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24.01.2014 - Couples and Expectations and Children and Emotion etc. by dali48
dali48 and private tuition and writing books and biking around Lake Morper in Erkrath, 1983 – 2010
30.04.2001 - Interpretation of dali48
If you expect to be loved only for your own sake, you will have unrealistic expectations of holding together as couples, - and you will feel exposed and shabby, if this is not so... (J. Abrahms / M. Spring)
Children of divorce have more problems than children from intact families in the first 2 years after the separation. - This applies to school performance, conduct, psychological adjustment, self-esteem and social skills....
If your marriage turns you too much in yourself and in being depressed, - your children will also suffer from your emotional withdrawal...
People who may injure and even hate themselves at a time, can learn to love each other again. - People can separate and come back together again. - Human conflicts can be successfully resolved. - An intimacy crisis can lead to significant changes, - and to a stronger bond...
Violent conquest always wins over the course of tenderness, and if only for a short time. - So lose those who are worshiped, compared to those who are loved. - Later, when the passion fades and conflicts occur, you will see the lover and the critical partner in a more favorable light. - But then there is probably no one to which you can return. - I advise you to a cognitive rather than emotional decision...
If you wait to feel positive about before it becomes a positive act, - your partnership does not go very far...
A healthy, confident, competent adult:
1 Sense of safety and security...
2 Independence in daily life...
3 Solid emotional connections with others...
4 Being estimated...
5 Unrestrained self-expression...
6 Be imperfect and may have some fun...
7 To live with physical limitations...
We do not see things as they are - but as we are... (Anais Nin)
The injured partner:
Her or his silence is not the cause of unfaithfulness of her or his partner, but it puts them in a position to endure what is unbearable...
Through an affair, you can direct your hatred to yourself instead of to your unfaithful partner. - So you turn the anger that you have on the person who destroyed your family against yourself. - Then you needn’t mourn the loss of the partner who was not there for you...
Speak openly with me about your feelings. Do not shut, do not draw back and grab at me...
Without conflict, no nearness. - Stand by your desire, or nothing more than the illusion of peace (see better than war, etc. - d.48) will remain to you... (Abrahms / Spring)
Golden Snow
“There are so many feeling that go unheard , we hold so much inside ... I believe that there would be less divorce if couples would take the time to talk to each other , if only we could learn to set our feeling free ... Keeping feels buried inside become hateful and words come with real meaning and most times in hateful screaming at each other ... hurting each other until there seems no turning back ... either ending in divorce or in a silence of hurt and sometimes destruction of self ... children suffer untold fear and their lives are destroyed” …
24.01.2014 - Flipper and Dolphins and Ocean balance etc. by dali48
dali48 and private tuition and writing books and photographing a gold fish in Lake Morper in Erkrath till 5/2010
Interpretation of dali48
Everyone likes Flipper: Dolphins are close to the top in the ranking of the most popular animals. - Alone that makes them attractive for zoos, beyond the aesthetic mammals are capable of artistic excellence because of their intelligence. From the perspective of animal rights a fatal combination...
For a long time they request not to keep dolphins in captivity (these are ideal requests, well-intentioned, but they can also be counterproductive. - (I prefer a dolphin in captivity, who can create sympathy in humans for himself and his fellows etc., than the countless "free" dolphins who are starving by plastic waste in the oceans, and die in drifting nets or are slaughtered as competitors for food etc. - d.48)...
In freedom, the animals swim up to 100 kilometers a day - and dive up to 300 meters deep...
The now for the Oscar nominated film "The Bay" shows cruel dolphin hunts, by which 1000s of animals die (see IB Singer's comparison with Treblinka etc. - d.48)...
Only the best will be sold - for up to 150,000 dollars...
"Zoos are academic institutions in which the animals will be researched" (concerning my knowledge + experience, I guess about 25 to 33% of science as constructive, see e.g. Japanese "scientific" whale hunt etc. - d.48)... (A. Winkler)
However, currently there will be a rethink. - Adler (zoo in Munster) stressed that this had nothing to do with pressure from outside, but with his care for the animals...
