Sonntag, 25. Mai 2025

25.05.2025 - Relationship & mother, Meditation & silence, "Anchoring" & body, Reliable things, Illusions & temporary, Space & Time, 3 Questions, "Ego" & change etc.

dali48 and private tuition since 8/1983, menaced since 1989, and writing diary & books & photographing in Erkrath till 5/2010

dali48 and playing chess and stopping smoking as a sports student in Tübingen in the 70s etc.

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dali48 was born in SHA in 1948... Studies in Tübingen in 1970 etc. Teacher & Author in Erkrath, 8/1983 till 5/2010 ... retired in Wickrath since 6/2013 etc.


see dali48 and "I think - therefore I am" etc. (Descartes)
Each day is our whole life - from sunrise to sunset etc… (dali48) 
see dali48 and "Zen finds religion in the daily activities." (I-tuan) 
Let go of something you like, and realize how fleeting it is by living without it... (Ayya Khema) 
Buddha realized that all living beings suffer because they desire and cling ... - Peace is an inner attitude to life that consists of letting go and renunciation (see e.g. nuns & monks etc. - d.48) ... (Buddha) 
Das Leben im Daseinskreislauf ist leidvoll: Geburt ist Leiden, Altern ist Leiden, Krankheit ist Leiden, Tod ist Leiden; Kummer, Lamentieren, Schmerz und Verzweiflung sind Leiden." (Buddha)
see dali48 and own experiences and reading & writing about Kübler-Ross, Moody, NDE, LAL etc. 
Hands that help are holier than lips that pray! (Robert Green Ingersoll) 

see dali48 and UBI & ground pension since 2008, and inflation compensation etc.

see dali48 and Climate Change since Copenhagen 2009 etc. - "Uncontrolled capitalism is producing evil - as bees are producing honey" etc.
see dali48 and reading & writing about peace etc. - see e.g. Zen and Buddhism & Peace & Dalai Lama, Thich Nhat Hanh, Ayya Khema etc, and St Nicholas, St Hildegard, St Francis etc. (dali48)
May "God" bless you! - see dali48 and may the Saints & Guardian Angels bless you etc.!

see dali48 and eating less meat, and more fruits & veggies since the 80s etc.
see dali48 and reading & writing about chick shredding, and buying Free range eggs etc.
Homeopathy of S. Hahnemann (ca. 200 years old) should be updated, - i.e. for me more Mother tincture & less medicine shaking, and why is there no homeopathic vaccination? - see "similibus" principle etc. (dali48)
see dali48 and "I hope that Biontech (formerly in Mainz, now in London) & #mRNA #vaccines etc. - will develop a vaccination against cancer etc."
see dali48 and Vollgeld-Initiative & Basic Income in Europe etc. - instead of Banking Crisis 2008 etc.
I also like weeping willow trees - e.g. when I was on camping vacation in the 80s in France & Spain, I had my lunch (fish soup) under such a tree (that was like a tent) in the park of Bordeaux etc. (dali48)
see dali48 and "flora & fauna" since ca. 2000, and deforestation instead of planting trees etc
see dali48 and trees and "flora & fauna" and healthy air etc..
see dali48 and Bread - instead of fire-works harming animals, pets etc.
see dali48 and Democracy & human rights & gender justice etc.
"Respect for life - should be the only religion in the world!" - "Religion is a journey inside - and meditation is the way there." ... (Osho)
see dali48 and health and suitable shoes (see e.g. Canles etc. - d.48) & foot hygiene etc.
see dali48 and “If the Trees disappeared off the face of the earth - mankind would only have little left to live healthy,” see e.g. Amazonas forest, Indonesia
siehe dali48 und "Wie viel Wald verliert Deutschland aktuell pro Jahr? - Die Ergebnisse sind alarmierend: Von Januar 2018 bis einschließlich April 2021 wurden in Deutschland auf rund 501.000 Hektar Fläche Baumverluste verzeichnet. Der Verlust entspricht fast fünf Prozent der gesamten Waldfläche und ist damit erheblich höher als bisher angenommen. 21.02.2022" 
see e.g. @CGShanghaiAir Shanghai - 2023-03-06 4PM - PM2.5 - 103 AQI - Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups ... etc. 
siehe z.B. Air quality in Mönchengladbach etc.
see dali48 and trees & photo synthesis and fresh air and health and cooling and biodiversity etc.
see dali48 and "flora & fauna" and reforesting etc.
siehe „Eine Gesellschaft ohne Gott, ist wie eine gut organisierte Räuberbande“, hat Papst Benedikt den Bundestagsabgeordneten ins Stammbuch geschrieben (see e.g. Cum-Ex etc. - d.48)
see dali48 and demand for the repayment of 300 euros of self-approved inflation compensation for politicians at the taxpayer's expense etc.
see dali48 and health and herbs (see e.g. M. Mességué), and e.g. kidney-tea, gastrointestinal tea, tea for colds etc.
see dali48 and "Words have no direct reference to life, are only a pale echo or image of something that itself is no longer there" ... (D. T. Suzuki)
see dali48's mother Gabriele and playing piano in Steinbach in the 50s, see dali48 and playing piano for 1 year with Mrs Kirsch in SHA in the 50s, and Christmas songs with Mrs Takahashi in Erkrath in the 80s

