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April 26, 2010 - Couples and unrealistic Expectations... by dali48 on HP
30.04.2001 - Interpretation of dali48
If you expect to be loved only for your own sake - you will have unrealistic expectations of holding together as... - and you will feel exposed and shabby - if this is not so... (J. Abrahms / M. Spring)
Children of divorce - have more problems than children from intact families in the first 2 years after the... - This applies to school performance, conduct, psychological adjustment, self-esteem and social skills...
If your marriage turns you too much in yourself - and in being depressed - your children will also suffer from your emotional withdrawal...
People who may injure and even hate themselves at a... - can learn to love each other again - People can separate and come back together... - Human conflicts can be successfully resolved - An intimacy crisis can lead to significant changes - and to a stronger bond...
Violent conquest always wins over the course of... - and if only for a short time...
So lose those who are worshiped - compared to those who are loved...
Later, when the passion fades and conflicts... - you will see the lover and the critical partner in a more favorable... - But then there is probably no one to which you can return - I advise you to a cognitive rather than emotional decision...
If you wait to feel positive about - before it becomes a positive... - your partnership does not go very far...
A healthy, confident, competent adult:
1 Sense of safety and security - 2 Independence in daily life - 3 Solid emotional connections with others - 4 Being estimated - 5 Unrestrained self-expression - 6 Be imperfect and may have some fun - 7 To live with physical limitations...
We do not see things as they are - but as we are... (Anais Nin)
The injured partner:
The silence is not the cause of unfaithfulness of the partner - but it puts them in a position to endure what is unbearable...
Through an affair - you can direct your hatred to yourself instead to your unfaithful... - So you turn the anger that you have on the person - who destroyed your family against yourself - then you needn’t mourn the loss of the partner - who was not there for you...
Speak openly with me about your... - Do not shut - do not draw back and grab at me...
Without conflict, no nearness - Stand by your desire, or nothing more than the illusion of peace... - will remain to you... (Abrahms / Spring)
If you expect to be loved only for your own sake - you will have unrealistic expectations of holding together as... - and you will feel exposed and shabby - if this is not so... (J. Abrahms / M. Spring)
Children of divorce - have more problems than children from intact families in the first 2 years after the... - This applies to school performance, conduct, psychological adjustment, self-esteem and social skills...
If your marriage turns you too much in yourself - and in being depressed - your children will also suffer from your emotional withdrawal...
People who may injure and even hate themselves at a... - can learn to love each other again - People can separate and come back together... - Human conflicts can be successfully resolved - An intimacy crisis can lead to significant changes - and to a stronger bond...
Violent conquest always wins over the course of... - and if only for a short time...
So lose those who are worshiped - compared to those who are loved...
Later, when the passion fades and conflicts... - you will see the lover and the critical partner in a more favorable... - But then there is probably no one to which you can return - I advise you to a cognitive rather than emotional decision...
If you wait to feel positive about - before it becomes a positive... - your partnership does not go very far...
A healthy, confident, competent adult:
1 Sense of safety and security - 2 Independence in daily life - 3 Solid emotional connections with others - 4 Being estimated - 5 Unrestrained self-expression - 6 Be imperfect and may have some fun - 7 To live with physical limitations...
We do not see things as they are - but as we are... (Anais Nin)
The injured partner:
The silence is not the cause of unfaithfulness of the partner - but it puts them in a position to endure what is unbearable...
Through an affair - you can direct your hatred to yourself instead to your unfaithful... - So you turn the anger that you have on the person - who destroyed your family against yourself - then you needn’t mourn the loss of the partner - who was not there for you...
Speak openly with me about your... - Do not shut - do not draw back and grab at me...
Without conflict, no nearness - Stand by your desire, or nothing more than the illusion of peace... - will remain to you... (Abrahms / Spring)
A soulmate is a person with whom one has a feeling of deep or natural affinity. This may involve similarity, love, romance, platonic relationships, comfort, .... believing that a soulmate exists specifically for a person is an unrealistic expectation.
What Makes Love Last?, by John Gottman, is a discussion of trust, intimacy and what the ... The authors describe what Gottman calls the "Four Horsemen" of a couple's back-and-forth ... ring true, though redundancies and unrealistic expectations ('a partner's life should be an open book, without secrets') surface intermittently.
Romance is an emotional feeling of love for, or a strong attraction towards another person, and ... After the 18th century, illicit relationships took on a more independent role. .... Divine (or spiritual) romance: may include, but is not limited to these following types: realistic, as well as plausible unrealistic, optimistic as well as ...
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Don't see swallows here in Wickrath (2018) as before at Lake Unterbach where they were deeply flying before the rain, and were nearly touching my head till 2010... (dali48)
see E. Kuebler-Ross and R. Moody and Near Death Experiences - and my own experiences in the 80s and 12/2011 etc... (dali48)
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Concerning overfishing & polluting & damaging the oceans with garbage patches & ‘dead zones’ etc. - instead of e.g. www.rhinecleanup.org, see Golding & "Man produces evil - as Bees produce honey" etc... (dali48)
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Why bees etc. - are dying by the billions see pesticides and #Neonics http://bit.ly/1vJ6vI6 = 5000 times more toxic to bees than DDT etc... (dali48)
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see National Socialist tyranny and History produced evil - as Bees produced honey etc... (dali48)
see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989, of Climate Change, and for Ecology & Biodiversity since ca. 2000, and for UBI since 2008... Why is there no Basic Income in Europe etc. - instead of Hartz IV and "Banking Crisis" 2008 and neo-fascism etc.? (dali48)
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see Con Gen ShanghaiAir @CGShanghaiAir 04-11-2019 17:00; PM2.5; 48.0; 132; Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups (at 24-hour exposure at this level)...
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see bumble bees and bees again on lavender during my daily walk in the park since June 2018 etc... (dali48)
and fresh water etc. - see seagulls from the coast of the Netherlands coming for fodder in winter - see "Flora and Fauna" since ca.2000 etc...
"Where they ban private tuition and books - they also ban teachers and authors at the end" ... (dali48, 2019)
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Das grosse Neonics Desaster. Seit 1995 sind bis zu 80 Prozent der Biomasse aller Fluginsekten in NRW verschwunden http://www.farmlandbirds.net/de/content/innerhalb-der-vergangenen-20-jahre-sind-bis-zu-80-prozent-der-biomasse-aller-fluginsekten-no …
Concerning road traffic: Urban areas must be safer for pedestrians and cyclists etc... (dali48)
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On the train to the EU Parliament, the Italian Senate, the Vatican and House of Parliament during the Easter holiday. And on Friday I’ll participate in the school strike in Rome. I know it’s a holiday but since the climate crisis doesn’t go on vacation nor will we. #Climatestrike
see dali48 and Deforestation and Climate Change and #ExtinctionRebelion and Human Rights violations instead of UBI etc...
Concerning road traffic: Urban areas must be safer for pedestrians and cyclists etc... (dali48)
etc... (dali48)
see Ban of Basic Rights and Net Neutrality & Privacy - instead of saving the Internet and introducing UBI etc. (dali48, 2019)
On the train to the EU Parliament, the Italian Senate, the Vatican and House of Parliament during the Easter holiday. And on Friday I’ll participate in the school strike in Rome. I know it’s a holiday but since the climate crisis doesn’t go on vacation nor will we. #Climatestrike
see dali48 and Deforestation and Climate Change and #ExtinctionRebelion and Human Rights violations instead of UBI etc...
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