dali48 and studying and teaching in the 70s, and photographing near river Neckar during a visit in Tübingen etc.
Interpretation of dali48
Narcissistic characters and psychopathic personalities show a need for instant gratification, - an inability to restrain their desire - or to endure frustration… (A. Lowen)
You can define yourself as the emotional aspect of the body. - One can only experience the self as a feeling - One might say: “I feel myself as angry as sad as hungry and sleepy”, etc. In fact, the stress of feeling this way makes the statement to express the self. - If the emphasis is on the “ego”, it becomes a first-person statement...
You cannot create by your will - a sexual response, a longing, a feeling of love or even anger - so you "think” perhaps, it is available...
Involuntary functions like blood circulation - digestion and breathing - have a profound effect on consciousness - because they determine the state of the organism...
Depending on how the body works, - you feel healthy or ill - in a good mood or depressed - vital or depressed - impotent, or sexually aroused...
The will or the ego - is unable to generate a feeling (this can only the body do – that means to love, cherish and care for your body, etc. - d.48), though they may also try - to control the feeling (see Freud's "It" etc. - d.48)...
The self-acceptance is missing to the narcissistic people, their bodies have separated from themselves - so that the libido is invested into the ego (see the ego-illusion in Buddhism, etc. - d.48) and is not in the body or in the self. - Without self-acceptance (i.e. back into the body, etc. - d.48) there is no self-love...
Intercourse is a genuine expression of love, if such sharing takes place - but it is a narcissistic act, if sharing is missing...
Without the confirmation and admiration of others, the narcissistic ego collapses - because it is not related to self-love and is not nourished by it...
Only the ego will be inflated - since it usually rejects the admirers as well as its true self...
In fact, a person has a double identity – a part stems from identification with the ego, the other from identification with the body and its feelings...
By not allowing (see narcissists) that any strong feelings come into consciousness - they can treat the body as an object which is subjected to their will...
But as they remain aware of the body - they remain oriented in space and time...
The man now admires the image (see facade), which he projected - and falls in love with it like Narcissus...
This love is not self-love, because the image of him (see illusion) has rejected his true self - as unacceptable...
Innocent people can be seduced by the promise of power or love or wealth or position - This seduction takes place continuously in our culture and promotes the development of narcissistic personalities...
Smile and the world smiles with you! - Weep and you weep alone! - From an image, you can only let out the air, - you cannot hurt it...
If being crazy means that it is hard for you to adapt the world as it is - then the society is insane (see state of social relations and “flora & fauna” etc. - d.48)...
Those of us who have a sense of the past, and who seek stability and security - are not for change, and have no confidence in computer systems - will have real difficulties to adapt... (L. Bellak)
Golden Snow
“The body is a work of art , never to be copied by man ... each part amazing and doing its own part ... so many feelings we have ... I often wondered if others though of this until I read this BlogSpot ... love, hate, anger etc. ... our will our ego's make up a program that man will have trouble coping ... knowing all these feeling have their own right makes sense ... but to understand them all is mind blowing our emotions play so big a part of our everyday life dali48 ... what a great post this I will study it our .... thank you for sharing ...”
Depressive persons / Extreme conditions & Therapeutic tragedies etc. by dali48
dali48 and studying and teaching in the 70s, and photographing near river Neckar during a visit in Tübingen etc. Interpretation of dali48
Since many depressed persons aren’t able to feel the mourning - their suffering seems groundless… (D. Bright)
Severely depressed persons may only in improved condition in a trusting therapeutic relationship, talk about stressful situations or to admit - what they had previously lost to situations such as have experienced death, illness, divorce, relocation, extra-marital liaison, job loss expectancy, permanent agonizing situations, etc. Depressive persons have as well more loss events - and less new relationships (see vicious circle, etc. - d.48)…
Loneliness and lack of support (see alone with the grief, etc. - d.48) make you more susceptible to depression...
Vulnerability factors: lack of support (see e.g. spouse, etc.), strong social commitments (several little children, etc.), no representative for problem discussions...
If you don't feel the physical pain, so you also lack a biological alarm system - that protects you from excessive demands and injuries...
During the depression - the solidification sets as a protective armor around you...
The worst syndrome of loneliness leads to a depression-free state in which there is mistrust instead of basic trust - and sadness seems to be pointless (see lack of distance and lack of binding at the same time)...
It requires extreme conditions - to extinguish the bonding request of children…
Depression = possibility of reaction (see flight to the inside, etc. - d.48) instead of escape or attack at risk… (M. Chance / J. Price)
Depression = crouch and freezing...
