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How much did you enjoy your childhood? - You did not see your parents laugh or see jokes and nonsense. Life was a very serious and annoying affair - It was just not fun to have fun... - There was no place in your house for it. You gave it up. It just was not possible... - Fear of leaving is becoming an obstacle for the building of a relationship - A couple always has to deal with misunderstandings or anger. The tiniest misunderstanding becomes a huge problem for adult children of alcoholics very quickly, because the issue of "leaving" becomes the focus... - Adult children of alcoholics: show an overreaction in changes that they have no influence on; constantly seek recognition and confirmation; usually have the feeling of being different from other people! - Are either overly responsible or totally irresponsible. They accept everything or give up completely. In between there is nothing. They are extremely reliable, even if it is obvious that something or someone does not deserve this reliability. However, this so-called "reliability" is mainly a consequence of fear and uncertainty. They are impulsive. They tend to be clinging to behavior without seriously considering alternative possibilities of action or possible consequences. This impulsiveness leads to confusion, self-contempt, and loss of control over their surroundings. The result is that they have to spend a tremendous amount of energy to restore the caused confusion... - You are canceling a job without making it clear to yourself that you have no other income. You marry without really knowing the other... - Your lack of patience will exacerbate all your problems. Above all, this promotes your impulsiveness and your self-condemnation... - Normal is a straightforward myth like Santa Claus and Easter bunny - What works well for you? - What is best for you? - And best for your family? - The task is to find out what you and your loved ones feel comfortable with... - You have, as you grew up, very often experienced that you have not been taken into account... - You tend to take yourself back too quickly and believe that your feelings are not worth anything... - You believe in every day again anew. If you go day after day, you can change any bad habit. The adults did not say what they meant, nor did they mean what they said... (J. G. Woititz)
Janet Beigel Geringer Woititz (March 27, 1938 – June 7, 1994) was an American psychologist and researcher best known for her writings and lectures about the adult children of alcoholic parents., Including the 1983 book, Adult Children of Alcoholics.
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