Samstag, 25. Februar 2017

25.02.2017 - Rhesus monkeys3 and related disorders and self-healing etc...


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11.02.1998 - Interpretation of dali48

Consolation through contact was more important for the small rhesus monkeys - than consolation through food intake. We can be sure that nothing is gained in love by mere lip service - Loveful touch is therefore also a human basic need - and fundamental for a comprehensive growth...

The opposite of love is not hatred - but indifference...

But relationship problems are only a form in which injuries manifest themselves in adult life - Addiction dependency, depression, anxiety, phobias, self-mutilating behavior (eg to cut or burn), eating disorders and prostitution are some more...

While people who are not addicted to one another - quickly get out of the infatuation phase and recognize the experience as the fleeting imagination - relationship addicts are aspiring to become addicted to the constant, never-ending merging and want to lose each other in the other...

Self-love and the knowledge that love does not have to be deserved are necessary prerequisites for self-healing - A basic test for the recovery of childhood wounds and extreme dependencies is whether we can accept the idea - that we can not control others...

In fact, both (husbands) continued the main theme of workaholism - with which they masked their emotional reserve... (Covington / Beckett)


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11.07.2019 - Wise statement and relationship addicts / Children and surviving etc...


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10.02.1998 - Interpretation of dali48

Whenever you speak of a profit situation for both, make a wise statement - You say that no one wins as long as not everyone wins...
It has been pointed out that extremely permeable personal boundaries are characteristic for relationship addicts and for children - who have been subjected to emotional, physical or sexual violence...
People use sex as a physical relief from stress, anxiety, or anger, against insomnia, as a substitute fantasy for a harsh reality, to escape loneliness or a sense of alienation, to avoid talking about unpleasant feelings - and even unconsciously to control, to manipulate or to punish...
Because confidence allows dedication, which is so important for sexual encounters, trust is also the aphrodisiac for 2 people - not drugs, alcohol or love adventures... (Covington / Beckett)

As children, they have probably known no other way than to survive their incriminating environment by pure will and the restraint of emotions - That is why playfulness, laughter and crying are so important when you play the parents for your inner child again...
Friendship is a key factor - for all healthy, fulfilling love relationships... (Bergmann / Popp)

Ferry Ahrlé (* 17. Juni 1924 in Frankfurt am Main; † 4. April 2018 ebenda) war ein deutscher ... Hier entstanden seine Filmplakate u. a. zu Filmen von Federico Fellini, Ingmar Bergman, Luis Buñuel, François Truffaut und Roman Polański. .... Felix Mussil, Mischka Popp, Thomas Bergmann (2012) | Paulus Böhmer, Peter Cahn ..


Samuel Barclay Beckett (* 13. April 1906 in Dublin; † 22. Dezember 1989 in Paris) war ein ..... Yann Mével, L'imaginaire mélancolique de Samuel Beckett de Murphy à Comment c'est, Rodopi, coll. « Faux titre », 2008 (ISBN 9789042024564) ...

Olivia Barrett Covington is Sam Beckett's great-grandmother, and a widowed Southern war bride and Northern sympathizer and helped escaped slaves reach ...
Character played by‎: ‎Kate McNeil
Character description‎: ‎Dr. Sam Beckett's great ...






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