Samstag, 18. Februar 2017

28.06.2019 - Condolences / S. Rinpoche and loss / J. Tatelbaum and mourning / Kübler-Ross and grief etc...


diary of dali48: 24.06.2019 - Wholefood and bowel disease / Homeopathy and ... https://dali48.blogspot.com/2017/01/07012017-wholefood3-and-bowel-disease.html?spref=tw … see dali48 on Twitter,Google,Blogspot,http://Bod.de,FB,Pinterest,StumbleUpon
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22.01.1998 - Interpretation of dali48

You know well that everything is perishable and dying - It is, therefore, only natural that your mother has now died... - The older generation usually dies first of course - Your mother was old... - and suffering... - She will not have regretted that she has had to leave her body - You can now help her very much by promoting spiritual practice and doing good deeds in her name - She will feel happy and liberated - So please do not be sad... (Tibetan letter of condolence)

A person who experiences the heavy loss of a loved one for the first time - will probably be overwhelmed by the violence of oppressive feelings (see death means 100% stress for the survivors, divorce or separation from the partner mean 90% stress etc. - d.48), such as intense grief, anger, denial, retreat, and guilt, which is suddenly expressed in it... (S. Rinpoche)

People who are mourning themselves experience a kind of death - and like someone who actually dies, they also need the certainty that the agitated emotions they experience are quite natural - You must know that the process of mourning is lengthy and often can be very agonizing, and that mourning always recurs - Mourning, which can not be expressed, on the other hand, continues for a very long time... - In the case of a sudden death, the survivors often suffer from wild, unexpected outbursts of rage and hatred, on what they think to be the cause of death - We must help them find an appropriate expression for this anger - for if it is suppressed, it can lead to chronic depression sooner or later - We must help them get rid of the anger and hatred - and to express the depth of the pain hidden behind it - Only then can they begin with the painful but ultimately healing process of letting go... - All the experienced persons in near-death, however, emphasize that they have understood the necessity of changing their lives now - Because "the task that we have here in life is more important" - To change our lives "now" - that is the turning point. Would it not be tragic if the central message of the near-death experience - that life is sacred and has to be lived with an intensity and sincerity corresponding to this sacred meaning - would be suppressed by a simple romance with the death? ... (J. Tatelbaum)

Condolences are an expression of sympathy to someone who is experiencing pain arising from death, deep mental anguish, or misfortune. The use of the word ...

Sogyal Rinpoche is a Tibetan Dzogchen Lama of the Nyingma tradition. He has been teaching for over 30 years. He travels widely in Europe, America, Australia ...

The five stages of grief in terminal illness are chronologically: denial, anger, bargaining, ... stages as reflecting how people cope with illness and dying," observed grief researcher Kenneth J. Doka, "not as reflections of how people grieve." ...



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diary of dali48: 08.10.2018 - Ecology and Environment and Interaction... http://dali48.blogspot.com/2018/10/08102018-ecology-and-environment-and.html?spref=tw … see dali48 on Twitter,Google,Blogspot,http://Bod.de,FB,Pinterest,StumbleUpon dali48 and writing books and cycling and photographing etc...

see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 and Climate Change since ca. 2000 and "Banking Crisis" 2008 and poor people and social diseases and speculation and homelessness and robots etc. - instead of UBI & Ecology - Uncontrolled capitalism produces evil as bees produce...

see dali48 and Climate Change and heat waves and dryness and burning and also floods and Hurricanes etc. - since ca. 2000 and despite Copenhagen 2009 etc. - instead of #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & UBI etc...

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