According to Tanya Breining of Peta you could slowly get them used to the freedom in large outdoor pools in Israel (the Israeli example has convinced me most in a TV show where the dolphins have a loophole into the open sea, and yet voluntarily return etc. - d .48)...
"Or they are given their charity in large enclosures, for example in Holland", says Ortmüller of WDSF (I opt for the smaller evil, - a compromise in which the dolphins have greater chances for a long-term survival, etc. - d.48)... (Rhine Post, 08.03.2010)
Mongabay Series: Oceans. Report: Rising slaughter of small whales and dolphins threatens ocean balance. by Elizabeth Fitt on 6 March 2024.
25.01.2014 - World Water Day and Report 2024 and Drinking water etc. by dali48
dali48 and private tuition & writing books in Erkrath, and cycling & photographing river Rhine in Düsseldorf
Interpretation of dali48
No question: The water is scarce. - But how will we deal with that in the future? - Interview with the French economist and writer Erik Orsenna for World Water Day on March, 22. Dwindling supplies, increasing consumption, climate change expands the drylands. - Today over 1 billion people are missing access to drinking water (ca. 1 / 6 = 17% of the world population - without "fauna & flora" etc. - d.48)...
ARTE: If water (see Haiti etc. - d.48) is scarce...?
EO: Water is the most important of all raw materials (and second in comparison to the air of breathing etc. - d.48)...
ARTE: Water can also serve as leverage.
E.O: Of course... Because Turkey e.g. controls the upper reaches of the Euphrates and Tigris... Through ailing water (-pipes) large amounts of drinking water is lost around the world...
E.O: ...In 25 years, 350 million people in Egypt, Sudan and Ethiopia will fight for the Nile water (see my proposal: seawater desalination + pipelines etc. - d.48)...
ARTE: What are other risk areas?
E.O: Southern Mediterranean... Northern Mexico and the Western Himalaya... India (Ganges and Indus)... China, where it is too much in the South, and too little water in the North... (ARTE, 3 / 2010)
UN World Water Development Report 2024The UN's flagship report on water and sanitation is launched every year on World Water Day (22 March). The 2024 edition will explore the theme of 'Water for prosperity and peace'.22.03.2024
dali48 and writing and cycling and photographing in Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
https://www.facebook.com/100000452958045/videos/372377540163904/
dali48 and menaced private teaching (since 1989) and writing books & cycling & photographing in Erkrath till 5/2010.
dali48 and playing chess and stopping smoking as a sports student in Tübingen in the 70s etc.
Each day is our whole life - from sunrise to sunset etc… (dali48)
"Stay in your inner world (original) - the outside world is the false version, see e.g. hunger, illness, biodiversity, climate, inflation, war etc." - instead of 90 % tax for the richest & 3-5 € per day for the poorest people etc. (dali48)
22.05.2024 - I didn't see a bee or butterfly this year in Wickrath ... (dali48)
14.05.2024 - I saw 7 bumble bees and 1 dragonfly till now, no bee or butterfly yet in Wickrath ... (dali48)
31.03.2024 - I saw the first bumble bee on a white nettle blossom in the park of Wickrath this year ... (dali48)
21.06.2023 - I didn't see a butterfly yet in Wickrath this year ... (dali48)
I'm neither right nor left, see Salvador Dali in this context - I'm only dali48
Psychology says, Trust your intuition. It never lies.
see dali48 & FGYO / SIT, language teacher, 1975/76 in Tübingen and Lenzkirch (Black Forest), and wandering in the morning, and in Erkrath (8/1983-5/2010) cooking houseman and teaching in the afternoon, on Saturdays & compact courses during holidays etc.
"Home is not there or there. Home is within you, or nowhere." (Hermann Hesse)
see dali48 and walking and cycling etc. - and without own car in Erkrath since 2004 - and without driving in Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
"It takes few words to express the essential" - Paul Éluard
"One’s destination is never a place, but a new way of seeing things." ... (H. Miller)
"The past is pain, the future uncertainty. The present is all we have" ... (Tao Wong)
„Wer immer die Wahrheit sagt, kann sich ein schlechtes Gedächtnis leisten.“ (F. Sulzer
)
"Everything you love will probably be lost, but in the end, love will return in another way." (F. Kafka)
see dali48 and bees and CCD and neonics since ca. 2000 etc.
