In groups and centers, they learn to appreciate again as men and to trust one's own masculine power, rather than to take a wrong recognition of women or social status symbols of success, cars and property… (W. H.)
Friendship - which is home… (K. Tucholsky)
But, learning that the other and next man is no enemy and no opponent - is the most important condition...
Physically and psychologically, the man now represents the weaker sex - Medical sociological studies show that better health of women, their longevity and greater resistance. The inability of men to express themselves emotionally - causes a number of health problems...
Do I first have to wrestle to get in touch with you as a man, and have a relationship? Do I have to seduce her - only because she is a woman? ... (John Lennon, 1980)
Nothing between man and woman is taken for granted - everything must be newly defined...
Individual growth and technological advances - now create more harm than good...
There is environmental destruction, - the threat of ecological collapse - the armament and nuclear disaster, and the exploitation of the 3rd World...
In addition to the hostess enters the “house-man” (see dali48 in Erkrath since 1983 etc.) ...
At first, feminists have discovered the housework of women as an important reality - and re-evaluated... (W. Hollstein)
13.05.2014 - Man and Anima and Emotions etc. by dali48
dali48 and cycling and photographing "flora and fauna" in the park of Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
Interpretation of dali48
The man, who knows his “anima” (see soul etc. - d.48) and lets it be living as it is - also gives space to express his emotions, his fantasies, his spontaneity and his irrational madness… (W. Hollstein)
Today are just the men the sickest - who still try to live the traditional image of strength, competitiveness and invulnerability...
The non-avowed collapse of their masculinity - provokes nervous disorders, nervous breakdown (see Tübingen in 1974 etc. - d.48), insomnia which leads to alcoholism, estrangement from their wife and children and suicidal tendencies...
In this process he experiences the other man as his “enemy”, and it is natural for him to neutralize, to take advantage and to fool him - He is aggressive and ruthless...
If a woman is in paid work - she is exposed to “the same” objectification, rationalization and feeling cool, the same leveling and depersonalization as a man...
If the man socially could act out his homoerotic desires - there would be no aggression, discontent and frustration...
The Patriarchate has also ruined the man by integrating his sexuality into technology - The man designs in such a way his own demise, and all over the world...
On behalf of the husband, it is forbidden to the child to masturbate, the last resort for pleasure. - In this context it is the mother who immediately cuts off the child’s desire according to Pilgrim. - After this sexual domestication of the man, it follows the castration of his creative independence in training and work. - Each man suffers the same. He is exposed to a person-destroying stress...
Mary Daly creates the specter of a global patriarchy, which is handed over, from male-generation to male-generation - with terror, fear and camaraderie...
The women represent the remaining, the resistant, - and the man is the one that comes and goes...
The continuity of history is made by the woman. - So are the men the weaker sex? ... (W. Hollstein)
In the male domination everywhere I see only disaster. - The man spends his time, killing himself and everything around him...
He is the destroyer. - The woman is the guardian… (H. Miller)
13.05.2014 - “Macho men” and Plague and Noise etc. by dali48
dali48 and private teaching and writing diary3 and photographing in Erkrath till 5/2010
Interpretation of dali48
But when greed begins - the mind stops… (Rhine Post, 19.11.1998)
Unsolicited telephone contact is not permitted - according to competition laws (see permanent telemarketing calls, fictitious & bullying phone calls in Erkrath since 1989 etc. - d.48)...
Just the same things that make him a “successful man” - will destroy him...
This unconscious masculinity - urges the man to the total elimination of his inner self. Its deeper answer to life is chronically self protective, suspicious and hyper-aggressive...
He destroys in order to fulfill himself and to feel safe. - Within this development, the man ends up being the loneliest creature on earth, and his “successes” are proving to be increasingly irrelevant...
He is ultimately convicted to depression and / or escape by self-destruction (see alcohol, workaholics, desire for stronger stimuli)...
The more male a man is - the more accurate it is all for him. His obsessive male eating, drinking, sleeping and working habits and his emotional reactions to that - result in destruction...
Compulsive masculinity is composed of the rigid reactions - all of which are defensive and are driven by the unconscious need, to deny fear, dependence, submission, passivity and loss of control...
This denial forces the man into a position of masculinity in the worst sense of the word, - and it effects that this masculine obsession even begins to dominate the human survival instinct...
In any challenge to his manhood, the man responds automatically, and extremely rigid - to his detriment and disadvantage...
An extreme example is the young “macho men” who risk their lives fighting for a parking space or because of an offensive remark. - Nothing else might be at stake anymore than the masculine ego...