see dali48 and reading about money & war, - and feeding the poor & birds etc.
In Armut lebt: Jeder 3. Student & 5. Rentner, Wer kein „Entlastungspaket“ bekommt: Studierende, Rentner ohne Grundrente, Kranke, https://pic.twitter.com/RUv88KaLbx

see dali48 & for UBI since 2008 & #ClimateEmergency 2022 & for alternative energy as e.g. wind power & solar energy and solar- 

lamp, roof, panel, cooker, window solar-foil etc. since the 70s as a student in Tübingen etc.

see dali48 and writing Tagebuch 2008 + 2009, diary3 (2010) in Erkrath, ediary4+5 (2011+2012), Collection of ediary6-12 (2013-2019) in Wickrath etc.

see dali48 and started cycling in the 1950s at the age of 4.5 in Steinbach, cycled to the St. Michael high school in SHA in the 1960s, cycled on the motorway near Freiburg on car-free Sunday during the 1973 oil crisis, 1978 cycling by tricycle to the grocery store on Kyushu in Japan, cycling in Erkrath, and around Lake Unterbach, along the Rhine in Düsseldorf and Cologne etc., 8/1983 - 5/2010, cycling by his folding-bike in Amsterdam 1998, cycling in Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
Bilder
diary 3: by dali48 on twitter : Dali, 48: Amazon.de: Bücher
Amazon.de: dali48: Bücher, Biographie, neuestes Aktualisierung

 dali48 and photographing near spa house in BAD, 8/2010

15.04.1999 – Interpretation of dali48 + update
And realizes that he has avoided a real relationship with his mother, and his spiritual path was characterized to take refuge in silence - because he was not able to ... (K. Buch, DAO 3 / 96)

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A man avoiding a real relationship with his mother can be a sign of "mommy issues" or other deep-seated emotional challenges that impact his relationships. This can manifest in various ways, including difficulties with intimacy, boundary issues, or a tendency to seek partners who resemble his mother. While not everyone with a strained relationship with their mother experiences these issues, it's worth considering the potential impact on his relationships and overall well-being. 
Potential Impact on Relationships:
Difficulties with Intimacy:
A lack of a healthy relationship with his mother can lead to difficulties forming and maintaining intimate relationships, especially with women.
Boundary Issues:
He may struggle to set healthy boundaries in his relationships, potentially leading to emotional dependence on others or feeling overwhelmed by their needs.
Seeking Familiar Patterns:
He might subconsciously seek partners who resemble his mother, either positively or negatively, in an attempt to recreate or avoid certain dynamics.
Emotional Maturity:
A poor relationship with his mother can impact his emotional maturity and ability to form healthy attachments, potentially leading to relationship difficulties. 
Possible Causes:
Absence of a Mother Figure:
If he lacked a consistent or nurturing mother figure during his childhood, it can affect his ability to form healthy relationships later in life. 
Unmet Emotional Needs:
If his mother was emotionally unavailable or unresponsive to his needs, he may struggle with emotional regulation and attachment. 
Trauma:
Experiences of abuse, neglect, or other traumatic events in his relationship with his mother can lead to deep-seated emotional issues that impact his relationships. 
Enmeshment:
Overly close or dependent relationships with his mother can create boundaries that are not healthy. 
What to Do:
Consider Therapy:
A therapist can help him explore the underlying reasons for his avoidance and develop healthy coping mechanisms.
Set Boundaries:
He needs to set clear boundaries with his mother and others to protect his emotional well-being.
Seek Support:
He should seek support from friends, family, or a therapist to navigate the challenges of his relationship with his mother.
Focus on Self-Care:
Prioritizing his own emotional needs and practicing self-care can help him heal and grow. 