In "love" are the beginning and the climax - the most beautiful periods etc... (dali48)
"Time spent with cats is never wasted." (S. Freud)
Why not use sun & wind & hydrogen, and hybrid car - instead of oil and gas etc. (dali48)
"Only the present moment counts, even when the subject is the past." (R. D. Brinkmann)
"Non-sexual intimacy is therapeutic. Deep conversations, healthy silence, a unique joke from an old memory, similar interests; beautiful stuff." (@ML_Philosophy
)
see dali48 and “If the Trees disappeared off the face of the earth - mankind would only have little left to live healthy,” see e.g. Amazonas forest, Indonesia etc, see e.g. @CGShanghaiAir Shanghai - 2023-03-06 4PM - PM2.5 - 103 AQI - Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups ... etc.
see dali48 and trees & photo synthesis and fresh air and health and cooling and biodiversity etc.
Why not recreate lost Wetlands by desalinated sea water? ... (dali48)
"Half of the money for arms should go as reparation to "flora & fauna" & UBI ,,, (dali48)e money for arms
"Getting older is realizing putting yourself first isn’t selfish, it’s necessary" (@meauhlback
)
"Some people go through our lives to teach us not to be like them." ( Lev Tolstoy)
"is it ethical to hoard bread when families are starving?" (@existentialcoms
)"The goal isn’t money, the goal is to spend your days as you wish." (@ML_Philosophy
)“Give a child a good birth (if at all possible, no drugs to the mother)=1 and a good first three years, especially a good first three months, and a major part of the job of child rearing is done.” ― Arthur Janov, The Biology of Love"Be teachable. You’re not always right." (@ML_Philosophy)
"The tombstone of capitalism will later say: too much was not enough." (Volker Pispers)
see dali48 and environmental disasters & @sara_s_2020 & #Tiredearth & Manila Slum (Philippines) & Creek etc.
»Auf dem Grabstein (der Erde; d. Red.) könnte stehen: Jeder wollte das Beste – für sich.« (Siegfried Lenz)
"Smiling mobilizes 15 muscles, but sulking requires 40. Rest: smile!" (Christophe André)
"Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. And today? Today is a gift that's why they call it the present." - (@TheWordicle)
"When you realize how precious and fragile life is, it changes your whole perspective." (Ryan O’Donnell)
"A kind word can warm up to three months of winter" - Japanese proverb
"It’s better to walk alone than with a crowd going in the wrong direction." (@wise_chimp)
"It is far better to be alone, than to be in bad company." (@PsychologyDose_)
"The truth is not always beautiful, nor beautiful words the truth." - Lao Tzu
"... We get old too soon, and wise too late." (@_AhmadHijazi)
"Nothing in the world is worth turning away from what we love" - Albert Camus
I am allowed to say NO to others and YES to myself." (@Lenka49044040)
"You can only live forwards, understand life only backwards." (Søren Kierkegaard)
"Write your life - Or they'll wait till you're dead to write the lie" ... (@spectraspeaks)
see "Remove the idea that anybody else is responsible for your misery and suffering; that somebody can give meaning to your life. Accept that you are alone, born alone (premature birth, 7 months etc. - d.48), and you will die alone" ... (Osho)
"Respect for life - should be the only religion in the world!" ... (Osho)
"Religion is a journey inside - and meditation is the way there" ... (Osho)
"Silence is the way, that will bring you a new dawn, a new explosion of light, an overwhelming dance, - a dance in which the stars and the trees and the ocean will be your partners. The whole existence will be your music." (Osho)
"Zen finds religion in the daily activities." (I-tuan)
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see dali48 and nervous breakdown & psychotherapy (1 year) in Tübingen in 1974 and the ontogenetic & phyloggenetic unconscious etc.
see dali48 and dreaming & visions, see e.g. The 2004 Indian Ocean earthquake & tsunami etc, see Golden G. Snow "I journey I know it's true. I've seen the future too. In my "journey", things are not good. So much of the earth will be ... soon. I have no more to say."), and NDE and reincarnation and reading & writing ...
see scott_hurst retweeted by dali48 "If all the atheists left the USA, it would lose 93% of the National Academy of Sciences but less than 1% of the prison population" …
Spelt helps: fatigue, loss of energy, heart problems etc. (St Hilda)
Quicumque autem invenit lucem, invenit thesaurum ... But whoever finds the light finds the treasure ....(Latin proverb)
@dali48
I found this dairy of great interest and enjoyed the journey ... it is filled with well written information that covers all age groups, from history to health both in body and mind ... the why's and where's are answered in complete ... thanks dali48 for sharing ...