Sex implies tenderness, empathy and eroticism - but also noise, pain and pleasure, indulgence, and explosion… (W. Hollstein)
The plague of the 20th Century is not only the over-flooding by gasoline-cars such as Robert Koch noted about 100 years ago - but even worse is the constant grueling noise by cars, leaf blowers, machinery, etc. – see e.g. Erkrath, 1989 – 5/2010, so I need not only at night, but am also forced to use half-earplugs at day during private teaching - in order to reduce the noise to an acceptable level... (dali48)
dali48 and writing and cycling and photographing in Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
https://www.facebook.com/100000452958045/videos/372377540163904/
dali48 and menaced private teaching (since 1989) and writing books & cycling & photographing in Erkrath till 5/2010.
dali48 and playing chess and stopping smoking as a sports student in Tübingen in the 70s etc.
Each day is our whole life - from sunrise to sunset etc… (dali48)
21.06.2023 - I didn't see a butterfly yet in Wickrath this year ... (dali48)
I'm neither right nor left, see Salvador Dali in this context - I'm only dali48
Psychology says, Trust your intuition. It never lies.
see dali48 & FGYO / SIT, language teacher, 1975/76 in Tübingen and Lenzkirch (Black Forest), and wandering in the morning, and in Erkrath (8/1983-5/2010) cooking houseman and teaching in the afternoon, on Saturdays & compact courses during holidays etc.
see dali48 and walking and cycling etc. - and without own car in Erkrath since 2004 - and without driving in Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
"It takes few words to express the essential" - Paul Éluard
"One’s destination is never a place, but a new way of seeing things." ... (H. Miller)
"The past is pain, the future uncertainty. The present is all we have" ... (Tao Wong)
„Wer immer die Wahrheit sagt, kann sich ein schlechtes Gedächtnis leisten.“ (F. Sulzer
)
"Everything you love will probably be lost, but in the end, love will return in another way." (F. Kafka)
see dali48 and bees and CCD and neonics since ca. 2000 etc.
In "love" are the beginning and the climax - the most beautiful periods etc... (dali48)
"Time spent with cats is never wasted." (S. Freud)
Why not use bio-methane, hydrogen, bio heating oil, e-heating oil - instead of banning oil and gas heating etc. (dali48)
"Only the present moment counts, even when the subject is the past." (R. D. Brinkmann)
"Non-sexual intimacy is therapeutic. Deep conversations, healthy silence, a unique joke from an old memory, similar interests; beautiful stuff." (@ML_Philosophy
)
see dali48 and “If the Trees disappeared off the face of the earth - mankind would only have little left to live healthy,” see e.g. Amazonas forest, Indonesia etc, see e.g. @CGShanghaiAir Shanghai - 2023-03-06 4PM - PM2.5 - 103 AQI - Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups ... etc.
see dali48 and trees & photo synthesis and fresh air and health and cooling and biodiversity etc.
Why not recreate lost Wetlands by desalinated sea water? ... (dali48)
"Half of the money for arms should go as reparation to "flora & fauna" & UBI ,,, (dali48)e money for arms
"Getting older is realizing putting yourself first isn’t selfish, it’s necessary" (@meauhlback
)
"Some people go through our lives to teach us not to be like them." ( Lev Tolstoy)
"is it ethical to hoard bread when families are starving?" (@existentialcoms
)"The goal isn’t money, the goal is to spend your days as you wish." (@ML_Philosophy
)“Give a child a good birth (if at all possible, no drugs to the mother)=1 and a good first three years, especially a good first three months, and a major part of the job of child rearing is done.” ― Arthur Janov, The Biology of Love"Be teachable. You’re not always right." (@ML_Philosophy)
"The tombstone of capitalism will later say: too much was not enough." (Volker Pispers)
see dali48 and environmental disasters & @sara_s_2020 & #Tiredearth & Manila Slum (Philippines) & Creek etc.
»Auf dem Grabstein (der Erde; d. Red.) könnte stehen: Jeder wollte das Beste – für sich.« (Siegfried Lenz)
"Smiling mobilizes 15 muscles, but sulking requires 40. Rest: smile!" (Christophe André)
"Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. And today? Today is a gift that"s why they call it the present." - (@TheWordicle)
"When you realize how precious and fragile life is, it changes your whole perspective." (Ryan O’Donnell)
"A kind word can warm up to three months of winter" - Japanese proverb
"It’s better to walk alone than with a crowd going in the wrong direction." (@wise_chimp)
"It is far better to be alone, than to be in bad company." (@PsychologyDose_)
"The truth is not always beautiful, nor beautiful words the truth." - Lao Tzu
"... We get old too soon, and wise too late." (@_AhmadHijazi)
"Nothing in the world is worth turning away from what we love" - Albert Camus
I am allowed to say NO to others and YES to myself." (@Lenka49044040)
"You can only live forwards, understand life only backwards." (Søren Kierkegaard)
"Write your life - Or they'll wait till you're dead to write the lie" ... (@spectraspeaks)
see "Remove the idea that anybody else is responsible for your misery and suffering; that somebody can give meaning to your life. Accept that you are alone, born alone (premature birth, 7 months etc. - d.48), and you will die alone" ... (Osho)
"Respect for life - should be the only religion in the world!" ... (Osho)
"Religion is a journey inside - and meditation is the way there" ... (Osho)
"Zen finds religion in the daily activities." (I-tuan)
see
see dali48 and nervous breakdown & psychotherapy (1 year) in Tübingen in 1974 and the ontogenetic & phyloggenetic unconscious etc.
