Freitag, 15. September 2017

04.11.2019 - Children and parents / E. Heidenreich / Beauty and virtue / Time and Zen etc...


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Children are so instinctively tied to their parents and so dependent on them that the loss of parental presence and support - whether by leaving, letting financially hang, divorce, suicide, emotional abandonment - can be devastating - The stance that parents give, is indispensable to the child's spiritual well-being... - Narcissistically disturbed parents can hardly imagine how much the child needs them. In the psyche, children have only one father and one mother. Even a stepfather, no matter how competent he is, can never replace the father... (J. Covitz)

I am very tired of living in the brutality, the noise, and the muck of the cities... (E. Heidenreich, Rhine Post, 06.01.99)

And everything goes on. Somehow - A bitter, a sad record... (Mannheimer Bühne, Rhine Post, 06.01.99)

Man and plant are mortal and variable - the meaning and the essence of flowering is eternal. Beauty paired with virtue is strong - Correct handling of flowers refine the personality. Do not be careless in household and work... (Bokyo Takeda)

You only see how much time you have - if you stop believing, you have no time... (G. L. Herrigel)

Behind the narcissistic attitude of an adult can almost always be discovered - that his own healthy needs during the childhood remained unsettled. Frustration, which a child constantly feels, can be reflected in a whole series of disturbances - which in a devil circle... - also seizes the next generation... - Privacy is not a luxury, but a necessity... (J. Covitz)

... prone to disease, are missing more often in school and have less... - Narcissistically disturbed parents can hardly... - how much the child needs... (JCovitz) ...

narcissistic parent is a parent affected by narcissism or narcissistic personality disorder. Typically, narcissistic parents are exclusively and possessively close to their children and are threatened by their children's growing independence.

Elke Heidenreich (born 15 February 1943) is a German author, TV presenter and journalist. Contents. 1 Life; 2 Books; 3 Filmography; 4 Awards; 5 External links ...

Observations on the Feeling of the Beautiful and Sublime is a 1764 book by Immanuel Kant. ... True virtue is the quality of raising the feeling of humanity's beauty and dignity to a principle. When a person acts in accordance with this principle, ...
Subject‎: ‎Aesthetics

... Herrigel: Zen in der Kunst des Bogenschießens / Der Zen-Weg, Fischer Tb., ..... G. L. Müller, Hebt das sola-fide-Prinzip die Möglichkeit einer natürlichen ...

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04.11.2019 - Therapy and Democracy / Fathers and mothers / Petra Kelly etc...


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09.01.1999 - Interpretation of dali48

A therapy can help the family members to negotiate - that they work with each other and not against each other - Only by persevering perseverance can the spell of the family curse... - be broken... (J. Covitz)

The services rendered by the fathers and mothers to the children are kept so self-evident that their greatness is forgotten. Even a poor mother who neglects her child still does much for her child - Those parents who stay together offer their own human development as well as their children's best conditions - They are spurred by the irresponsible attitude and the non-action of politicians, supported by a large part of the population and tolerated by an even greater silent majority - Instead of being protected by the police - the victims were attacked and arrested (Magdeburg 1974)... - People who have escaped violence, oppression and persecution in their home country can also not defend themselves in Germany, and serve politicians and others as scapegoats... - to distract from their own inner-German problems. Violence against physically and mentally impaired people, lesbians and "gays", poor and homeless people... - has also increased dramatically - The range of attacks includes intimidation, insult, upset wheelchairs and the removal of walking aids, physical abuse, rape, robbing and the lighting of the homeless...
Good defense strategies are always:
Screaming, struggling, running away or simply refusing to do what the perpetrator demands... - For the aggressor the skin color, the disability or the sexual orientation is already the actual 'provocation' - Strong self-consciousness and offensive appearance are the best means of warding off such an attack, or of being able to make it not happen at all... - In Germany an average of every fourth married woman is raped by her husband, 35% are beaten - Only Alice Schwarzer pointed out the lack of taste to commemorate the murderer (Gert Bastian) and his victim (Petra Kelly) on the same mourning ceremony... - If we refuse to reveal the names of the perpetrators, we protect them, and not us - Shame is another component of the internalized sacrificial role. When men feel like losing control of a woman, they are often aggressive and violent... - In the first signs of controlling or violent behavior, you should immediately leave the partner. Blows are not a sign of love. Be extra careful when leaving or entering your home! - Change your ways and the times when you leave the house or return... - The risk of being raped by a friend or acquaintance is 4 times as big as being attacked by an unknown perpetrator - 1/3 of the women concerned had thought of committing suicide, 1/3 attended a therapy, 22% learned self-defense, 88% changed their life permanently because of the rape - React immediately to any unintended intimacy, to any racist or humiliating statement or comment that makes you uneasy - If your dog reacts aggressively to a man whom you meet on the way, you should take this seriously as a warning signal... (S. Graff)

Therapy only flourishes on democratic soil. Why speak collectively? .... Lee Jaffe. Marilyn Jean. Susan Johnson ...... Howard Covitz. Mary Eno. Tricia Ferrara.
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Petra Karin Kelly (29 November 1947 – c. 1 October 1992) was a German Green politician and ecofeminist activist. She was a founding member of the German ...
Political party‎: ‎Alliance 90/The Greens
Awards‎: ‎Right Livelihood Award
Died‎: ‎1 October 1992 (aged 44); ‎Bonn, Germa...
Born‎: ‎Petra Karin Lehmann; 29 November 1947; ...
Early life · ‎German Green Party · ‎Murder · ‎Notes

Stanislav "Stan" Grof (born July 1, 1931) is a Czech psychiatrist, one of the founders of the field of transpersonal psychology and a researcher into the use of ...
Spouse(s)‎: ‎Brigitte Grof since April 2016
Fields‎: ‎Psychology‎, ‎psychiatry
Born‎: ‎1 July 1931 (age 88); ‎Prague‎, Czechosl...
Influences‎: ‎Otto Rank


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