28.03.2019 - Relationships and Feelings and Solitude and Apathy etc...

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April 25, 2010 - Shame and Relationships... by dali48 on HP

29.04.2001 - Interpretation by dali48

Shame is lethal to human... - Shame drives us all into isolation and... - Shame keeps us from getting involved in... - Perhaps you have been misunderstood or ignored or openly... - Perhaps you have been even left completely... - The world can be a very dangerous... - A painful place - You have learned to play it safe... - And so you have to know what shame... - We have established limits... - When these are threatened, we panic or run away, just to make sure that we will never be... - If we do not communicate important feelings, we become prisoners of our own... - It is very painful to be rejected - It requires courage to show yourself, but the rewards far outweigh the... - Who is inwardly happy, doesn’t deal with others so... - People living with themselves and what they do in... - may also accept others better... - What we should not accept: partners who provide... - to abuse us physically, emotionally, financially or verbally, are unkind to our children, friends, pets, or families, are disloyal or dishonest and belittle our achievements... - Some of us do not trust the... - or they do not believe that love will last... - We feel guilty, vulnerable and weak, if someone loves... - We are dependent, insecure and are afraid of losing... - And all that we do not want to feel... - We are not honest with ourselves... - The only perfect person is that who is gone, you do not want or is married with someone... - Perfection exists only in our imagination - No single person will ever meet all your... - A heart and a soul - this is a fantasy that does not... - To have a successful relationship, both parties must want the same thing at the same... - If this is not the case, it also does not count what else they have in... - Relationships are always a risk, and control is the opposite of... - Control is an obstacle to feelings... - Control is manipulation and locks the doors to our... (Carter / Sokol)

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Als Bindungsangst (engl. fear of commitment; gelegentlich latein. Commitorum Metus; auch: .... In Men Who Can't Love hatten Steven Carter und Julia Sokol 1987 das düstere, brandmarkende Porträt eines Typus von beziehungsflüchtigen ...

‎„Bindungsangst“ in der ... · ‎Theoretische Inspiration ... · ‎Alternative Deutungen für ...

Apathy - Wikipedia

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... Saudade · Schadenfreude · Self-confidence · Shame · Shock · Shyness · Sorrow · Suffering · Surprise · Trust · Wonder · Worry · v · t · e. Apathy is a lack of feeling, emotion, interest, or concern about something of great importance. .... (2005) claimed that an obvious relationship between depression and apathy exists in ...

Solitude - Wikipedia

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Solitude is a state of seclusion or isolation, i.e., lack of contact with people. It may stem from bad relationships, loss of loved ones, deliberate choice, infectious ...

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see dali48 and Climate Change and heat waves and dryness and burning and also floods and Hurricanes etc. - since ca. 2000 and despite Copenhagen 2009 etc. - instead of #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & UBI etc...

Don't see swallows here in Wickrath (2018) as before at Lake Unterbach where they were deeply flying before the rain, and were nearly touching my head till 2010... (dali48)

see E. Kuebler-Ross and R. Moody and Near Death Experiences - and my own experiences in the 80s and 12/2011 etc... (dali48)

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see dali48 and Human Rights (1948), warning of neo-fascism since 1989, and of Climate Change, and for Net Neutrality & Ecology & Biodiversity since ca. 2000, and for UBI instead of HartzIV and lobby donations and wealth concentration since 2008 and against 80 000 Millions for arms etc... ...   
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10-15-2018 02:00; PM2.5; 164.0; 214; Very Unhealthy (at 24-hour exposure at this level)  Con Gen ShanghaiAir ‏@CGShanghaiAir 10-09-2018 22:00; PM2.5; 47.0; 130; Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups (at 24-hour exposure at this...

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see bumble bees and bees again on lavender during my daily walk in the park since June 2018 etc... (dali48)

see Climate Change & alternative energy as eg wind power & solar energy & ecars & solar cooker & solar lamp since the 70s etc... (dali48)

I'm against the waste of Food as long as there is no UBI and ca.1 Billion people are hungry - and there are not enough soup kitchens - and hungry animals come into town etc... (dali48)

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Das grosse Neonics Desaster. Seit 1995 sind bis zu 80 Prozent der Biomasse aller Fluginsekten in NRW verschwunden http://www.farmlandbirds.net/de/content/innerhalb-der-vergangenen-20-jahre-sind-bis-zu-80-prozent-der-biomasse-aller-fluginsekten-no …
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