Lack of stability of the child may be caused by parents who themselves are insecure and strongly scared or are under great pressure, - or that the child isn’t allowed to show important and binding emotions such as fear or sadness, because these emotions trigger panic in the mother… (Brown / Harris)
Depressive blockade: taciturnity or whining, negative charisma etc. should not be confused with the personality of the patient...
The great Teachers of the Church: Paul, Augustine, Luther, etc. - are almost all gone through a mental breakdown (see Tübingen 1974, etc. - d.48). Likewise, most shamanic healers… (A. Bittlinger)
Independent of any transcendental perspective, it is realistic - to await a depressive breakdown out of despair...
It is a therapeutic tragedy - that depression is treated so insufficiently... (Guscott / Groff)
Golden Snow
“We are robbed many times from our peaceful surroundings dali48 ... by noise ... while listening to amazing music last night it was interrupted by the sound of three four wheel drivers, raising across the field next to my home ... gone was the peaceful feelings... you are right it is a form of pollution ... our feeling are muted with the sounds of an industrious world ....”
Life & danger / Anxiety disorders & depression etc. by dali48
dali48 and menaced private tuition since 1989, and cycling and photographing in Erkrath till 5/2010
Interpretation of dali48
Not the sea (see Mother Nature, etc. - d.48) circles around the Titanic (see people, etc. - d.48), but the Titanic (see technology) circles around the iceberg (see Nature, etc), see Galileo - and the relationship between Sun and earth, etc. (dali48)
Life is dangerous, and people can be very cruel. - Every person is aware of this fact (you usually displace this fact into the subconscious, etc. - d.48), and lives yet so - as if possible dangers would be irrelevant...
These constantly increased physical states of arousal - may frequently trigger psychosomatic disorders such as tension headaches, migraines (see K. etc. - d.48), insomnia, asthma or inflammatory bowel disease (see ulcerative colitis since 1983 etc. - d.48)...(Deffenbacher / Suinn, 1987)
Only dead fish - swim with the tide… (R. Nehberg)
But withholding your own thoughts, feelings and behaviors is a great mental and physical exertion. - Not to mention over a painful experience so means a never-ending form of stress. - The only way to reduce this constant stress load is, in talking about the terrible past...
Do you obey the fear by creeping fainted, you decrease the original stress - but you pay for the retreat by some other form of emotional disturbances… (S. Leidig)
The circle of fear and avoidance: I avoid more and more - I feel helpless, it more affects partnership, work and leisure, - leads to abuse of alcohol and drugs, sadness, and depression… (Anxiety Guide)
Any attempt, to suppress the fear of physical sensations and mental nature - whether through distraction, avoidance or evasion - intensifies the anxiety problem or increases the fear response...
Some anxiety disorders can lead to long-term depression - and drug and alcohol abuse… (H.-U. Wittchen)
Among women, the fear is at the top of mental disorders - In men, alcoholism etc. after fears - is the second most common mental disorder...
Untreated anxiety disorders are almost always chronic – i.e. no cure by itself...
Panic patients have a 17-fold risk of suicide… (Coryell / Margraf)
Hyperventilation (see K. in the 90s - d.48): Let the patient breathe into a plastic bag over his mouth, and then let him exhaled air to breathe again as long till the CO2 content in the blood rises again, and he relaxes his muscles. - Calcium and sedatives help (see e.g. valerian, etc. - d.48)...
Attitudes are changed - by actions... (S. Leidig)
Golden Snow
all points so important this is true "But withholding your own thoughts, feelings and behaviors is a great mental and physical exertion"
Golden Snow
“When I read your post today I realized how true your words are quote: Life is dangerous and people can be very cruel ... we do turn away from the fact that people can be cruel .... maybe because we do not want to think that someone would be cruel to us ...
people with tender hearts are very open to abuse ... it is almost as if we are targets open for cruel acts ... we do dali48 suppress our feeling and become filled with fear and anxiety ... your thoughtful BlogSpot are a blessing for myself and others like me thank you ...”
dali48 and writing and cycling and photographing in Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
https://www.facebook.com/100000452958045/videos/372377540163904/
dali48 and menaced private teaching (since 1989) and writing books & cycling & photographing in Erkrath till 5/2010.
dali48 and playing chess and stopping smoking as a sports student in Tübingen in the 70s etc.
