dali48 and cycling and photographing "flora and fauna" in the park of Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
Interpretation of dali48
In every person who has been beaten as a child - seems to be a murderous rage to be present… (A. Lowen)
Bill (psychiatrist) was determined - not to be mad (i.e. give free rein to his anger)...
He was afraid of the potential madness in himself - as well as of the madness in others (now I know why I became a psychiatrist)...
It is interesting that psychopathic murderers are often described by those they know in their daily lives - as “nice” or “friendly” people (see hypocrisy, etc. - d.48)...
This is the face they present to hide their feelings - but it increases the tendency to explode (that is for me: Beware of too much feigned kindness, see “false friends”, etc. - d.48)...
If the overwhelming feeling is not pleasurable, the feeling of alienation can be very frightening. - We can be overwhelmed of sorrow (see heartache, etc. - d.48) as well as joy, hate as well as of love...
The following disorientation can feel like a nightmare from which you will never awake. - Man has lost touch with reality, and there are no proportions anymore (see mad = crazy, angry, etc. - d.48)...
If someone uses violence against you - you have the right to use your hand (see “self-defense”, etc. - d.48)...
Without the right to strike back when you get hit, you feel powerless and humiliated. - We have seen what effect this can have on the personality...
Despite the great freedoms (until about 3 years, etc. - d.48), which are granted to young children, or because of them, are Japanese children known for their good behavior, their obedience and their respect for the parents...
Penalties may have their place in the education of children, but in many cases they serve as an excuse for parents - to let out their repressed anger and rage...
The real madness is not let out the repressed feelings (see crying, shouting, violence, etc.), but the denial of feeling in a frozen smile, - in the pose of the “good” girl or boy...
What the narcissistic patients keep for crazy – you see their anger - is healthy in reality, if they can accept it...
The mind (see Freud’s “super-ego”, etc. – d.48) is the energetic connection between soul (see “ego/self”, etc. – d.48) and body (see the “It”, etc. – d.48)...
Sound (see e.g. cars, leaf blowers, drills, etc. - d.48) can be used to break the will or the resistance (see intimidation, persecution, psychological terror, etc. - d.48), or to produce fear - and sensory deprivation (see e.g. incubator, confinement, autism, etc. - d.48)...
We need stimulation. Too much stimulation can be just as harmful - as too little...
For the living organism is the protecting from stimulus an almost more important task - than the need for stimulus... (A. Lowen / S. Freud)
21.05.2014 - Disappointments and Frustrations etc. by dali48
dali48 and cycling and photographing "flora and fauna" in the park of Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
Interpretation of dali48
In men is power equal to sexual potency, - in women is sexual attraction equal to power… (A. Lowen)
The real sexual potency is measured by the depth of love for other people - These feelings are greatly reduced with narcissistic people...
If power arouses envy, this envy generates fear, and that leads to hostility. - People tend to distrust the powerful (and rightly so, see history, etc. - d.48), because people feel vulnerable in the face of power...
Rage has an irrational quality (see “blind rage”, etc. - d.48)...
Anger, however, is a concentrated reaction. - Rage, however, is not appropriate to the provocation: It is exaggerated. - Rage doesn’t stop even if the provocation is removed, it continues until it is exhausted...
Rage is not constructive - but destructive...
The dead feel no pain, and nothing touches them (i.e. to feel pain is a sign of vitality, etc. - d.48)...
Narcissistic people see the body as a tool of the mind, and subject to their will. - It only works in accordance with their ideas, without feelings...
A man gets into serious trouble if he is flooded with stimuli, - without that he has a way to dissipate the excess excitation...
This excitement is experienced as pain or inappetence - because the urge for removal is so strong...
When this voltage reaches the point where the person bears the pain no more - he numbs himself (e.g. with alcohol, etc. - d.48)... (A. Lowen)
The noise (see e.g. cars, etc. - d.48) is a form of pollution - which destroys peace and quiet...
In order to operate at the speed of machines, we must become like machines - which means that we must numb our bodies and deny our feelings…
TV and radio are also used to distraction. - They distract people of themselves and dissociate them from their feelings...
Driving a car is not only stressful, because you have to be constantly vigilant - but you're bombarded with constantly changing scenes...