The essence of meditation is in 3 areas
1 Silence, peace and...
2 Awareness, knowledge and...
3 Dedication and... (Clinic Heiligenfeld)

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The essence of meditation, while encompassing many facets, can be distilled into three key areas: focused attention, mindfulness, and non-judgmental observation. These areas, when practiced consistently, cultivate mental clarity, emotional regulation, and a deeper connection with oneself and the present moment. 
1. Focused Attention: This involves directing your mind towards a specific object, image, mantra, or sensation (like your breath). By anchoring your attention, you train your mind to stay present and resist the constant stream of thoughts and distractions. 
2. Mindfulness: This is the practice of being fully engaged in the present moment, observing your thoughts, feelings, and sensations without judgment. It's about being aware of what's happening inside and outside of you, without getting carried away by them. 
3. Non-Judgmental Observation: This involves accepting thoughts and feelings as they arise, without clinging to them or pushing them away. Instead of judging whether a thought is good or bad, you simply observe it and then return to your chosen point of focus. 
By integrating these three areas into your meditation practice, you can cultivate a more stable and focused mind, leading to improved emotional resilience, stress reduction, and a greater sense of peace. 

Especially with severe mental disorders - the lack of anchoring in the body is an essential part of... 

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The lack of "anchoring" in the body, or feeling disconnected from one's physical self, can be a significant symptom in severe mental disorders, particularly those involving psychosis or dissociation. This feeling of detachment can make it difficult to experience the world and interact with others in a grounded and meaningful way. 
Here's a more detailed explanation:
Anchoring and Grounding:
In the context of mental health, "anchoring" or "grounding" refers to feeling a sense of connection to one's body and the physical world. It's the feeling of being present in the here and now, rather than being lost in thoughts or emotions. 
Severe Mental Disorders:
Conditions like schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, and severe depression can lead to a disconnection from the body, making it difficult to feel connected to one's own sensations, emotions, and the surrounding environment. 
Dissociation:
Dissociation is a mental process that involves a sense of detachment from one's thoughts, feelings, bodily sensations, or surroundings. This can manifest as feeling like you are watching yourself from outside your body, or that your body isn't your own. 
Psychosis:
Psychosis, a state where individuals experience a loss of contact with reality, can also be associated with a lack of grounding. This can include delusions, hallucinations, and disorganized thoughts, which can further contribute to feeling detached from the body. 
Impact on Daily Life:
This feeling of detachment can significantly impact daily life, making it challenging to engage in everyday activities, build relationships, and experience emotions. 
Therapeutic Approaches:
Various therapeutic approaches, such as grounding techniques, mindfulness exercises, and psychotherapy, can help individuals develop a stronger sense of connection to their bodies and the world around them. 
For support, consider reaching out to:
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Call or text 988 in the U.S. for 24/7 crisis support. 
Lifeline Australia: Call 13 11 14 for crisis support in Australia. 

Sorry, we associate mostly change and impermanence with death, and death again with loss - What is really permanent, lasting and the most reliable? ... (Sogyal Rinpoche, DAO 3 / 96)

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In a philosophical sense, the most lasting and reliable thing is what you set up in your own mind. However, in the context of tangible items, durable materials and well-maintained objects can offer longevity and reliability. 
Examples of lasting and reliable things:
Durable Materials:
Metals like steel and gold, ceramics, and certain plastics can last for very long periods. 
Well-Maintained Items:
Items like quality tools, furniture, and clothing that are regularly cared for can provide reliable and lasting service. 
Data Storage:
Magnetic tapes, in ideal conditions, can store data for decades or even longer. 
Whole Life Insurance:
Whole life insurance policies offer the greatest predictability in future policy values, making them a secure form of insurance. 

The greatest treasure is the satisfaction of the strongest arms the stamina! ...
Spiritual warrior: has patience and... 
Wofür wird eine Stamina-Tablette verwendet? - Stamina OD Tabletten stärken das Immunsystem und beugen Nährstoffmängeln vor . Das Medikament fördert normales Wachstum und Entwicklung, gutes Sehvermögen und gesunde Augen, ein starkes Immunsystem und gesunde Haut. Es kann außerdem den Appetit anregen und die Genesung nach Krankheiten und während der Schwangerschaft beschleunigen.vor 5 Tagen
Everything is like a reflection, a mirage, a dream, an illusion! - If it happens, it certainly has its reality - yet it is also an...

