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29.05.1998 - Interpretation of dali48

Many men transfer the need for proximity and embrace to sex - They sexualize their affective needs... - If one can not be the one who one is - and no one who really is there for you, there are no feelings, needs or desires which are okay... - Pain is a vehicle for growth and a wise teacher. Without pain the heart is hollow - The deeper the suffering intersects, the more joy you can take... - In my opinion parents have the task to be there for their children - For this reason I would not allow couples to have children before the age of 30 years...

Checklist about adult children from emotionally violent families:
Absenteeism, displacement and deception, undifferentiated emotions, loneliness and isolation, mental disorders, obsessive compulsive and addictive behavior, high degree of insecurity, intimacy problems; Loss of affect and energy; Shameful impulses and needs; Resentment-guilt-circuit; emotional Shambles; Emotions are not expressed - Taboo of silence! - Excessive control, wrong self; Empty and narcistically deprived, manipulative and arbitrary, pampered and sophisticated; Terrorized and tormented; Insatiable child within; Perfection, urgency, authoritarian; Needy and demanding; Physically or sexually abused; No emotional coping strategies - no communication skills; Injured emotional limits; Internal anger, grief, fear, joy, shame; Aggressor-victim ambiguity; Loss of inner self-unity; Entangled in concern for the feelings of others, present is phobia; Damaged by bad example; Emotional constraints (and dramatic outbreaks)...

Abandonment:
It is difficult for you to separate - You maintain relationships that have long since been broken - You hoard things and do not seem to be able to separate yourself from anybody or anything...

Undifferentiated emotions:
You never know exactly what you feel; You do not know how to express your emotions - You cry when you are angry; You are fierce when you are afraid. You somatize your feelings, i.e. You are often ill - You feel by others...

Loneliness and isolation:
You have no relation to your environment - which sometimes seems unreal to you... (J. Bradshaw)

John Elliot Bradshaw (June 29, 1933 – May 8, 2016) was an American educator, counselor, motivational speaker, and author who hosted a number of PBS ...
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