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29.06.2020 - Safety and trust and relationship addicts and Ayya Khema etc...


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You can not separate safety and trust. - When people do not feel secure, they can not build trust - nor can people feel safety - if they can not trust ...

A child must be safe from verbal, emotional, physical and sexual abuse - as well as being treated as a scapegoat ...

And a child must feel the certainty that it can openly revolt and make mistakes. - A wise man once said: "The truth will set you free - but at first it makes you unhappy" ...

The impulse to change begins inevitably with pain, but this leads to consciousness. - The inability to control and change one's own behavior is given to all the addicts - but in the case of reference to the relationship, the relevant terms are denial, irritability, and anxiety, - and to have a relation in order to feel normal. - Starting point is a condition of mental pain - which is likely to worsen by the contact ...

The addiction process can be transformed into a positive cycle by abstinence. - Narrowing is changing in humans to expansion. - People have to worry about people who are irritated by their one-sided striving, - and who can not afford to spend any time and energy on their relationships ...

Relationship addicts seem particularly susceptible to replacement behavior (excessive eating, intoxication by consuming) ...

The addictive behavior is equivalent to a local anesthetic and is an attempt to reduce anxiety and fill inner emptiness ...

It is important to accept - that this fear and this discomfort are part of it - and are natural elements of change ... (S. Covington / L. Beckett)

Leaving the Enchanted Forest: The Path from Relationship ...


Leaving the Enchanted Forest: The Path from Relationship Addiction to Intimacy. by. Stephanie S. Covington,. Liana Beckett.
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But mind and body are suffering. - The only true way is the way - that leads inward ... (Ayya Khema)

Ayya Khema - Wikipedia


Ayya Khema (August 25, 1923 – November 2, 1997) was a Buddhist teacher and was very active in providing opportunities for women to practice Buddhism, ...
Teacher‎: ‎Ven. Narada Maha Thera; (first ordin...
Died‎: ‎November 2, 1997 (aged 74)
Born‎: ‎Ilse Kussel; August 25, 1923; ‎Berlin, Ger...
Nationality‎: ‎German & American

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