The misery of a parent is always too much for a child. - The child cannot do anything...
Marital stress - is often compounded by the injuries, disappointments and frustrations in childhood - of both partners... (L. Bellak, New York)
Fast-trackers = “Blitz-Aufsteiger” - and when is following the flash down? ... (dali48)
21.05.2014 - Narcissistic characters and Self-acceptance etc. by dali48
dali48 and cycling and photographing "flora and fauna" in the park of Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
Interpretation of dali48
Narcissistic characters and psychopathic personalities show a need for instant gratification - an inability to restrain their desire, or to endure frustration… (A. Lowen)
You can define yourself as the emotional aspect of the body - One can only experience the self as a feeling - One might say: “I feel myself as angry as sad as hungry and sleepy”, etc...
In fact, the stress of feeling this way makes the statement to express the self - If the emphasis is on the “ego”, it becomes a first-person statement...
You cannot create by your will - a sexual response, a longing, a feeling of love or even anger, - so you "think” perhaps, it is available...
Involuntary functions like blood circulation, digestion and breathing have a profound effect on consciousness - because they determine the state of the organism...
Depending on how the body works, - you feel healthy or ill, in a good mood or depressed, vital or depressed, impotent, or sexually aroused...
The will or the ego - is unable to generate a feeling (this can only the body do, – that means to love, cherish and care for your body, etc. - d.48), though you may also try - to control the feeling (see Freud's It etc. - d.48)...
The self-acceptance is missing to the narcissistic people, their bodies have separated from themselves - so that the libido is invested into the ego (see the ego-illusion in Buddhism, etc. - d.48) and is not in the body or in the self. - Without self-acceptance (i.e. back into the body, etc. - d.48) there is no self-love...
Intercourse is a genuine expression of love, if such sharing takes place - but it is a narcissistic act, if sharing is missing...
Without the confirmation and admiration of others, the narcissistic ego collapses - because it is not related to self-love and is not nourished by it...
Only the ego will be inflated, - since it usually rejects the admirers as well as its true self...
In fact, a person has a double identity, – a part stems from identification with the ego, the other from identification with the body and its feelings...
By not allowing (see narcissists) that any strong feelings come into consciousness - they can treat the body as an object which is subjected to their will...
But as they remain aware of the body - they remain oriented in space and time...
The man now admires the image (see facade), which he projected - and falls in love with it like Narcissus...
This love is not self-love, because the image of him (see illusion) has rejected his true self - as unacceptable...
Innocent people can be seduced by the promise of power or love or wealth or position - This seduction takes place continuously in our culture and promotes the development of narcissistic personalities...
Smile and the world smiles with you! - Weep and you weep alone! - From an image, you can only let out the air, - you cannot hurt it...
If being crazy means that it is hard for you to adapt the world as it is - then the society is insane (see e.g. state of social relations, see “flora & fauna” etc. - d.48)...
Those of us who have a sense of the past, and who seek stability and security - are not for change, and have no confidence in computer systems, - will have real difficulties to adapt... (L. Bellak)
dali48 and writing and cycling and photographing in Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
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dali48 and menaced private teaching (since 1989) and writing books & cycling & photographing in Erkrath till 5/2010.
dali48 and playing chess and stopping smoking as a sports student in Tübingen in the 70s etc.
Each day is our whole life - from sunrise to sunset etc… (dali48)
21.06.2023 - I didn't see a butterfly yet in Wickrath this year ... (dali48)
I'm neither right nor left, see Salvador Dali in this context - I'm only dali48
Psychology says, Trust your intuition. It never lies.
see dali48 & FGYO / SIT, language teacher, 1975/76 in Tübingen and Lenzkirch (Black Forest), and wandering in the morning, and in Erkrath (8/1983-5/2010) cooking houseman and teaching in the afternoon, on Saturdays & compact courses during holidays etc.
see dali48 and walking and cycling etc. - and without own car in Erkrath since 2004 - and without driving in Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.
