Donnerstag, 31. Oktober 2024

31.10.2024 - A. Lowen and narcissistic characters / L. Bellak and the self and the body and trust etc.

dali48 and writing diary & books and cycling and photographing in the park of Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.

Each day is our whole life - from sunrise to sunset etc… (dali48) 
see dali48 and "Zen finds religion in the daily activities." (I-tuan) 
Let go of something you like, and realize how fleeting it is by living without it... (Ayya Khema) 
Buddha realized that all living beings suffer because they desire and cling ... - Peace is an inner attitude to life that consists of letting go and renunciation (see e.g. nuns & monks etc. - d.48) ... (Buddha) 
Das Leben im Daseinskreislauf ist leidvoll: Geburt ist Leiden, Altern ist Leiden, Krankheit ist Leiden, Tod ist Leiden; Kummer, Lamentieren, Schmerz und Verzweiflung sind Leiden." (Buddha)
see dali48 and Climate Change since Copenhagen 2009 etc. - "Uncontrolled capitalism is producing evil - as bees are producing honey" etc.
see dali48 and reading & writing about peace etc. - see e.g. Zen and Buddhism & Peace & Dalai Lama, Thich Nhat Hanh, Ayya Khema etc, and St Nicholas, St Hildegard, St Francis etc. (dali48)
see dali48 and eating less meat, and more fruits & veggies since the 80s etc.
Homeopathy of S. Hahnemann (ca. 200 years old) should be updated, - i.e. for me more Mother tincture & less shaking etc. (dali48)
Bilder
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08.01.2013 - Interpretation of dali48
Narcissistic characters and psychopathic personalities show a need for instant gratification - an inability to curb their desire or bear frustration ... (A. Lowen)

One can define the self as the feeling aspect of the body. You can only experience it as a feeling. One might say, "I feel myself as angry, sad, hungry, sleepy," etc. - In fact, the stress of feeling makes the statement to the expression of the self. When you place the emphasis on the "ego," it becomes an I-statement. - You can not produce a sexual reaction, a desire, a feeling of love, or even anger by will, however much one may "think" of being able to do so. - Involuntary functions such as blood circulation, digestion and breathing have a profound effect on consciousness, for they determine the condition of the organism. Depending on how the body works, one feels healthy or ill, good mood or depressed, vital or depressed, sexually aroused or impotent. - The will or the ego is unable to produce a feeling, - though they may try to dominate the feeling. The self-acceptance is the lack of the narcissists who have separated their bodies from themselves so that the libido is invested in the ego, - and not in the body or in the self. Without self-assurance - there is no self-love! - Sex is a genuine expression of love when such a sharing takes place, but it is a narcissistic act when it is lacking. - Without the confirmation and admiration of others, the narcissistic ego falls into itself, for it has no connection to self-love and is not fed by it. - Only his ego is puffed up, as he rejects the admirers just as his true self. - In fact, man has a dual identity, - a part comes from identification with the ego, the other from identification with the body and his feelings. - By not letting any strong feelings into consciousness, narcissists can treat the body as an object that is subject to the domination of their will. - But as they remain conscious of the body, they remain oriented in space and time. - Man now admires the image (facade) that he projects, and falls in love with it like Narcissus. - This love is not a love, for with the facade (illusion) the person concerned has rejected his true self as unacceptable. - The innocent can be seduced by the promise of power or love or wealth or position. - This seduction takes place in our culture continually and encourages the development of narcissistic personalities. - Smile, and the world smiles with you! - Cry, and you cry alone! - You can only release the air from an image but you can not hurt it. If madness means that it is difficult for you to adapt to the world as it is, society is crazy. - Those of us who have a sense of the past who seek stability and security, do not want to change, and do not trust in computer systems - really have difficulties in adapting ... (L. Bellak)

Alexander Lowen (December 23, 1910 – October 28, 2008) was an American physician and psychotherapist. Contents. 1 Life; 2 Bibliography; 3 See also ...
Died‎: ‎October 28, 2008 (aged 97); ‎New Canaa...
Born‎: ‎December 23, 1910; ‎New York City, New ...
Children‎: ‎Frederic Lowen

Leopold Bellak (1916–2000) was an psychologist, psychoanalyst, and psychiatrist who pioneered the famous Children's Apperception Test CAT). He also ...

31.10.2024 - Depression & traumatic events & freezing / Kübler-Ross / Depression (mood) / G. Brown / A. Bittlinger / S. Grof etc.

dali48 and menaced private teaching since 1989, and writing diary & books and cycling & photographing in Erkrath etc.