Each day is our whole life - from sunrise to sunset etc… (dali48)
21.06.2023 - I didn't see a butterfly yet in Wickrath this year ... (dali48)
I'm neither right nor left, see Salvador Dali in this context - I'm only dali48
Psychology says, Trust your intuition. It never lies.
see dali48 & FGYO / SIT, language teacher, 1975/76 in Tübingen and Lenzkirch (Black Forest), and wandering in the morning, and in Erkrath (8/1983-5/2010) cooking houseman and teaching in the afternoon, on Saturdays & compact courses during holidays etc.
see dali48 and walking and cycling etc. - and without own car in Erkrath since 2004 - and without driving in Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
"It takes few words to express the essential" - Paul Éluard
"One’s destination is never a place, but a new way of seeing things." ... (H. Miller)
"The past is pain, the future uncertainty. The present is all we have" ... (Tao Wong)
„Wer immer die Wahrheit sagt, kann sich ein schlechtes Gedächtnis leisten.“ (F. Sulzer
)
"Everything you love will probably be lost, but in the end, love will return in another way." (F. Kafka)
see dali48 and bees and CCD and neonics since ca. 2000 etc.
In "love" are the beginning and the climax - the most beautiful periods etc... (dali48)
"Time spent with cats is never wasted." (S. Freud)
Why not use bio-methane, hydrogen, bio heating oil, e-heating oil - instead of banning oil and gas heating etc. (dali48)
"Only the present moment counts, even when the subject is the past." (R. D. Brinkmann)
"Non-sexual intimacy is therapeutic. Deep conversations, healthy silence, a unique joke from an old memory, similar interests; beautiful stuff." (@ML_Philosophy
)
see dali48 and “If the Trees disappeared off the face of the earth - mankind would only have little left to live healthy,” see e.g. Amazonas forest, Indonesia etc, see e.g. @CGShanghaiAir Shanghai - 2023-03-06 4PM - PM2.5 - 103 AQI - Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups ... etc.
see dali48 and trees & photo synthesis and fresh air and health and cooling and biodiversity etc.
Why not recreate lost Wetlands by desalinated sea water? ... (dali48)
"Half of the money for arms should go as reparation to "flora & fauna" & UBI ,,, (dali48)e money for arms
"Getting older is realizing putting yourself first isn’t selfish, it’s necessary" (@meauhlback
)
"Some people go through our lives to teach us not to be like them." ( Lev Tolstoy)
"is it ethical to hoard bread when families are starving?" (@existentialcoms
)"The goal isn’t money, the goal is to spend your days as you wish." (@ML_Philosophy
)“Give a child a good birth (if at all possible, no drugs to the mother)=1 and a good first three years, especially a good first three months, and a major part of the job of child rearing is done.” ― Arthur Janov, The Biology of Love"Be teachable. You’re not always right." (@ML_Philosophy)
"The tombstone of capitalism will later say: too much was not enough." (Volker Pispers)
see dali48 and environmental disasters & @sara_s_2020 & #Tiredearth & Manila Slum (Philippines) & Creek etc.
»Auf dem Grabstein (der Erde; d. Red.) könnte stehen: Jeder wollte das Beste – für sich.« (Siegfried Lenz)
"Smiling mobilizes 15 muscles, but sulking requires 40. Rest: smile!" (Christophe André)
"Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. And today? Today is a gift that"s why they call it the present." - (@TheWordicle)
"When you realize how precious and fragile life is, it changes your whole perspective." (Ryan O’Donnell)
"A kind word can warm up to three months of winter" - Japanese proverb
"It’s better to walk alone than with a crowd going in the wrong direction." (@wise_chimp)
"It is far better to be alone, than to be in bad company." (@PsychologyDose_)
"The truth is not always beautiful, nor beautiful words the truth." - Lao Tzu
"... We get old too soon, and wise too late." (@_AhmadHijazi)
"Nothing in the world is worth turning away from what we love" - Albert Camus
I am allowed to say NO to others and YES to myself." (@Lenka49044040)
"You can only live forwards, understand life only backwards." (Søren Kierkegaard)
"Write your life - Or they'll wait till you're dead to write the lie" ... (@spectraspeaks)
see "Remove the idea that anybody else is responsible for your misery and suffering; that somebody can give meaning to your life. Accept that you are alone, born alone (premature birth, 7 months etc. - d.48), and you will die alone" ... (Osho)
"Respect for life - should be the only religion in the world!" ... (Osho)
"Religion is a journey inside - and meditation is the way there" ... (Osho)
"Zen finds religion in the daily activities." (I-tuan)
see
see dali48 and nervous breakdown & psychotherapy (1 year) in Tübingen in 1974 and the ontogenetic & phyloggenetic unconscious etc.