"It takes few words to express the essential" - Paul Éluard
"One’s destination is never a place, but a new way of seeing things." ... (H. Miller)
"The past is pain, the future uncertainty. The present is all we have" ... (Tao Wong)
„Wer immer die Wahrheit sagt, kann sich ein schlechtes Gedächtnis leisten.“ (F. Sulzer
)
"Everything you love will probably be lost, but in the end, love will return in another way." (F. Kafka)
see dali48 and bees and CCD and neonics since ca. 2000 etc.
In "love" are the beginning and the climax - the most beautiful periods etc... (dali48)
"Time spent with cats is never wasted." (S. Freud)
Why not use bio-methane, hydrogen, bio heating oil, e-heating oil - instead of banning oil and gas heating etc. (dali48)
"Only the present moment counts, even when the subject is the past." (R. D. Brinkmann)
"Non-sexual intimacy is therapeutic. Deep conversations, healthy silence, a unique joke from an old memory, similar interests; beautiful stuff." (@ML_Philosophy
)
see dali48 and “If the Trees disappeared off the face of the earth - mankind would only have little left to live healthy,” see e.g. Amazonas forest, Indonesia etc, see e.g. @CGShanghaiAir Shanghai - 2023-03-06 4PM - PM2.5 - 103 AQI - Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups ... etc.
see dali48 and trees & photo synthesis and fresh air and health and cooling and biodiversity etc.
Why not recreate lost Wetlands by desalinated sea water? ... (dali48)
"Half of the money for arms should go as reparation to "flora & fauna" & UBI ,,, (dali48)e money for arms
"Getting older is realizing putting yourself first isn’t selfish, it’s necessary" (@meauhlback
)
"Some people go through our lives to teach us not to be like them." ( Lev Tolstoy)
"is it ethical to hoard bread when families are starving?" (@existentialcoms
)"The goal isn’t money, the goal is to spend your days as you wish." (@ML_Philosophy
)“Give a child a good birth (if at all possible, no drugs to the mother)=1 and a good first three years, especially a good first three months, and a major part of the job of child rearing is done.” ― Arthur Janov, The Biology of Love"Be teachable. You’re not always right." (@ML_Philosophy)
"The tombstone of capitalism will later say: too much was not enough." (Volker Pispers)
see dali48 and environmental disasters & @sara_s_2020 & #Tiredearth & Manila Slum (Philippines) & Creek etc.
»Auf dem Grabstein (der Erde; d. Red.) könnte stehen: Jeder wollte das Beste – für sich.« (Siegfried Lenz)
"Smiling mobilizes 15 muscles, but sulking requires 40. Rest: smile!" (Christophe André)
"Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. And today? Today is a gift that"s why they call it the present." - (@TheWordicle)
"When you realize how precious and fragile life is, it changes your whole perspective." (Ryan O’Donnell)
"A kind word can warm up to three months of winter" - Japanese proverb
"It’s better to walk alone than with a crowd going in the wrong direction." (@wise_chimp)
"It is far better to be alone, than to be in bad company." (@PsychologyDose_)
"The truth is not always beautiful, nor beautiful words the truth." - Lao Tzu
"... We get old too soon, and wise too late." (@_AhmadHijazi)
"Nothing in the world is worth turning away from what we love" - Albert Camus
I am allowed to say NO to others and YES to myself." (@Lenka49044040)
"You can only live forwards, understand life only backwards." (Søren Kierkegaard)
"Write your life - Or they'll wait till you're dead to write the lie" ... (@spectraspeaks)
see "Remove the idea that anybody else is responsible for your misery and suffering; that somebody can give meaning to your life. Accept that you are alone, born alone (premature birth, 7 months etc. - d.48), and you will die alone" ... (Osho)
"Respect for life - should be the only religion in the world!" ... (Osho)
"Religion is a journey inside - and meditation is the way there" ... (Osho)
"Zen finds religion in the daily activities." (I-tuan)
see
see dali48 and nervous breakdown & psychotherapy (1 year) in Tübingen in 1974 and the ontogenetic & phyloggenetic unconscious etc.
see dali48 and dreaming & visions, see e.g. The 2004 Indian Ocean earthquake & tsunami etc, see Golden G. Snow "I journey I know it's true. I've seen the future too. In my "journey", things are not good. So much of the earth will be ... soon. I have no more to say."), and NDE and reincarnation and reading & writing ...
see scott_hurst retweeted by dali48 "If all the atheists left the USA, it would lose 93% of the National Academy of Sciences but less than 1% of the prison population" …
Spelt helps: fatigue, loss of energy, heart problems etc. (St Hilda)
@dali48
I found this dairy of great interest and enjoyed the journey ... it is filled with well written information that covers all age groups, from history to health both in body and mind ... the why's and where's are answered in complete ... thanks dali48 for sharing ...