Each day is our whole life - from sunrise to sunset etc… (dali48) 
see dali48 and "Zen finds religion in the daily activities." (I-tuan) 
Let go of something you like, and realize how fleeting it is by living without it... (Ayya Khema) 
Buddha realized that all living beings suffer because they desire and cling ... - Peace is an inner attitude to life that consists of letting go and renunciation (see e.g. nuns & monks etc. - d.48) ... (Buddha) 
Das Leben im Daseinskreislauf ist leidvoll: Geburt ist Leiden, Altern ist Leiden, Krankheit ist Leiden, Tod ist Leiden; Kummer, Lamentieren, Schmerz und Verzweiflung sind Leiden." (Buddha)
see dali48 and Climate Change since Copenhagen 2009 etc. - "Uncontrolled capitalism is producing evil - as bees are producing honey" etc.
see dali48 and reading & writing about peace etc. - see e.g. Zen and Buddhism & Peace & Dalai Lama, Thich Nhat Hanh, Ayya Khema etc, and St Nicholas, St Hildegard, St Francis etc. (dali48)
see dali48 and eating less meat, and more fruits & veggies since the 80s etc.
Homeopathy of S. Hahnemann (ca. 200 years old) should be updated, - i.e. for me more Mother tincture & less shaking etc. (dali48)
Bilder
diary 3: by dali48 on twitter : Dali, 48: Amazon.de: Books
ediary4 by dali48
Amazon.de: dali48: books, biography, latest update

18.12.1998 - Interpretation of dali48
Since many depressants can not feel any grief, their suffering seems to be groundless! (D. Hell)

Depressed patients can only speak or stand in over-stressed situations in a confident therapeutic relationship when they are better treated, what they have experienced as e.g. death, illness, divorce, move, extramarital affair, labor loss, awaiting loss, indissoluble tormenting situation, etc. - Depressants have both more traumatic events and fewer new relationships. - Loneliness and lack of support make susceptible to depression!
Vulnerability factors:
lack of support, strong social commitments (several small children), no trustworthy person for problem-solving. - If a human being experiences a lack of physical pain, he also lacks a biological alarm system - which protects him from overburdening and injury. - During depression the solidification is like a protective armor around you! - The most severe despair syndromes lead to a depressed state, in which primal mistrust prevails - instead of primal trust, and sadness appears senseless (distant and at the same time boundless). - It requires extreme conditions - to extinguish the wish for binding of children!
Depression = a possibility of reaction - instead of flight or attack in danger! (M.R.A. Chance / J. Price)

Depression = ducking and freezing! - Lack of stability of the child can be caused by parents who are themselves insecure and are very frightened or under great pressure, - or that the child is not allowed to show important and binding emotions such as fear, or grief emotions trigger in the mother panic fears ... (Brown / Harris)

Depressive blockade:
Speech or lamentation, negative radiance - must not be confused with the patient's personality.

The Great Church Instructors:
Paul, Augustine, Luther, etc. - have almost all passed through a mental breakdown. Like most Shamanic healers ... (A. Bittlinger)

Regardless of any transcendental point of view, the expectation of the breakthrough from depressive despair is realistic. - It is a therapeutic tragedy that depression is treated so badly ... (Guscott / Grof)

The Kübler-Ross model, or the five stages of grief, postulates a series of emotions experienced by terminally ill patients prior to death, or people who have lost a loved one, wherein the five stages are: denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance.
Depression is a state of low mood and aversion to activity. It can affect a person's thoughts, ... significantly correlates with the likelihood of experiencing depression over the victim's lifetime. .... Lindert J, von Ehrenstein OS, Grashow R, Gal G, Braehler E, Weisskopf MG (April 2014). "Sexual ... Murray ED, Buttner N, Price BH.
George William Brown (born 1930) is a medical sociologist who works in the field of social ... Cambridge; Cambridge University Press. Brown, G.W., & Harris, T. (1978). Social origins of depression: A study of psychiatric disorder in women.
Arnold Georg Bittlinger (* 13. Juni 1928 in Edenkoben) ist deutsch-schweizerischer ... Am Ökumenischen Institut der Universität Genf war Bittlinger 1969–1970 Assistent des griechisch-orthodoxen Professors Nikos Nissiotis. ... und organisierte 1980 eine weltweite Konsultation zum Thema «Towards a Church Renewed and ...
Stanislav "Stan" Grof (born July 1, 1931) is a Czech psychiatrist, one of the founders of the field of transpersonal psychology and a researcher into the use of ...
Spouse(s)‎: ‎Brigitte Grof since April 2016
Fields‎: ‎Psychology‎, ‎psychiatry
Born‎: ‎1 July 1931 (age 88); ‎Prague‎, Czechosl...
Influences‎: ‎Otto Rank