see dali48 and dreaming & visions, see e.g. The 2004 Indian Ocean earthquake & tsunami etc, see Golden G. Snow "I journey I know it's true. I've seen the future too. In my "journey", things are not good. So much of the earth will be ... soon. I have no more to say."), and NDE and reincarnation and reading & writing ...
see scott_hurst retweeted by dali48 "If all the atheists left the USA, it would lose 93% of the National Academy of Sciences but less than 1% of the prison population" …
Spelt helps: fatigue, loss of energy, heart problems etc. (St Hilda)
@dali48
I found this dairy of great interest and enjoyed the journey ... it is filled with well written information that covers all age groups, from history to health both in body and mind ... the why's and where's are answered in complete ... thanks dali48 for sharing ...
Thank you for sharing. Your braveness to fight illness has inspired me to face life in a different way dali48. I love the concept of living in the moment and breathing into it. This has improved my health both in body and mind.
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see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 in Erkrath etc. - instead of Ecology & Health etc. - Uncontrolled capitalism (without UBI & wealth tax) produces evil as bees produce honey, see Instead of €100 billion for armaments - €50 billion for #ClimateEmergency 2022 & UBI etc.
see @nur_Dagmar / ntv: "Global #militaryspending exceeds for the first time 2 TRILLION dollars" (2022) - instead of 1 trillion for #ClimateEmergency 2022 and basic income etc. (dali48)
see dali48 & "The already uninhabitable Earth. Today (3.7.23), Zabol in Iran recorded the highest temperature on Earth at 49.6C" (@PGDynes), see e.g. https://aljazeera.com/news/2023/6/30/out-of-time-temperature-records-topple-around-the-world, & #ClimateEmergency 2022 instead of enough clean air (see e.g. Shanghai Air etc.) & drinking water (see desalination of sea water since ca. 2000), enough trees & fish, #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy since the 70s & UBI since 2008 & biodiversity & health & no inflation, heat waves, wars etc. see dali48 & Heatwaves in #Europe, see #IPCC #ClimateReport, see #ClimateEmergency 2022 (https://insideclimatenews.org/.../cold-weather-polar.../ via , cold spells, #heatwave #Pakistan & #India 62°C/143°F, #Copernicus #Sentinel3 LST, dryness, #Wildfires in US & Canada, 'gigafires' & air pollution (Australia, Amazonas (#amazon #brasilien #luigicani #bäume #natur #pflanzen #säen), California, South Europe, South America, etc), floods, hurricanes, cyclones etc. since ca. 2000, loss of home in Africa, Southeast Asia & Pacific etc. - despite Club of Rome in the 70s, Copenhagen 2009, Paris 2015, Coronavirus 2020, #EarthOvershootDay 2021, #COP26, mass extinction, ecocide (https://www.stopecocide.earth/.../ecocide-due-to-biomass...), "ethnic cleansing", factory farming & zoonoses, racing in the wrong direction, see Instead of €100 billion for armaments - €50 billion for #ClimateEmergency and basic income etc. (dali48), see https://www.boell.de/.../20/wettrennen-die-falsche-richtung, see #SaveTibetSaveThePlanet, see Indigenous Climate Action etc. - instead of clean air & drinking water, enough trees & fish, #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & Basic Income (see https://eusignday.eu) & biodiversity & health & cures instead of inflation and war etc. War crimes, see e.g. Ukraine etc. - and environmental crimes, see e.g. Kuwait, 50 million tires burn etc. - should be documented & punished by the UNO etc... (dali48)
see History & Genocide of Minorities & Scapegoats - instead of @UNHumanRights and Protection of #environmentdefenders & reparation for natives etc... (dali48)
Don't see swallows here in Wickrath (2018) as before at Lake Unterbach where they were deeply flying before the rain, and were nearly touching my head till 2010... (dali48)
see dali48 and Concerning Chernobyl 1986, see sohub.io/uo63, see sohub.io/st6t, and Fukushima 2011 - see http://www.mdr.de/.../video-2362_zc-b45e8c8c_zs-6da2f47c... - see Comparison of the Chernobyl and Fukushima nuclear accidentshttps://en.wikipedia.org › wiki › Comparison_of_the_C... The following table compares the nuclear accidents at the Chernobyl (1986) and Fukushima Daiichi (2011) nuclear power plants, the only INES level 7 nuclear ... Survivors of nuclear testing should get reparation by the UN etc. (dali48)