see dali48 and dreaming & visions, see e.g. The 2004 Indian Ocean earthquake & tsunami etc, see Golden G. Snow "I journey I know it's true. I've seen the future too. In my "journey", things are not good. So much of the earth will be ... soon. I have no more to say."), and NDE and reincarnation and reading & writing ...
see scott_hurst retweeted by dali48 "If all the atheists left the USA, it would lose 93% of the National Academy of Sciences but less than 1% of the prison population" …
Spelt helps: fatigue, loss of energy, heart problems etc. (St Hilda)
@dali48
I found this dairy of great interest and enjoyed the journey ... it is filled with well written information that covers all age groups, from history to health both in body and mind ... the why's and where's are answered in complete ... thanks dali48 for sharing ...
Thank you for sharing. Your braveness to fight illness has inspired me to face life in a different way dali48. I love the concept of living in the moment and breathing into it. This has improved my health both in body and mind.
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see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 in Erkrath etc. - instead of Ecology & Health etc. - Uncontrolled capitalism (without UBI & wealth tax) produces evil as bees produce honey, see Instead of €100 billion for armaments - €50 billion for #ClimateEmergency 2022 & UBI etc.
see @nur_Dagmar / ntv: "Global #militaryspending exceeds for the first time 2 TRILLION dollars" (2022) - instead of 1 trillion for #ClimateEmergency 2022 and basic income etc. (dali48)
see dali48 & "The already uninhabitable Earth. Today (3.7.23), Zabol in Iran recorded the highest temperature on Earth at 49.6C" (@PGDynes), see e.g. https://aljazeera.com/news/2023/6/30/out-of-time-temperature-records-topple-around-the-world, & #ClimateEmergency 2022 instead of enough clean air (see e.g. Shanghai Air etc.) & drinking water (see desalination of sea water since ca. 2000), enough trees & fish, #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy since the 70s & UBI since 2008 & biodiversity & health & no inflation, heat waves, wars etc. see dali48 & Heatwaves in #Europe, see #IPCC #ClimateReport, see #ClimateEmergency 2022 (https://insideclimatenews.org/.../cold-weather-polar.../ via , cold spells, #heatwave #Pakistan & #India 62°C/143°F, #Copernicus #Sentinel3 LST, dryness, #Wildfires in US & Canada, 'gigafires' & air pollution (Australia, Amazonas (#amazon #brasilien #luigicani #bäume #natur #pflanzen #säen), California, South Europe, South America, etc), floods, hurricanes, cyclones etc. since ca. 2000, loss of home in Africa, Southeast Asia & Pacific etc. - despite Club of Rome in the 70s, Copenhagen 2009, Paris 2015, Coronavirus 2020, #EarthOvershootDay 2021, #COP26, mass extinction, ecocide (https://www.stopecocide.earth/.../ecocide-due-to-biomass...), "ethnic cleansing", factory farming & zoonoses, racing in the wrong direction, see Instead of €100 billion for armaments - €50 billion for #ClimateEmergency and basic income etc. (dali48), see https://www.boell.de/.../20/wettrennen-die-falsche-richtung, see #SaveTibetSaveThePlanet, see Indigenous Climate Action etc. - instead of clean air & drinking water, enough trees & fish, #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & Basic Income (see https://eusignday.eu) & biodiversity & health & cures instead of inflation and war etc. War crimes, see e.g. Ukraine etc. - and environmental crimes, see e.g. Kuwait, 50 million tires burn etc. - should be documented & punished by the UNO etc... (dali48)
see History & Genocide of Minorities & Scapegoats - instead of @UNHumanRights and Protection of #environmentdefenders & reparation for natives etc... (dali48)
Don't see swallows here in Wickrath (2018) as before at Lake Unterbach where they were deeply flying before the rain, and were nearly touching my head till 2010... (dali48)
see dali48 and Concerning Chernobyl 1986, see sohub.io/uo63, see sohub.io/st6t, and Fukushima 2011 - see http://www.mdr.de/.../video-2362_zc-b45e8c8c_zs-6da2f47c... - see Comparison of the Chernobyl and Fukushima nuclear accidentshttps://en.wikipedia.org › wiki › Comparison_of_the_C... The following table compares the nuclear accidents at the Chernobyl (1986) and Fukushima Daiichi (2011) nuclear power plants, the only INES level 7 nuclear ... Survivors of nuclear testing should get reparation by the UN etc. (dali48)
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