Freitag, 23. Juni 2017

27.09.2019 - Forward and integrity and feelings and sacrifice etc...

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04.01.2001 - Interpretation of dali48

No man is so wise and without fear - that he always finds the right words to reject the pressure and threats of another person... - The hard truth is, every time one allows someone else to subvert one's own dignity or integrity, one demonstrates ones secret consent - and helps to get hurt...
Integrity:
I stand for the things I believe in - I do not allow my life to be determined by fear - I face people who have hurt me - I commit myself, who I am, instead of letting myself be defined by others - I keep the promises I have made to myself - I am talking about the truth - Many people confuse strong feelings with the loss of the mind... - Body, mind and feeling are intimately linked to each other - Emotional distress can greatly increase the vulnerability to headaches... - muscle spasms... - stomach, intestinal complaints... - respiratory distress... - and numerous other ailments - Emotional extortion sucks the security out of any relationship - I am sure I mean benevolence and trust - The more the level of security decreases in a relationship, the more cautious one becomes and hides more and more before ones blackmailer - Sacrifice in this game is the intimacy...
The victim no longer talks about:
Stupid and embarrassing things, grief, fear, or insecurity; Hopes, dreams, plans, goals, fantasies; Unhappy life experiences or a difficult childhood - everything that could show that the blackmailed person has changed and developed...
What remains:
Superficial chattering, annoying silence, tensions - Under the artificial calm, an ever-increasing gap opens... (S. Forward)

Emotional blackmail and FOG are terms, popularized by psychotherapist Susan Forward, about controlling people in relationships and the theory that fear, ...

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