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April 28, 2010 - Sacrificed children and spiritual Sources2... by on HP

26.05.2001 - Interpretation by dali48 

We discover that we can emerge from the present reality, whenever pain... - We remove ourselves if our social or sexual relationships with partners can be... - if conversations contain unpleasant information or when we visit somewhere - where we do not want to be...
These kids discover that the power of the mind is so... - that it can successfully carry them away from physical pain - and the intensity of their fear, anger, sadness and... - They often close their emotional and physical needs safely away and out of... - in favor of an overactive intellect...
Victims see themselves as people to whom great injustice... - The world conspires against... - They feel handed in the intentions of men in their environment - In this way they rid themselves of responsibility for their... - There is always someone else to blame on the difficulty - and the victim is only suffering and bears it...
Instead of showing our anger - we are angry at ourselves, or turn it into... - The more we are lonely, the more we long for our divine origins and our totality, consciously or... - Our perception of reality can be imposed by a veil of unhappiness - depending on how much abuse we have endured... - Many of us see the world through a selective negative filter - often without being aware of it...
Somewhere deep inside we know that we're hiding - that we live a lie behind the false identity we have created - Run (protected) by our own shame, we consider ourselves more or less isolated and... - We protect ourselves from the pain that comes from relationships with other... - We hide ourselves so that no one learns the bare truth about our weaknesses (faults)...
We are afraid to fail - or be professionally abandoned in a relationship...
Just as shame, suspicion awakens in... - it feeds our fear, distrust in others, in the process of life and even in "God"...
Inner fulfillment can not be obtained from external sources... - Sobriety (everyday consciousness) shrinks, differs and says "No" - drunkenness expands, creates unity and says "Yes"...
We can reach the source of our inspiration and creativity, peace, joy and... - that we once were no longer accessible from the inside - If we get into the depths of our addiction - we're in...
Many of us do not die physically - but stay caught between the enormous despair - which tells us we should... - and the huge fear of... (W. James)

This fear of physical and/or emotional intimacy tends to show up in people's closest and ... Love is not only hard to find, but strange as it may seem, it can be even more ... Most of us say that we want to find a loving partner, but many of us have ..... to help my self esteem because apparently it's a bigcause of fear of intimacy.

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29.04.2019 - Zen and Suzuki / Cultural denial of death and Grof etc...

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May 9, 2012 - Cultural denial of Death... by on HP


21.12.2013 - Interpretation by dali48

A morning with Zen - is a good morning - every day is a good day - no matter how rough it might... - Zen is as free as a bird that flies - like the fish swimming - the lily which blooms... (D. T. Suzuki)

This cultural denial of death has meant that many of us grow up with great fear of... - Through the glorification of violent films and... - this image of death has been particularly emphasized as a frightening prospect...
Our emotional attachment to give up does not mean - that we automatically turn away from the relationships, roles, opinions or material things in our... - it is rather that we let go our need to cling to it...
Living in the present means that we must always be able to let... - and start over again... (C. Grof)

D.T. Suzuki (鈴木 大拙 貞太郎 Suzuki Daisetsu Teitarō, 18 October 1870 – 12 ... Zen Buddhism and psychoanalysis, Erich Fromm, D.T. Suzuki, and De Martino.

Stanislav Grof (born July 1, 1931, in Prague, Czechoslovakia) is one of the ... All the cultures in human history except the Western industrial civilization have ... The only plausible explanation for this situation is massive denial of death and psychological repression of everything related to it. ... Wikipedia has an article about:

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