Samstag, 1. Februar 2025

01.02.2025 - Conformity and Beliefs etc. / Isolation & other people, Solitude & “inner world” / Psychology etc.

dali48 and writing diary & books, and photographing linden trees in the park of Wickrath since 6/2010 etc.

see dali48 and "I think - therefore I am" etc. (Descartes)
Each day is our whole life - from sunrise to sunset etc… (dali48) 
see dali48 and "Zen finds religion in the daily activities." (I-tuan) 
Let go of something you like, and realize how fleeting it is by living without it... (Ayya Khema) 
Buddha realized that all living beings suffer because they desire and cling ... - Peace is an inner attitude to life that consists of letting go and renunciation (see e.g. nuns & monks etc. - d.48) ... (Buddha) 
Das Leben im Daseinskreislauf ist leidvoll: Geburt ist Leiden, Altern ist Leiden, Krankheit ist Leiden, Tod ist Leiden; Kummer, Lamentieren, Schmerz und Verzweiflung sind Leiden." (Buddha)
see dali48 and own experiences and reading & writing about Kübler-Ross, Moody, NDE, LAL etc. 
Hands that help are holier than lips that pray! (Robert Green Ingersoll) 
see dali48 and Climate Change since Copenhagen 2009 etc. - "Uncontrolled capitalism is producing evil - as bees are producing honey" etc.
see dali48 and reading & writing about peace etc. - see e.g. Zen and Buddhism & Peace & Dalai Lama, Thich Nhat Hanh, Ayya Khema etc, and St Nicholas, St Hildegard, St Francis etc. (dali48)
see dali48 and eating less meat, and more fruits & veggies since the 80s etc.
Homeopathy of S. Hahnemann (ca. 200 years old) should be updated, - i.e. for me more Mother tincture & less medicine shaking, and why is there no homeopathic vaccination? - see "similibus" principle etc. (dali48)
see dali48 and "I hope that Biontech (formerly in Mainz, now in London) & #mRNA #vaccines etc. - will develop a vaccination against cancer etc."
see dali48 and Vollgeld-Initiative & Basic Income in Europe etc. - instead of Banking Crisis 2008 etc.
I also like weeping willow trees - e.g. when I was on camping vacation in the 80s in France & Spain, I had my lunch (fish soup) under such a tree (that was like a tent) in the park of Bordeaux etc. (dali48)
see dali48 and "flora & fauna" since ca. 2000, and deforestation instead of planting trees etc
see dali48 and trees and "flora & fauna" and healthy air etc..
see dali48 and Bread - instead of fire-works harming animals, pets etc.
see dali48 and Democracy & human rights & gender justice etc.
"Respect for life - should be the only religion in the world!" - "Religion is a journey inside - and meditation is the way there." ... (Osho)
see dali48 and health and suitable shoes & foot hygiene etc.
see dali48 and “If the Trees disappeared off the face of the earth - mankind would only have little left to live healthy,” see e.g. Amazonas forest, Indonesia etc, see e.g. @CGShanghaiAir Shanghai - 2023-03-06 4PM - PM2.5 - 103 AQI - Unhealthy for Sensitive Groups ... etc. 
see dali48 and trees & photo synthesis and fresh air and health and cooling and biodiversity etc.
see dali48 and "flora & fauna" and reforesting etc.
siehe „Eine Gesellschaft ohne Gott, ist wie eine gut organisierte Räuberbande“, hat Papst Benedikt den Bundestagsabgeordneten ins Stammbuch geschrieben (see e.g. Cum-Ex etc. - d.48)
see dali48 and demand for the repayment of 300 euros of self-approved inflation compensation for politicians at the taxpayer's expense etc.
see dali48 and health and herbs (see e.g. M. Mességué), and e.g. kidney-tea, gastrointestinal tea, tea for colds etc.
see dali48 and "Words have no direct reference to life, are only a pale echo or image of something that itself is no longer there" ... (D. T. Suzuki)
see dali48's mother Gabriele and playing piano in Steinbach in the 50s, see dali48 and playing piano for 1 year with Mrs Kirsch in SHA in the 50s, and Christmas songs with Mrs Takahashi in Erkrath in the 80s
see dali48 and writing Tagebuch 2008 + 2009, diary3 (2010) in Erkrath, ediary4+5 (2011+2012), Collection of ediary6-12 (2013-2019) in Wickrath etc.

dali48 was born in SHA in 1948... Studies in Tübingen in 1970 etc. Teacher & Author in Erkrath, 8/1983 till 5/2010 ... retired in Wickrath since 6/2013 etc.


16.03.2001 - Interpretation of dali48 + update
Today you still believe you would have to adapt to your surrounding circumstances under which you live, - and probably suffer too! - In fact, your relationships make the way you behave towards life! - You alone are the cause of all the facts that determine your happiness and well-being! - All things can be done and to experience its positive course, requires a great deal of innocence. - Under innocence, I understand the absence of calculation (see e.g. necessary calculation as protection against rip off etc. - d.48), intentional behavior is an advantage to a profit's sake (see e.g. capitalistic exploitation etc. - d.48), free from the kind of corruption that affects our lives today - even if we do not perceive! ...
The vision of liberty can create fear. I think there is nothing in the world, what we fear more than solitude! - No one is happy alone! - And if we live in the feeling that we have spun ourselves from the collective adaptation, it certainly creates the impression of abandonment! - Although not the conformists have left us, we have removed ourselves from them! - But the cause of separation plays no matter for the feeling of being alone at the end! - This fear of isolation, you have to see its face - if you want to be truly free! - As a consolation I can give you that this security caused by submission, and by adaptation - is no real security, it's just the idea (illusion) of it (see e.g. infancy, see political history etc. - d.48)! ...
Set aside and, without knowing it, most people are deeply lonely, because they are separated from their self (see "alter ego", etc. - d.48)! - They do not relate to themselves, they experience themselves only in synthetic form of this entity of misconceptions, which we call our "ego"! - And by that is opened the door to all our needs, fears, anxieties, suffering and despair over the hopelessness and futility of human existence! ...
Bodies are dying then - bodies are born new! - The consciousness of all people at all times is preserved within the living being, so that death is only a drop at the edge and birth means to complete the body (folk) with new cells. Here he is, "I" (the man) and could be his “self” (= "alter ego" etc. - d.48)! ...
When he dies, the "I" dies because it is matter, based on memories that the brain stores for him, which itself is impermanent! ... (T. Fischer)