Thank you for sharing. Your braveness to fight illness has inspired me to face life in a different way dali48. I love the concept of living in the moment and breathing into it. This has improved my health both in body and mind.
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dali48 and writing books and cycling and photographing etc...
see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 in Erkrath etc. - instead of Ecology & Health etc. - Uncontrolled capitalism (without UBI & wealth tax) produces evil as bees produce honey, see Instead of €100 billion for armaments - €50 billion for #ClimateEmergency 2022 & UBI etc.
see @nur_Dagmar / ntv: "Global #militaryspending exceeds for the first time 2 TRILLION dollars" (2022) - instead of 1 trillion for #ClimateEmergency 2022 and basic income etc. (dali48)
see dali48 & "The already uninhabitable Earth. Today (3.7.23), Zabol in Iran recorded the highest temperature on Earth at 49.6C" (@PGDynes), see e.g. https://aljazeera.com/news/2023/6/30/out-of-time-temperature-records-topple-around-the-world, & #ClimateEmergency 2022 instead of clean air (see e.g. Shanghai Air etc.) & enough drinking water (see desalination of sea water since ca. 2000), enough trees & fish, #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy since the 70s & UBI since 2008 ("Banking Crisis") & biodiversity & health & no inflation, wars etc.
see dali48 & Heatwaves in #Europe, see #IPCC #ClimateReport, see #ClimateEmergency 2022 (https://insideclimatenews.org/.../cold-weather-polar.../ via , cold spells, #heatwave #Pakistan & #India 62°C/143°F, #Copernicus #Sentinel3 LST, dryness, #Wildfires in US & Canada, 'gigafires' & air pollution (Australia, Amazonas (#amazon #brasilien #luigicani #bäume #natur #pflanzen #säen), California, South Europe, South America, etc), floods, hurricanes, cyclones etc. since ca. 2000, loss of home in Africa, Southeast Asia & Pacific etc. - despite Club of Rome in the 70s, Copenhagen 2009, Paris 2015, Coronavirus 2020, #EarthOvershootDay 2021, #COP26, mass extinction, ecocide (https://www.stopecocide.earth/.../ecocide-due-to-biomass...), "ethnic cleansing", factory farming & zoonoses, racing in the wrong direction, see Instead of €100 billion for armaments - €50 billion for #ClimateEmergency and basic income etc. (dali48), see https://www.boell.de/.../20/wettrennen-die-falsche-richtung, see #SaveTibetSaveThePlanet, see Indigenous Climate Action etc. - instead of clean air & drinking water, enough trees & fish, #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & Basic Income (see https://eusignday.eu) & biodiversity & health & cures instead of inflation and war etc. War crimes, see e.g. Ukraine etc. - and environmental crimes, see e.g. Kuwait, 50 million tires burn etc. - should be documented & punished by the UNO etc... (dali48)
see History & Genocide of Minorities & Scapegoats - instead of @UNHumanRights and Protection of #environmentdefenders & reparation for natives etc... (dali48)
Don't see swallows here in Wickrath (2018) as before at Lake Unterbach where they were deeply flying before the rain, and were nearly touching my head till 2010... (dali48)
see dali48 and Concerning Chernobyl 1986, see sohub.io/uo63, see sohub.io/st6t, and Fukushima 2011 - see http://www.mdr.de/.../video-2362_zc-b45e8c8c_zs-6da2f47c... - see Comparison of the Chernobyl and Fukushima nuclear accidentshttps://en.wikipedia.org › wiki › Comparison_of_the_C... The following table compares the nuclear accidents at the Chernobyl (1986) and Fukushima Daiichi (2011) nuclear power plants, the only INES level 7 nuclear ... Survivors of nuclear testing should get reparation by the UN etc. (dali48)