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The idea that everything is a reflection, a mirage, a dream, or an illusion is a common theme in philosophy and spirituality, particularly in Buddhism and related traditions. It suggests that our perception of reality might not be as solid or permanent as we think, and that the world we experience could be a temporary or deceptive manifestation. 
Elaboration:
Reflection:
A reflection is a mirror image, suggesting that what we perceive might be a distorted or incomplete representation of something else, not a true depiction. 
Mirage:
A mirage is an optical illusion, hinting that our perception can be misleading and not always aligned with reality. 
Dream:
A dream is a fleeting and subjective experience, emphasizing the transient nature of our perceptions and the possibility of them being disconnected from reality. 
Illusion:
An illusion is something that deceives or misleads, suggesting that our senses and mind can be tricked into believing something that isn't true. 
Buddhism and Maya:
In Buddhist thought, the concept of "maya" (illusion) is central, suggesting that the world as we perceive it is a temporary and impermanent manifestation. This includes the idea that time, the self, and even our actions are not as solid as they appear. 
Philosophical Perspectives:
Philosophers like John Locke have explored the idea of primary and secondary qualities, arguing that our sense impressions are not always a direct representation of the way things truly are. 
Freedom from Illusion:
Some philosophies, like those within the Buddhist tradition, aim to free individuals from the illusion of a separate self and the perceived separation from the world, leading to a more direct and profound understanding of reality. 

The best way to keep cows and sheep under control is giving them a big pasture! - Exactly the same is valid for the mind (see Descartes and "I think - therefore I am" etc.), and...

2 things are important: the space and...

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The second most important thing, after space, could be time. Time is fundamental to everything, including the universe, and is crucial for understanding the processes that occur within space. 
Explanation:
Time and Space:
Space and time are interconnected and form the basis of the universe. Time is essential for understanding the evolution of the universe, the movement of celestial bodies, and all the events that unfold within space. 
Scientific Understanding:
Studying space and time helps scientists understand the universe and its processes, including the formation of planets, stars, and galaxies. 
Human Experience:
Time is also a vital aspect of human experience, shaping our perception of the world and our place within it. 

What have you been? - What did you get? - What difficulties did you do?

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The questions "What have you been?", "What did you get?", and "What difficulties did you do?" are not logically related and could be interpreted in different ways. Here's a breakdown of what they might mean and how they could be answered:
1. "What have you been?"
Meaning:
This question is asking about your current state or activities. It's similar to asking "What have you been doing lately?" or "What's been going on?".
Answer:
You would describe your recent activities or what's been happening in your life or work. For example, "I've been working on a new project," or "I've been enjoying the summer weather."
2. "What did you get?"
Meaning:
This question is asking about something you received or achieved. It could refer to a physical item, a result, or an accomplishment.
Answer:
You would describe what you received or achieved. For example, "I got a new laptop," or "I got a promotion."
3. "What difficulties did you do?"
Meaning:
This question is grammatically incorrect. It's likely meant to be "What difficulties have you faced?" or "What difficulties did you encounter?". It's asking about challenges or problems you've experienced (see menaced tutoring in Erkrath since 1989 etc. - d.48)!
Answer:
You would describe the difficulties you've encountered in your life or work. For example, "I've faced difficulties with my family," or "I've faced difficulties with a project deadline."

The deep desire for the “ego” is right - is stronger than his willingness to change and... (D. Boelter)

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The statement "The deep desire for the 'ego' is right - is stronger than his willingness to change" suggests that a person's strong belief in their own correctness or inflated sense of self is hindering their ability and willingness to evolve or learn. This can manifest in various ways, including resistance to feedback, difficulty admitting mistakes, and a reluctance to consider alternative perspectives. 
Here's a more detailed explanation:
Ego and Belief in Correctness:
The "ego" can be understood as a person's sense of self, including their beliefs about themselves, their abilities, and the world around them. A strong ego might lead individuals to have a firm conviction that they are always right, even in the face of contradictory evidence. 
Resistance to Change:
This belief can create a resistance to change because it feels like a threat to their self-image and sense of self-worth. Admitting a mistake or being wrong can feel like a personal attack on their ego. 
Impact on Growth:
The inability or unwillingness to change can limit personal growth and development. It can prevent individuals from learning new skills, adapting to new situations, and building healthy relationships. 
Negative Consequences:
A strong and inflexible ego can lead to various negative consequences, including conflicts, damaged relationships, and a lack of adaptability in a constantly evolving world. 
The Need for a Balanced Approach:
While a healthy sense of self is important, an overly inflated ego can be detrimental. Finding a balance between self-belief and the willingness to learn and adapt is crucial for personal growth and well-being. 
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