Thank you for sharing. Your braveness to fight illness has inspired me to face life in a different way dali48. I love the concept of living in the moment and breathing into it. This has improved my health both in body and mind.
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see dali48 and warning of neo-fascism since 1989 in Erkrath etc. - instead of Ecology & Health etc. - Uncontrolled capitalism (without UBI & wealth tax) produces evil as bees produce honey, see Instead of €100 billion for armaments - €50 billion for #ClimateEmergency 2022 & UBI etc.
see @nur_Dagmar / ntv: "Global #militaryspending exceeds for the first time 2 TRILLION dollars" (2022) - instead of 1 trillion for #ClimateEmergency 2022 and basic income etc. (dali48)
see dali48 & "The already uninhabitable Earth. Today (3.7.23), Zabol in Iran recorded the highest temperature on Earth at 49.6C" (@PGDynes), see e.g. https://aljazeera.com/news/2023/6/30/out-of-time-temperature-records-topple-around-the-world, & #ClimateEmergency 2022 instead of enough clean air (see e.g. Shanghai Air etc.) & drinking water (see desalination of sea water since ca. 2000), enough trees & fish, #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy since the 70s & UBI since 2008 & biodiversity & health & no inflation, heat waves, wars etc. see dali48 & Heatwaves in #Europe, see #IPCC #ClimateReport, see #ClimateEmergency 2022 (https://insideclimatenews.org/.../cold-weather-polar.../ via , cold spells, #heatwave #Pakistan & #India 62°C/143°F, #Copernicus #Sentinel3 LST, dryness, #Wildfires in US & Canada, 'gigafires' & air pollution (Australia, Amazonas (#amazon #brasilien #luigicani #bäume #natur #pflanzen #säen), California, South Europe, South America, etc), floods, hurricanes, cyclones etc. since ca. 2000, loss of home in Africa, Southeast Asia & Pacific etc. - despite Club of Rome in the 70s, Copenhagen 2009, Paris 2015, Coronavirus 2020, #EarthOvershootDay 2021, #COP26, mass extinction, ecocide (https://www.stopecocide.earth/.../ecocide-due-to-biomass...), "ethnic cleansing", factory farming & zoonoses, racing in the wrong direction, see Instead of €100 billion for armaments - €50 billion for #ClimateEmergency and basic income etc. (dali48), see https://www.boell.de/.../20/wettrennen-die-falsche-richtung, see #SaveTibetSaveThePlanet, see Indigenous Climate Action etc. - instead of clean air & drinking water, enough trees & fish, #ZeroHunger, solar & wind energy & Basic Income (see https://eusignday.eu) & biodiversity & health & cures instead of inflation and war etc. War crimes, see e.g. Ukraine etc. - and environmental crimes, see e.g. Kuwait, 50 million tires burn etc. - should be documented & punished by the UNO etc... (dali48)
see History & Genocide of Minorities & Scapegoats - instead of @UNHumanRights and Protection of #environmentdefenders & reparation for natives etc... (dali48)
Don't see swallows here in Wickrath (2018) as before at Lake Unterbach where they were deeply flying before the rain, and were nearly touching my head till 2010... (dali48)
see dali48 and Concerning Chernobyl 1986, see sohub.io/uo63, see sohub.io/st6t, and Fukushima 2011 - see http://www.mdr.de/.../video-2362_zc-b45e8c8c_zs-6da2f47c... - see Comparison of the Chernobyl and Fukushima nuclear accidentshttps://en.wikipedia.org › wiki › Comparison_of_the_C... The following table compares the nuclear accidents at the Chernobyl (1986) and Fukushima Daiichi (2011) nuclear power plants, the only INES level 7 nuclear ... Survivors of nuclear testing should get reparation by the UN etc. (dali48)
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