Interpretation of dali48
Solitude is a state of seclusion or isolation, i.e., lack of contact with people. - It may stem from bad relationships, deliberate choice, infectious disease, mental disorders, neurological disorders or circumstances of employment or situation (see e.g. castaways etc. - d.48)! ...
Short-term solitude is often valued as a time when one may work, think or rest without being disturbed! - It may be desired for the sake of privacy! ...
A distinction has been made between solitude and loneliness! - In this sense solitude is positive! ...
Symptoms from complete isolation, called sensory deprivation, often include anxiety, sensory illusions, or even distortions of time and perception! - However, this is the case when there is no stimulation of the sensory systems at all, and not only lack of contact with people! - Thus, by having other things to keep one's mind busy, this is avoided! ...
Still, long-term solitude is often seen as undesirable, causing loneliness or reclusion resulting from inability to establish relationships. - Furthermore, it might even lead to clinical depression. - However, for some people, solitude is not depressing. - Still others (see e.g. monks, nuns etc. - d.48) regard long-term solitude as a means of spiritual enlightenment! - Indeed, marooned people have been left in solitude for years without any report of psychological symptoms afterwards! ...
Enforced loneliness (solitary confinement) has been a punishment method throughout history! - It is often considered a form of torture! - In contrast, some psychological conditions (such as schizophrenia and schizoid personality disorder) are strongly linked to a tendency to seek solitude. - In animal experiments, solitude has been shown to cause psychosis! ...
Emotional isolation is a term used to describe a state of isolation where the individual is emotionally isolated, but may have a well functioning social network! ...
Another proven benefit to time given in solitude is the development of self! - When a person spends time in solitude from others, he may experience changes to his self-concept! - This can also help a person to form or discover his identity without any outside distractions! - Solitude also provides time for contemplation, growth in personal spirituality, and self-examination! - In these situations, loneliness can be avoided as long as the person in solitude knows that they have meaningful relations with others! ...
Solitude does not necessarily entail feelings of loneliness. - For example, in religious contexts, some saints preferred silence and found immense pleasure in their uniformity with "God". - Buddha attained enlightenment through uses of meditation, deprived of sensory input, bodily necessities, and external desires, including social interaction. - The context of solitude is attainment of pleasure from within, rather than seeking it in the external world! - In psychology, introverted individuals may require spending time away from people to recharge! - Those who are simply socially apathetic might find it a pleasurable environment in which to occupy oneself with solitary tasks! ... (Wikipedia)

What is conformity in simple words? - Conformity, the process whereby people change their beliefs, attitudes, actions, or perceptions to more closely match those held by groups to which they belong or want to belong or by groups whose approval they desire.
What is an example of conformity? - People exhibit conformity when they change their attitudes or behavior to resemble what they believe most people like them would think or do. Everyday examples of conformity include selecting clothes to match what other people are wearing and recycling newspapers because it appears that most people support recycling.
Is conformity good or bad? - When conformity occurs because of fear, concern for one's social standing, or has dangerous consequences, it may be seen as negative. However, conformity that protects the overall well-being of the group—mutually deciding to respect private property, for instance—can help societies succeed.
What is the deeper meaning of solitude? - For many people, solitude means being in a space where they can focus solely on, and connect exclusively with, themselves. These internal experiences were characterized by an inner focus, for example, by attending to one's “inner world” (see emigrating to the inside etc. - d.48), thoughts, or feelings or generally connecting to oneself.03.09.2022
What is the difference between isolation and solitude in psychology? - Solitude implies that you chose that for yourself. Isolation implies that others chose for you to be away from them.04.04.2024
Is solitude positive or negative? - Solitude (or being alone), however, can have both negative and positive effects on well-being. Time alone can increase loneliness and depression, but can also be rejuvenating, acting as a release from pressure of performing social roles (Larson, 1990; Long & Averill, 2003).19.06.2018
see dali48 and reading & writing about Psychology & Psychiatry and e.g. Freud, Adler, Jung, and Groddeck, Frankl, Fromm, Reich, and Laing, Cooper, and M. Rufer, A. Wolf-Schuler, T. Wollf, I. D. Yalom, J. Bradshaw, V. Kast, A. Lowen, W. Reich, P. Lauster, P. Schellenbaum, J. Murphy, S. Steinbrecher, E. Kübler-Ross, R. A. Moody, K. Ring, I. D. Suttie, E. Jacobson, S. Forward, H. Gastager, C. M. Steiner, W. G. Niederland, R. Funk, N. Schwartz-Salant, A. Janov, A. & M. Mitscherlich, H. König, W. Hollstein etc. 

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