394 quotes from John Bradshaw: 'To truly be committed to a life of honesty, ... Without someone to reflect our emotions, we had no way of knowing who we were.' ... When these are bound by shame, you are shamed to the core.” ... Because they are unconscious, we lose touch with the shame, hurt and pain they cover up.
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